doncalypso

My girlfriend and I have been having anal sex more or less regularly for over three years now... It's an activity we definitely partake in when she is on her period and is horny.

She gets much stronger orgasms through anal than vaginal sex.

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xxSquirtxx

LOL Drakers. Funny story....Anal sex is now my current obsession - all anal, all the time! Well, not exactly, but close. Anyway, somehow my husband and I got to talking about anal sex (big surprise), and he asked me if I'd tried "Big Red" yet. I said yes. He said, "Really? Did you like it?" I nodded and smiled. He then said, "Man, I'd like to see that!" It was then I realized he was talking about the BIG "Big Red" dildo I have. I actually have two red ones, one kind of large (for me), and another monster one. HE was talking about the monster one , and I was talking about the not-so-monster one. He was allllll excited thinking about me using that other one anally. I promptly told him to stay the hell away from me with that thing!

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hey man . . don't be kocking what you haven't tried . . . and if it isn't your thing . . . then fine . . . no need to be disgusted about others finding pleasure in their sex lives . . . 45 percent of married couples do it on a weekly basis . . . just a little bit of triva on what you find so "disgusting"

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Sweetpea

hahahah Squirt . . . that is hysterical . . . one of the issues with having multiple sex toys . . . mistaken identity comes with the territory

Glad you are an anal convert . . . it's amazing once you really get into it!

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xxSquirtxx

It was quite funny, and you should have seen him working his ass off to convince me that "yeah, I bet you could do it..." Uh, no, I don't think so. It's one of those HUGE ones. The kind that practically takes two people to use.

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hahahahaha, that made me laugh out loud Squirt . . . well . . . i can see how that might pose a problem , you'd need like two guys to help handle it :P I don't blame you . . . there are some that are just too big for anal play . . . But god, i bet he was just wishing that you meant the big one . . .

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xxSquirtxx

He most certainly was. He was getting hard just thinking about it after I told him "yes," when I thought he meant the other one. Crazy guy.

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doncalypso

Here's a suggestion...

Have your husband penetrate you anally while you squat down over "Big Red" and take it vaginally. That way you can experience double penetration without having to add another man into the mix. Who knows, you might like the sensation.

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xxSquirtxx

We do DP frequently with him and my other toys. Indeed, it is a wonderful feeling.

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Man, I didn't know you had to work up to it most of the time... but then again, my g/f is into pain it seems. She found my bottle of KY (for y'know "self purposes") and started to tease me about it, then I was like "You know what we could do with that?" So, she agreed... and we hit the ground runnin. I felt bad when she started crying, but she insisted I keep going - so being that I'm a sick freak and kind of enjoy that anyhow, I did. That was 6 months ago, we've been doin it a few times weekly since then. God I love my girlfriend... well and anal sex, but that goes without saying!

drakers

That was a funny story xxSquirtxx....you have too many toys to keep track of!!! HAHA

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Resurrection... this thread is now back to life.

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Can't you get banned for resurrecting old threads like this?

Anywho, LPM and I discovered anal sex one time over a year ago, when she was on her period. As typically happens with us, when she's on her period, she's incredibly horny. And I'm horny all the time. The resulting fact is that once we tried anal the first time, and she had mindblowing clitorally stimulated orgasms from her toys, neither of us could get enough anal! There was a period of time where I was pluggin her in the butt 3-4 times a week for over a month. It got so bad that we were scared one of us might get infected somehow.

Anyway, anal sex is absolutely wonderful. We haven't had it in a long, long time. But now that I think about it, I don't see any reasons why we shouldn't.

abaya

My bf and I tried anal for the first time last week, and I could use some feedback from you guys. I enjoy his fingers in my ass and I kept thinking, "I want his cock in there!", so I finally told him. I think he was a bit excited.

We have a strap-on set, since I told him I wouldn't do anal unless I did it on him first... So he used the smallest dildo, then the bigger one, and then finally his cock (all at my own pace)... and while his dick went in much smoother than I expected, prob from the gradual stretching and his gentleness, I found that I didn't enjoy the thrusting very much. He was going quite slow, and I tried to relax as much as possible... but somehow it still didn't feel fantastic going in and out.

Does anyone have suggestions for how to make it more enjoyable? I don't believe that you either love it or you don't, since pretty much anyone's likes/dislikes are culturally/socially programmed. Anyone should be able to love it, I figure, as technically there shouldn't be anything painful about it, right? We used lots of lube... but I found that it hurt a bit more at the top of the thrust when the head of his dick would bump into the inside of my butt hole. We tried it again a week later and it still hurt a bit... not excruciating, but after a short while I really wanted him to finish fast so that he could get it out of my ass.

He is very patient and says we don't have to do it if it doesn't feel good, but I WANT it to feel good! So, any tips??

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xxSquirtxx

Abaya - what position(s) were you in when doing anal? Perhaps you need to find the position that is the most pleasurable. For me, that's on my knees - ass up, head down. What about clitoral stimulation? That really helps to "loosen" you up. And tell him not to pull out so far as to make his head bump you where you don't want it to. It may take a bit of practice before he can go all the way in as well.

Oh, practice on yourself with your bigger dildos when you can. That will keep you nice and stretched out just enough so that when he enters you, it will be more comfortable (hopefully!). And besides that, it's fun.

abaya

Thanks Squirt. I was in the same position as you, though maybe a bit flatter on my stomach. I also had a bullet/egg vibe going on my clit to help me relax, too... it did help, but the batteries got low on the second time so it lost some usefulness there. I did tell him to not pull out too far, but I could still feel it. I guess we just need to practice.

Maybe I will try the bigger dildoes... but I feel like it might be hard to reach around and get everything positioned by myself. It was easy when he was sliding them in since he can see everything back there, but do you use a mirror or just sit down on it, or... ?

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xxSquirtxx

Well, admittedly it's much easier to reach around with the smaller toys; however, as they get bigger, it can become a bit more challenging - depending on the position, I suppose. With the large one, I get on my knees, torso upright, and basically squat down on it.

ChasingAmy

My wife and I started into this about a year ago. It was something that I had always wanted to do, so up until that point we made jokes and "poked" fun at the subject. Then one night we decided to try it. It was amazing. Still is. She really enjoys the thrusting, begs for it harder and faster. Drives me nuts. And like most women the orgasms are much much better. At least in the sense that it is a different sensation while climaxing.

She too likes the dp. Right now she likes it doggy style with me in her pussy and one of our toys in her ass. There is no stop to her moaning when we are doing that. I love that woman.

Also found out that she likes to watch porn... and her fav is Anal! Double score!

Cheers! And cheers to all the ladies of TFP that love the anal action! Your men love you for it!

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xxSquirtxx

I admit that I gravitate toward anal porn.

ChasingAmy

God bless you!

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I'll fight you for her

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O.O I <3 Anal O.O

CrAzEd

I'll fight you both

h45e

My GF hates anal (when we talk about it) but when we do it, (she alows me) she goes harder, faster, deeper etc..
I honestly dont know if she likes it or not.

wolf

My wife isn't all that into it. Occasionally we do it and she cums really hard, but I think it is the preconvieved notion of the whole thing. Catholics feel guilt for just about everything.

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doncalypso

She likes it... just too squeamish to admit it to herself.

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tres

I've recently discoverd that my SO cums a whole lot harder if i stick my finger in her ass just when she starts cumming... I just hope this will open some "doors" in the future, and I'm glad that I'm making her feel. "Damn good" in her words...

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xxSquirtxx

Ooo....maybe it's time to buy a small toy and introduce that into your sex play.

tres

How much do you cost?

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LMAO

Totally unexpected response, there, Tres.

rsleepers

i tried anal with my girl last year and it was extremely unpleasant for me the first time then we kept trying and even bought lube the second time she really enjoyed it but it was still uncomfortable for her but even more so for me but the third time she finally relaxed and let it happen when she relaxed it made it all the more pleasureable for me

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squirrelyburt

My wife and I did anal about 4 years ago, was, and still is, kind of a turn on for me. She asks for it every now and then. I don't think it would be as much of a turn on if it were an every time thing, I like the pink a lot, but sure is a great change now and then.

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doncalypso

You should've used more lube.

I don't see how anal could be unpleasant for a guy unless you end up with a load of feces on your dick. Trust me, nothing beats the pleasure of cumming inside a hot tight ass.

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Gatorade Frost

The girlfriend's going to be in town in a few days so we might try it then, I'm pretty stoked. I'll be back later with stories, though she's not here for another 10 days or so.

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abaya

Okay, I am calling up this thread from the dead...

Ktspktsp and I tried anal again on Saturday, and I finally enjoyed it!!!

We tried it twice last spring, but both times felt very uncomfortable and almost painful. I was trying very hard to relax but just couldn't do it... even though he started with fingers, then moved to dildoes, then dick... with lots of lube... but it was still too much for me.

We tried it again sometime in December, when I was drunk... and damn, I was so relaxed that we didn't even need to progress through the dildoes. He put in his cock and I could actually take it, though I was't enjoying it yet. At least I could tolerate it. This happened again a couple of weeks ago when I was feeling particularly relaxed and lazy... wanted to let him try again. It wasn't uncomfortable at all, and him giving me a good vibrator helped me stay relaxed.

Finally, last weekend we tried it again, and this time he warmed me up with a very productive hand reaching around to my clit (I was on my stomach). He kept this going the whole time, and though it was slightly uncomfortable at first (as usual), I relaxed as he kept working his hand and the dick. I thought I was going to cum just from the manual stimulation alone... it was so intense that I didn't care which hole his dick was in. It felt GOOD. I was so glad to finally be able to enjoy full-on anal... it has taken a long time to get myself used to it!!

Now, I wouldn't say I'll be begging for it daily, since I just like to be fucked vaginally most of the time. But now that anal doesn't hurt and might even feel good (as long as he keeps up the excellent manual work) I feel more comfortable about trying it once in a while.

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Sweetpea

Woot! Good for you two

I highly sing the prasies of anal sex... it *can* be very enjoyable if done right... and as you noted Abaya... being relaxed IS the key to having fun with it and loving it...
Trust me, once you get used to it and don't even tense up a little bit... you'll be able to have him put his whole dick in without much warm up at all...

It's on the menu for my sex life, and although i don't order it every day, it's certainly something i'm up for say every three weeks or so... and hubby is Thrilled everytime i say, wanna try anal tonight baby?!

Congrats for being brave enough to explore your sexuality, i hope more women follow in your footsteps... focus on relaxing and go for it when the mood strikes you and trust me... you'll have the most intense orgasms of your life

thanks for sharing your experiences



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One thing you should keep in mind is that if it hurts her, over time it can cause tears and rips in that area. You don't want those issues when you're older.

That being said, I used to have anal sex like everyday for three months. It was amazing, but I think I'm "anal-ed" out.