re-starting relationships
 

i'm single again right now... and there was a girl i meet afew months ago, we talked alot online first, then we were really anxious to go out, after afew times we got caught up more with school and work and drifted apart... i want to try and get it going again between us and don't really know how... we havn't meet up in awhile and our online chats have been more sparing with me starting almost all of the online conversations... we don't even have plans to meet over x-mas break... were both just as single now as we were when we meet

anyone got suggestions on flirting and restarting relationships??? or should i just walk away and forget about her?

if the spark fizzled while it lasted, it may be a sign that she just wasn't all that interested. it takes two to make something happen, so if you were trying, then it's pretty obvious that she wasn't. i say move on and see what else you can find out there.

I would say, go for it, but stop being so weak about it.
If you just give up, you will be thinking about this for a long time.
So call her, email, or go visit, and just say, “I am interested in starting something.”
What is the worst that will happen? If she shoots you down, you can get over it now and move on. Do not waste time going over this stuff, if she is interested you will find out, if she is not you can get it off your mind.

a week or soo ago she was begging on my leg for sex and telling me about how she really loved me.... but that was under alcholol, and she refuses to talk to me about it

She's probably embarassed about the begging for sex thing.
I'd recommend pretending it never happened (unless she brings it up).

"Hey, <$NameOfGirl>. I can't believe how much mid-term exams killed my social life. Now I've got all this free time and nothing to do with it. What are you up to? Feel like going to see a movie or something?"

:thumbsup: i've got though all of that except the movie part now..... soo far things are pointed in the right direction, but still miles away

Ask her if she would like to meet you at a coffee shop or some other hangout place. The greatest regret is the regret of inaction.

Best advice in this thread.

If you want to hang out with her, just tell her. You are going to take her down that road eventually *insert the rest of the swingers speech here*

thanks for the help guys :thumbsup:


i got her talking up alot, next time i'm i see her i'll ask her out to do something :D

ok - so I'll state the obvious as tasteless as it may sound. How about taking her for a few drinks again?? Of course, it's up to you to then give her a night that she won't have the option of not talking about... Just be a gentleman in the morning!