HisHotness

All meeting people off the internet stories are welcome, but I'm especially interested - and curious - about stories where people have met up just to have sex. I'm just wondering if anyone has actually met people off of those adult personals websites. Tell us was it good, bad, would you do it again, still doing it, etc.

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DEI37

Yes, we have met couples off of the various sites on the internet for sex. It's fun. We still do it, too.

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Billy Ocean

I met a girl once and we ended up having sex and smoking weed in the parking lot of the restaurant we met at. It was hot but I wish we'd gone to my house or a hotel... I realy wanted to get freaky and loud but there were people all over the parking lot so it was difficult to really get down.

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wgheow

i think its rather dangerous to meet people off the net

1010011010

wgheow speaks the truth!

I've ended up married to a girl I met online.

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fluster

Same thing happened to me. Very dangerous ! :-)

Ramallah

I've met a few people off the internet; actually, three of my girlfriends began as internet acquaintances. I met another girl and we got together to hang out just as friends, but we ended up having sex the first night we met in person.

snowy

I have a whole group of friends I met off of the internet using a college forum. I met all of my roommates via the same forum. I've also dated three guys off of the forum, but I haven't yet deemed anyone off of there worth of having sex with me...

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Val_1

How is it any different than meeting someone in another way? Being on the internet, in itself, does not make anyone dangerous. Is it dangerous to meet someone at the grocery store?

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scott_p_1

I think it's because only crazies and psychos use the internet. Wait... I'm using the internet, oh no! Ok, well, maybe I'm not a good example, but I've met a few 'normals' who used the internet.

But more seriously, I've met quite a few people from the internet and the wierdest people I know are still the people that I've met sans-internet. Like all 'strangers', just use common sense and don't put yourself in a position where you can be put in danger.

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cartmen34

I have had many VERY interesting experiences from my internet meeting/dating days, but these are the two that stick out....

I met a lady on the internet through an online dating service, just like I'd already done many times and would do many times in the future. All seemed well, until the first date. I knocked on the door, a woman answered the door, and I asked if her roommate was in....and she started sobing. Turns out she sent me an image of one of her friends because she was very self-consious about her phsyical appearance. I spent a little time consoling her, and I felt sorry for her, so I agreed to continue on our planed date. We went to dinner and a movie. I tried to make small talk, but it was akward at best. After dinner I tried to be nice but I just couldn't get over the fact that she lied to me and that was no way to try and start a relationship. I never saw her again. It was made even sadder by the fact that I didn't really think the real her was all that unattractive.

My second situation was a little better. I met my wife on the same internet dating service as the first girl I mentioned, but only after we dated, broke up, got back together, then had to seperate again due to work, then found ourselves back in the same location, strictly by chance. I didn't let her get away a third time. We got married a year later. We celebrate our one year aniversary in about 2 weeks.

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zombie_sympathi

no internet sex stories here, but...

about four years ago, when i first got the internet, i met this guy who was a year younger than me on some resident evil [video game] forums. we became really close friends and chatted very often, and then we became "boyfriend and girlfriend," i guess you would call it. anyway, we were together, without meeting one another, for about a year until a very messy and painful breakup during the summer.

we maintained sporadic contact for a while after that, but the breakup was so bad that we couldn't talk much without upsetting one another. however, a year or more later, he informed me that he had never told his parents about our breakup. as a result of this, his family decided to vacation in my hometown -- a rural and unlikely place in arkansas -- so he could meet me.

needless to say the meeting was very awkward. i brought a friend with me to alleviate the tension. nothing really happened; i met him and his family and they had no idea how terrible that meeting was for us.

however, we are better friends now, and talk semi-frequently. the sores from that relationships have healed, finally.

ahh, dramatic internet stuff!

belkins

I personally have had very good experiences meeting people over the Net.

I met my wife via online dating.

high_way

i have met one girl off the net and on her merits when we met she was great. as time went on i decided i didnt really want to keep seeing her so i ended it but if i had have met her in any other way i think it would have gone the same..

i say give it a go. i am always open to meeting people in all kinds of new ways.. that is my main mission in live at the moment.. to meet people..

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Bacchanal

I've never used personal sites, but I've met a couple women in chatrooms. One developed into a strictly sex relationship, which I cant bitch about, the other was not at all to my liking physically. Evidently sometimes webcams lie.

Aladdin Sane

When you started by asking for stories of meeting people "off" the internet I thought you meant in real time, ie, in reality.
I think a better way to say what you meant is "from" the internet.

I've never met an internet friend in real time. I've wanted to, but never had the opportunity.

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Gamer90

Um wait you mean you two were Online Girlfriend and Boyfriend? And you broke up? How? Also if someone approached you when you were "going out with him online" would you take a real life relationship or stayed online dating?

zombie_sympathi

i actually did end up leaving him for a real-life person.

and when breaking up, the general pattern is: well, i don't like/love you anymore, so let's not act like it anymore.

that's pretty much how it went.

1010011010

In the spring of 1996, I was bored and searching the AOL Member Directory. Pretty vague stuff. Tennessee, 1980 birthdate. So I IM'd a few dozen people. I explained what I was doing, asked what part of Tennessee they were from, asked what month they were born in, yadda yadda. One girl said she was born in January. Hey, me too! What day? The 28th. Groovy, me too! Anyway, all the other conversations eventually fizzled out, but I kept talking to this girl.

Eventually we exchanged pictures, I didn't think Maryam was very cute in that picture. Apparently the picture I sent her was of myself looking at a polaroid... she said she wondered at that point if the guy in the polaroid was the real picture of me... and so basically ignored the picture. In any event, there wasn't any sort of physical attraction, nor any particular desire to meet.

Two years later we were still talking. Still no physical interest. Still no interest in meeting. The girl I was dating at the time (that was an odd one. We met at school. Began dating, and then it seemed like the relationship shifted to being online.) also chatted with Maryam. Eventually she and Maryam met. And then she dragged me the hour drive to meet her. And then she broke up with me. Maryam also ended up single around that time.

Well. Couple of single kids, two year friendship, recently found out that their both kinda nice to look at... we ended up dating a month or two later. Then waxed and waned through an off-and-on relationship for the next 6 years (about two years on, three years of off-and-on, and then one year back on). Finally got married in 2004.

Maryam is definitely the most attractive girl I've ever met online, but she wasn't the only one. For a while there was a whole group of people that met at a local coffee house in Knoxville and also hung out in an IRC channel. So I met a bunch of folks there, though the chatroom drama come to life was a little too surreal for me to take anyone seriously. Random people met off messageboards, and IM networks... nothing major.

The only other cross-over was Airalin. She lived in California a few hours away from my Dad. So a few times when I'd fly out to spend some time with him, we'd meet up and go skiing. And make out like teenagers. Which was odd since our average age at the time was 23. I think she was into me a bit more than I was into her... especially since I had the Maryam thing in the background. The online and offline features of that relationship didn't overlap very much. We didn't talk about things to do when we were going to meet... and if we did talk about meeting, it was mostly times and places and other technical details. Once that was hammered out, we'd go back to talking about anime or mythology or whatever. Airalin was also pretty hot, but very far away. We'll still get back in touch about once a year to see what's happening.

So of course I went to hunt down Airalin after posting this. And I found BetaGirl. Crazy. I've been able to find out more about how that was produced than I've been able to turn up about her current online presence. I found some other interesting stuff, though. I'm beginning to wonder if the reason I can't track her down is because she's been locked away or buried.

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AquaFox

i've meet this one girl online, after being introduced to her by a real life friend of both of ours... soo nothing like risky there.... but she was actually the only person i really meet in person after meeting them first online.

i've meet quite afew people i would have given anything to visit in real life... but soo much distance between us

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bad jane

met my current bf online a couple of years ago (though we didn't call it dating while we were online--just really good friends).

i've met a few other online friends in person over the years. several years ago there was a group of us who hung out in the same chat room and most of us ended up meeting eventually. i still talk to a few of them.

i have a couple more online friends that i would LOVE to meet if given the chance--but the distance between us doesn't make it likely any time soon.

ShaniFaye

The last guy I went out with from the internet, when I was just looking for a "friend with benefits", showed up for our first date in a tshirt that said "sleeps well with others", gave me my first multiorgasmic experience the same nite, told me the next morning he never wanted to wake up without me again, moved in with me after dating a month, and has been glued to my side every single day for the last year and 3 months (unless he was out of town working), and now we're engaged to be married in Oct 2005 and his entire family is infatuated with me

damn internet dating....


ahahahaha and most of you know how much in love we are and that I thank God everyday that my trashy wanton ways brought me such a man as I never thought I deserved.

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Cimarron29414

ShaniFaye - your story is so good, you posted it twice.

MSD

Now I deleted the duplicate post, and if I didn't post this, you'd look crazy

CityOfAngels

I have a few stories, one of them being my own.

I trade, sell, and buy basketball cards online. One day this guy I've traded with for two years decides to invite me over to compare collections and play some NBA Live. When I got there, it was as if we were best buds for years; when in fact we were, it's just we had never seen each other face to face. We had a great time play NBA Live (He kicked my ass with his created player he made of himself), and I got to see his extensive Corey Maggette autograph collection. He's been busy with college, so we don't hang out on a frequent basis, but we're planning on seeing a Clipper game pretty soon. The guy is a class-act and as I said, it feels like he's one of my best friends.

A female friend of mine decided to meet some guy online once. She was sooo excited about it, saying how he's the sweetest guy in the world, etc etc. She was expecting her love machine to be there, but what she found was the comic book guy from the Simpsons. She said he was still a cool guy, but her shallowness made her judge him by his looks, and they never saw each other again.

Another female friend of mine met another guy online. She had a boyfriend at the time, and was keeping it secret from him. When she met him, he arrived decked out in some Philipino army regalia, and even though he was wearing really big boots, she was still taller than him. He tried to boss her around and stuff, so she ran crying back to her boyfriend.

I guess it just depends on how smart YOU are. If you get a good feeling about the person, chances are you're right. But if you go into it thinking you're gonna get to know someone new, chances are you'll be right; maybe a little TOO right. I had talked to my friend online for two years before I met him. These girls had talked to these guys for maybe a month at the most.

Be careful, but don't isolate yourself. Internet people are people after all.

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The voices say that I am not.

Leviathan[NCV]

I've met some four people from this board. I know a few others that I met online before we even came here. Every job I've had over the last five years, and most of my friends in RL now are from or a part of people I met online.


Anything wrong? Not really

he_haha

My pastor met his wife through AIM

la petite moi

I pretty much got to know nwlinkvxd through the internet.

We knew each other as not-even acquaintances from the school marching band. I thought he was creepy, and like most people, he thought I was weird and annoying. I visited his website after hearing about it from a friend, but only briefly. In my junior year of high school, I stumbled across his website again for the first time in a long time. He was then advertising about free web space for a website, so I decided to instant message him.

As we started conversing, he told me his girlfriend had broken up with him. He was really upset, and at the time, one of my 'friends with benefits' had basically thrown our relationship in the trash. So we started talking more and more frequently, until one day when he mentioned being bored, I told him to come over. Like usual, he was creepy and nervous as hell to be over at my house. But there was still a lot of chemistry and flirting going on.

And now we've been dating for almost two years, and plan on getting married. We like farting on each other, eating food, and arguing. Ah, yes.

la petite moi

Visit this website: http://www.perverted-justice.com

SntrRck

Hmm Censorship can be yummy

LapHam

Tried it...a long time ago. Turned me into a lurker, swear to god. I read posts on several forums, but rarely post. I got burned big time, a story above echoes mine...girl used a fake pic to lure me in, then thought it would be just fine that she lied about who she really was after I was WAY too emotionally attached. One of the worst nights of my life. I don't want that to happen ever, ever again.


But I love the posts on tfp, and I will continue to read yours...

Konichiwaneko

i've meet one girl that was a pure internet meeting, and it was amazing sex. She was actually pretty good looking also.

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saltfish

General Rules of Thumb for Internet Dating:

If a girl says that she weighs "XXX" that XXX = (RealWeight+20lbs) or (Realweight*1.2) which ever is greater.

The picture that a girl uses on a dating site is usually the BEST picture that was ever taken, even if it was a five year old picture.

<--- Burned a few times.

<---- Scored a few times too.

Ella

I met a long-time fuck buddy on a dating site...we were on and off casually for a couple of years, and now still good friends.

I also recently registered once again with a couple of dating sites (after taking my profile off for a few years - just lost interest in finding a partner) and have been on a couple of dates. The first guy was nice, but we just didn't click. The second guy...who I met last weekend after chatting to the week before on the phone and Yahoo is a real find. A really nice person and damn cute...so far so good! I'm thinking this one could be a keeper....

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drakers

A friend of mine had been talking to someone who lived 4 hours away for a couple of weeks and were just getting to know eachother. Well it turns out the guy came down to where we work and ask if she want to go out to the bars, for some odd reason she decided to. It ends up this guy was a loser, he didn't pay for anything and she paid his way. She ended up being weired out by it, but she shouldn't have even gone out with him. He called her phone number earlier and her sister told him where she works. How dumb was that?? And wierd.

Daoust

literally?

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Stompy

Meeting people from the internet is better than in real life, IMO.

When I go out to a bar w/ my friend, I have NO idea what any of these people are like.. because of that, I have almost no desire to talk with them.

At least with something like myspace.com, I can look at their profile and get a general idea of who they are and what they like. For example, started talking to someone who has IDENTICAL likes that I do - everything from zombie movies to music to TV shows.

Once you find something in common w/ someone like that, it seems like you always have something to talk about. Start talking in IMs, see how the person is... if you get along, ya go out and do something!

My girlfriend and I recently split up to take some time apart, but I met her in a Marilyn Manson chat room. We got along great from the first day we met - very in tune and connected w/ one another. Of course, we each had our own probs, but that's another story.

I think it's much better than talking to some random person in a bar. People often say, "Yeah, you never know what you're gonna get when meeting people online," but I think that's more realistic when meeting these random people in social situations!

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Scrub0

I met this girl over a game, diablo 2 to be exact, and we talked all the time for 8 months or so before she flew out to meet me. She stayed for a week and it was awesome, then after that we kinda drifted apart. Now we're on very bad terms, to say the least. She turned into a total nerd/depressive attention whore, and I got sick of it and told her to fuck off. She was more or less like that all along, but I played along just for the purpose of getting laid, and get laid I did. (it was terrible sex, btw)

My other experience was meeting up with a dude i met over said game (as friends ). We chilled with some of his other friends, got drunk and had a fuckin great time.

greeneyes

I met my current boyfriend online through another message board called nancies.org. We've been dating for over two years and have lived together for six months so I think it is starting to get serious.



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