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Titan_Uranus · 06-10-2005, 01:39 AM

If she will suck my soul ,I will lick her funky emotions.Oral sex is the shit.

KingOtter67 · 06-10-2005, 07:11 AM

I'm a very oral person. This was a great write-up.

The only thing I might say is concerning when she's about to orgasm, to keep doing the same motion. That's true, IF you want her to orgasm at that moment.

I'm a teaser. I like to get her there two or three different times with different approaches, then use a super-gentle barely-touching flicker to take her over the edge. It never fails to get a great head-squeeze from her thighs. I live for watching those body spasms.

If you can get her there once, you can get her there more than once. Don't be in such a rush to get to the top of Mt. Everest. Take your time and approach it from different directions.

Another thing I've learned is once she's over the edge, take your hand and apply pressure with the flat of your palm over her clit. Make it so the pressure isn't localized, but is across her pubis. I find when I do this I can start again quicker than when I don't. It seems to take that super-sensitivity away quicker.

anti fishstick · 06-10-2005, 01:23 PM

Reading that has gotten me somewhat horny.

While I can't say I love stubble against my body, it's not a definite turn off either. I don't mind it, I guess I'm neutral. (Though, stubble in itself is a bit of a turn on for me :P )

Disco Stu · 06-22-2005, 03:52 PM

Think of the clit like a tumor in a pile of ear lobes.... that line is funny as shit

ruggerp11 · 06-23-2005, 07:58 AM

My guide to Oral sex...69 style:

[NOTE]This is all what has worked for me in the past, it may not work for you, but should at least get you thinking about things that will work for you [/NOTE]

A lot of the same technique applies to 69 as been mentioned in the previous two tutorialesque posts. There are a few key differences that can make your girl crave 69 like a fat kid in a bakery. I love it, I can't get enough of any variety of oral sex. I love 69 for a few reasons. One is that I can get a blow job for a long time as my concentration is diverted. I can also give AND recieve pleasure at the same time, and for me giving pleasure is as good if not better than recieving it. Another reason is that sometimes it's easier to see if shes enjoying it or not by the way she grinds her hips into your face. It also gives her a completely new sensation because her vagina is completely upside down and your approaching it in a new way.

The first thing to discuss is the approach. This should be something that you talk about before hand, there is nothing (except a mid-coitus fart) that can kill the mood faster then you suggesting that she flip around and stick her ass in your face. A little discussion coupled with a non-chalant "but baby, I want to taste you right now" as shes about to go down on you can make the transition to "ok, how about we do both?" easier than you ever imagined.

Now that shes making beeping noises and parking her pleasure zone right in front of your face you need to make sure you get comfortable. No matter what kind of clit she has and whether you'll be there for 10 minutes or an hour straining your neck to reach up to her is just not going to cut it. The solution is simple, just put a few pillows under your head and make sure that he legs are spread enought to give you access properly is key.

Your set, it could be a lounge chair with a good view you're so comfortable (all your missing is the umbrellaed drink, though you have something even more tasty right above you.

A big issue with 69 and being on the bottom happens to be your arm placement. Since its most likely that her legs are over your shoulders you have a lot of access to get her comfortable. Don't sit on your hands, though its hard for men you have to multi-task. When you start lapping at her make sure your hands are moving. You can reach her breasts from where you are, pay attention to them. you can reach her back from where you are, a light touch or a slight scrape will drive her nuts. you can reach her butt from where you are; grab, pull apart, squeeze, kiss, lick, most of all pay attention to her whole body.

Much like was said before start off with some long lapping. Keep your tounge loose and lick her like you would drag your tounge up her stomach if she was on her back. Remember that shes now in the reverse orientation that she was before so when you're licking you'll be pulling down the hood over the clit. This can be remedied one of two ways. you can a) make your tounge stiff and go both ways, up and down or b) you can take one of your hands and pull back the hood from below. Either works and it comes down to how well your hands are working.

Then you are welcome to start sucking on her clit and or focusing on it with your tounge. Many of the same techniques are used just keep in mind that everything is reversed vertically.

The other important thing is in my experience to finger her as well. This causes a problem because your hands are not in a position to do that well. The key here is to get them around her legs. This can be done without fanfare just by moving them up against her legs and subtly letting her know that you need 'out.' When your arms are free you can use them to spread her a little more open and stick a finger or two in her while you continue to give the little guy hell. With the other hand you can put a finger in her bum or just use it to continue to caress her from underneath or from above (her thighs like attention too).

What I have found works well (read: TIP!) is if you don't do too much thrusting with your fingers until shes really really into it. caress her thighs for a long time and then slowly insert one finger and move it around in a circular motion. You can curl your finger in order to hit the g-spot but just moving it around can also induce dizzyness. Be thourough. Attend her every inch, as john mayer put it her body is a wonderland. play on the swings and ride down the slide.

TIP#2: get into it when your hands are under her and playing with her stomach and breasts wrap them around her waist and push her into your face, sucking in all that you can and moving your tounge around while she is in your mouth. its the enthusiasm that will get her every time. come out gasping for air and then dive right back in making mmmm noises and moaning. If your sincere she'll love it, if you're not shell know.

TIP#3: Let her know that shes doing a good job, every once in a while stop what your doing (for a brief second) and put your head to the side and moan. Tell her that she has to slow down or you'll come too quickly, fail to make sentences bit her thighs, throw your head back. Be creative you'll be fine.

From this position you can also have her sit up (especially if you need some time to recover before blowing your load) and sit on your face.

The possibilities are endless but if you enjoy it and you attend to her needs she will do the same back and more. Its an endless circle of happiness and pleasure, especially if your girl is a giver as well.

Have fun! Add to this, critique it, love it!

LauraM0906 · 06-26-2005, 07:41 PM

From a woman. Thank you for teaching these men something.

Johnny Pyro · 07-03-2005, 05:41 AM

I 'll practice on a watermelon later, thanx.

seven7 · 07-08-2005, 12:45 PM

don't forget..if she likes it, don't stop and try something else....

agent79 · 07-11-2005, 08:32 PM

wow. impressive. i second the motion that a way to a woman's heart is through oral penetration. that 5 minutes of tongue massageing before sex will land both of you satisfied afterward...and she wont forget it.

agent79 · 07-13-2005, 07:05 PM

also, i would add that when she is getting into it, let her hump your face. just stick your toungue out there and let her groove up and down at her own pace. when she is in a rhythm you can then throw in a little tongue waggle when the clit comes into view to keep her honest. sure bet folks.

Nunquam_Idem · 07-14-2005, 02:24 PM

Quote:

If your lady is approaching an orgasm DON’T even THINK about changing your motion, rhythm or (heaven forbid!) stopping. I repeat - DON’T STOP!

I screw that up all the time. Really sucks when I do because it just isn't as good after that...

Sugarmouse · 07-21-2005, 12:19 PM

im not a massive fan of oral but this got me going!¬¬lol

ruggerp11 · 07-21-2005, 01:45 PM

Festered, you will be...o you will be

Mantus · 07-21-2005, 06:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by longbough

...but it's certainly unfair that many of the same fellas don't know the first thing about going down on a woman. I've learned a few things over the years about the art of going down - stuff I wish I knew from the start - which I'd like to share here.

Meh. From my experience I find that there are more girls who are clueless about giving good oral then men.

Good info there longbough, ruggerp11, Jim and everyone else.

My bigest bit of advice is to COMMUNICATE and pay allot of attention. People are very differnt. Learn about your girl.

mandy · 07-22-2005, 04:37 AM

i sat here reading over those two articles thinking to myself "god but im horny right now"

and seriously...those were some of the best pieces i have ever read...in like .....ever.

my bf has been working away for the month, he's coming back on friday so you can imagine what it's been like.

im still horny!!!

Sugarmouse · 07-24-2005, 05:31 PM

lol rugger dnt get me wrong i love to give it...jus prefer other things to receipt of it!!
but this thread got me twitching........lol

JoseFlanders · 07-24-2005, 09:54 PM

squirrelyburt · 07-25-2005, 06:47 PM

somebody has been taking notes during porn!!! Excellent info

pig · 09-12-2005, 03:44 PM

bump. school's startin back soon, and the kids need to know. plus someone asked for it.

ps. if you're go bring in a little friend through the back steps, make sure you wet it down first. always lick everything first before inserting it. anywhere.

Mr Honest · 09-13-2005, 01:34 PM

Any man who doesn't want to go down on their lady is crazy. It has to be done. I love doing it. Great advice on this site for those that need it.
I've been down on every woman I've been intimate with except for the 1st because I was shy and had been told women smelt nasty 'down there'

I've never tasted anything bad only ever 'suffered' tongus achest and warm cheeks from being so firmly held in place. The best fun ever to me is giving pleasure to a nice lady

Ishmal · 10-16-2005, 09:28 PM

THIS is the type of info i was searching for...

thanx guys.

borderx · 10-22-2005, 09:41 AM

Alot of great write ups,I sure learned alot.Now Ive got to put what I leaned to use.

chelsea_9 · 10-22-2005, 12:53 PM

i love how you consistently pointed out that not all women are made the same.

bravo, i must say. there was nothing in your description that didnt sound appealing to me [some moreso than others... =)].

but once again, bravo!

nightstuff · 10-22-2005, 01:08 PM

Entertaining read, I really like these advice threads. No matter how much you know already, you can always learn more.

one thing that has really helped me immensely was adopting an "eager pupil" attitude, and professing my love for pussy eating, right from the beginning. Im not an expert, but I love eating pussy, and im willing to spend hours perfecting my craft on her. Take this approach, and no girl will turn you down, and usually this attitude is awarded with more patience than otherwise.

*licky*

06-10-2005, 07:11 AM	#42 (permalink)
KingOtter67 Upright	I'm a very oral person. This was a great write-up. The only thing I might say is concerning when she's about to orgasm, to keep doing the same motion. That's true, IF you want her to orgasm at that moment. I'm a teaser. I like to get her there two or three different times with different approaches, then use a super-gentle barely-touching flicker to take her over the edge. It never fails to get a great head-squeeze from her thighs. I live for watching those body spasms. If you can get her there once, you can get her there more than once. Don't be in such a rush to get to the top of Mt. Everest. Take your time and approach it from different directions. Another thing I've learned is once she's over the edge, take your hand and apply pressure with the flat of your palm over her clit. Make it so the pressure isn't localized, but is across her pubis. I find when I do this I can start again quicker than when I don't. It seems to take that super-sensitivity away quicker. __________________ KingOtter You can't push on a rope.

06-10-2005, 01:23 PM	#43 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	Reading that has gotten me somewhat horny. While I can't say I love stubble against my body, it's not a definite turn off either. I don't mind it, I guess I'm neutral. (Though, stubble in itself is a bit of a turn on for me :P ) __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

06-23-2005, 07:58 AM	#45 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	My guide to Oral sex...69 style: [NOTE]This is all what has worked for me in the past, it may not work for you, but should at least get you thinking about things that will work for you [/NOTE] A lot of the same technique applies to 69 as been mentioned in the previous two tutorialesque posts. There are a few key differences that can make your girl crave 69 like a fat kid in a bakery. I love it, I can't get enough of any variety of oral sex. I love 69 for a few reasons. One is that I can get a blow job for a long time as my concentration is diverted. I can also give AND recieve pleasure at the same time, and for me giving pleasure is as good if not better than recieving it. Another reason is that sometimes it's easier to see if shes enjoying it or not by the way she grinds her hips into your face. It also gives her a completely new sensation because her vagina is completely upside down and your approaching it in a new way. The first thing to discuss is the approach. This should be something that you talk about before hand, there is nothing (except a mid-coitus fart) that can kill the mood faster then you suggesting that she flip around and stick her ass in your face. A little discussion coupled with a non-chalant "but baby, I want to taste you right now" as shes about to go down on you can make the transition to "ok, how about we do both?" easier than you ever imagined. Now that shes making beeping noises and parking her pleasure zone right in front of your face you need to make sure you get comfortable. No matter what kind of clit she has and whether you'll be there for 10 minutes or an hour straining your neck to reach up to her is just not going to cut it. The solution is simple, just put a few pillows under your head and make sure that he legs are spread enought to give you access properly is key. Your set, it could be a lounge chair with a good view you're so comfortable (all your missing is the umbrellaed drink, though you have something even more tasty right above you. A big issue with 69 and being on the bottom happens to be your arm placement. Since its most likely that her legs are over your shoulders you have a lot of access to get her comfortable. Don't sit on your hands, though its hard for men you have to multi-task. When you start lapping at her make sure your hands are moving. You can reach her breasts from where you are, pay attention to them. you can reach her back from where you are, a light touch or a slight scrape will drive her nuts. you can reach her butt from where you are; grab, pull apart, squeeze, kiss, lick, most of all pay attention to her whole body. Much like was said before start off with some long lapping. Keep your tounge loose and lick her like you would drag your tounge up her stomach if she was on her back. Remember that shes now in the reverse orientation that she was before so when you're licking you'll be pulling down the hood over the clit. This can be remedied one of two ways. you can a) make your tounge stiff and go both ways, up and down or b) you can take one of your hands and pull back the hood from below. Either works and it comes down to how well your hands are working. Then you are welcome to start sucking on her clit and or focusing on it with your tounge. Many of the same techniques are used just keep in mind that everything is reversed vertically. The other important thing is in my experience to finger her as well. This causes a problem because your hands are not in a position to do that well. The key here is to get them around her legs. This can be done without fanfare just by moving them up against her legs and subtly letting her know that you need 'out.' When your arms are free you can use them to spread her a little more open and stick a finger or two in her while you continue to give the little guy hell. With the other hand you can put a finger in her bum or just use it to continue to caress her from underneath or from above (her thighs like attention too). What I have found works well (read: TIP!) is if you don't do too much thrusting with your fingers until shes really really into it. caress her thighs for a long time and then slowly insert one finger and move it around in a circular motion. You can curl your finger in order to hit the g-spot but just moving it around can also induce dizzyness. Be thourough. Attend her every inch, as john mayer put it her body is a wonderland. play on the swings and ride down the slide. TIP#2: get into it when your hands are under her and playing with her stomach and breasts wrap them around her waist and push her into your face, sucking in all that you can and moving your tounge around while she is in your mouth. its the enthusiasm that will get her every time. come out gasping for air and then dive right back in making mmmm noises and moaning. If your sincere she'll love it, if you're not shell know. TIP#3: Let her know that shes doing a good job, every once in a while stop what your doing (for a brief second) and put your head to the side and moan. Tell her that she has to slow down or you'll come too quickly, fail to make sentences bit her thighs, throw your head back. Be creative you'll be fine. From this position you can also have her sit up (especially if you need some time to recover before blowing your load) and sit on your face. The possibilities are endless but if you enjoy it and you attend to her needs she will do the same back and more. Its an endless circle of happiness and pleasure, especially if your girl is a giver as well. Have fun! Add to this, critique it, love it! __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

07-03-2005, 05:41 AM	#47 (permalink)
Johnny Pyro Hey Now! Location: Massachusetts (Redneck, white boy town. I hate it here.)	I 'll practice on a watermelon later, thanx. __________________ "From delusion lead me to truth, from darkness lead me to light, from death lead me to eternal life. - Sheriff John Wydell

07-21-2005, 12:19 PM	#52 (permalink)
Sugarmouse Insane Location: Preston lancs(i know i know)	im not a massive fan of oral but this got me going!¬¬lol __________________ Sugarmouse=Festered

06-10-2005, 01:39 AM	#41 (permalink)
Titan_Uranus Insane Location: South Africa	If she will suck my soul ,I will lick her funky emotions.Oral sex is the shit.

06-22-2005, 03:52 PM	#44 (permalink)
Disco Stu Psycho Location: Springfield, USA	Think of the clit like a tumor in a pile of ear lobes.... that line is funny as shit

06-26-2005, 07:41 PM	#46 (permalink)
LauraM0906 Upright Location: Georgia	From a woman. Thank you for teaching these men something.

07-08-2005, 12:45 PM	#48 (permalink)
seven7 Tilted Location: flatlands	don't forget..if she likes it, don't stop and try something else....

07-11-2005, 08:32 PM	#49 (permalink)
agent79 Upright Location: chicago	wow. impressive. i second the motion that a way to a woman's heart is through oral penetration. that 5 minutes of tongue massageing before sex will land both of you satisfied afterward...and she wont forget it.

07-13-2005, 07:05 PM	#50 (permalink)
agent79 Upright Location: chicago	also, i would add that when she is getting into it, let her hump your face. just stick your toungue out there and let her groove up and down at her own pace. when she is in a rhythm you can then throw in a little tongue waggle when the clit comes into view to keep her honest. sure bet folks.

07-21-2005, 01:45 PM	#53 (permalink)
ruggerp11 Cautiously soaring Location: exploring my new home in SF	Festered, you will be...o you will be __________________ Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it. --Mark Twain Do What makes you happy --Me BUT! "Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

07-22-2005, 04:37 AM	#55 (permalink)
mandy Addict Location: Port Elizabeth, South Africa	i sat here reading over those two articles thinking to myself "god but im horny right now" and seriously...those were some of the best pieces i have ever read...in like .....ever. my bf has been working away for the month, he's coming back on friday so you can imagine what it's been like. im still horny!!!

07-24-2005, 05:31 PM	#56 (permalink)
Sugarmouse Insane Location: Preston lancs(i know i know)	lol rugger dnt get me wrong i love to give it...jus prefer other things to receipt of it!! but this thread got me twitching........lol __________________ Sugarmouse=Festered

07-24-2005, 09:54 PM	#57 (permalink)
JoseFlanders Upright	asdf Cc Last edited by JoseFlanders; 03-15-2008 at 09:42 PM.. Reason: rem

10-16-2005, 09:28 PM	#61 (permalink)
Ishmal Wicked Clown Location: House Of Horrors	THIS is the type of info i was searching for... thanx guys. __________________ "Despite the high cost of living, it remains popular."

07-25-2005, 06:47 PM	#58 (permalink)
squirrelyburt Crazy Location: Central Wisconsin	somebody has been taking notes during porn!!! Excellent info __________________ If you've ever felt there was a reason to be afraid of the dark, you were right.

09-12-2005, 03:44 PM	#59 (permalink)
pig pigglet pigglet Location: Locash	bump. school's startin back soon, and the kids need to know. plus someone asked for it. ps. if you're go bring in a little friend through the back steps, make sure you wet it down first. always lick everything first before inserting it. anywhere. __________________ You don't love me, you just love my piggy style

09-13-2005, 01:34 PM	#60 (permalink)
Mr Honest Crazy	Any man who doesn't want to go down on their lady is crazy. It has to be done. I love doing it. Great advice on this site for those that need it. I've been down on every woman I've been intimate with except for the 1st because I was shy and had been told women smelt nasty 'down there' I've never tasted anything bad only ever 'suffered' tongus achest and warm cheeks from being so firmly held in place. The best fun ever to me is giving pleasure to a nice lady __________________ Human beings : who could ever claim to like them all?

10-22-2005, 09:41 AM	#62 (permalink)
borderx Upright	Alot of great write ups,I sure learned alot.Now Ive got to put what I leaned to use.

10-22-2005, 12:53 PM	#63 (permalink)
chelsea_9 Crazy Location: somewhere i intend to leave	i love how you consistently pointed out that not all women are made the same. bravo, i must say. there was nothing in your description that didnt sound appealing to me [some moreso than others... =)]. but once again, bravo! __________________ all good dreamers pass this way some day hiding behind bottles in dark cafes

10-22-2005, 01:08 PM	#64 (permalink)
nightstuff Tilted Location: where polar bears walk the streets	Entertaining read, I really like these advice threads. No matter how much you know already, you can always learn more. one thing that has really helped me immensely was adopting an "eager pupil" attitude, and professing my love for pussy eating, right from the beginning. Im not an expert, but I love eating pussy, and im willing to spend hours perfecting my craft on her. Take this approach, and no girl will turn you down, and usually this attitude is awarded with more patience than otherwise. licky