KungFuGuy

Basically i'm thinking about buying her a tiny, un obtrusive and innocent looking butt plug in addition to the normal gifts . have never broached the anal topic with her before, but she knows i'm experimental and curious.

i figure she could A- think i'm crazy, B- laugh about it, or C- think about using it. there's probably a host of other possibilities, but B or C would work alright for me.

Anyone else have stories about such gifts that went over well or not so well? I'd share my own stories if i had them to share. after this holiday season i just might

Painted

I got this girl a dildo a few years ago. Mind you, she was kind of ..open minded when it came to sex ;-)

Nevertheless, it went well, she still shows it to me.

f6twister

No stories but I guess in your case, if you are unsure how she will react, you may want to approach the issue first and wait on the gift until next year or never depending on how she reacts.

Also, my wife would be okay receiving something like that as a birthday or even a secondary anniversary gift but for her, Christmas is different. She would be offended receiving it during a religious holiday, even though she isn't overly religious. Just something to think about.

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tuffrr

I'd say get it and see how she reacts. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

You could talk about it, but then you would spoil the suprise.

aphroditeskiss1

Ask her, as casually as possible, what she thinks about anal play. Judge whether or not to get it for her by her reaction to that.

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KungFuGuy

thanks for the response guys. I'm usually of the mentality that tuffrr described. problem is putting that "asking as casually as possible" with "not spoiling the surprise"

its good pointing out that it's a religious holiday, and while i didn't think about it before, on further thought i realize she's not terribly religious at all.

Captain Nemo

If you want to add a certain "artistic" look to it (which might help it fly a little better), check out the metal ones at

www.blowfish.com

I can't remember the specific name of the artist who designed them (damn work filter software), but I got my wife the medium sized with the skull on the end of it (you have to see it to know what I am talking about). Blowfish has some seriously cool stuff.

portereight

If it's the "butt" part rather than the "toy" part that you wonder about, perhaps you could get a toy that's a little more ambiguous. If it happens to end up in someone butt I guess the subject has been broached.

AquaFox

try and start the anal topic with her.... like maybe you could slowly start playing with her anus when your with her, and if she ends up letting you finger your ass, your set

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Samalie

Even if she was into the anal play, I personally just don't equate Christmas with buttplugs

Redlemon

I think I'd skip it on Christmas unless you knew it was going to go over well. How about the Winter Solstice, December 21st? "Honey, you know how today is the darkest day of the year? Up at the North Pole, they don't even see the sun all day. Speaking of places where the sun don't shine..."

Of course, you might want to be at least arm's length away from her at the time, with a clear path to the doorway.

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Kumquat

Butt plug for christmas is not a good idea. Very unromantic. A butt plug just because is not a bad idea though.

typhus

Redlemon, that is too funny.
I don't think a butt plug would be a real good present for Christmas. Maybe a New Year's present?

Mr_Tickles

a Buttplug is for life, not just for Christmas.

pocon1

Get it, makes a great stocking stuffer.

"Go on, honey. It a surprise, just past the m&ms and the candy canes"

jaded

As long as it is \"in addition to\" the other gifts, you should be fine. But make sure it\'s not the focus of your christmas gifts for her; you don\'t want this to go down her memory lane as the christmas with the plug.

AquaFox

well said




you don't want to hear "honey, remember that christmas you bought me that stupid butt-plug" 40 years from now, lol

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snowy

If she's sexually gung-ho and ready to try new things, you can't go wrong. While I might look at my SO a little oddly if I unwrapped one myself, there's really no harm intended. If she has a sense of humor she may think it's a gag gift, so really it should be OK.

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FngKestrel

Who says butt plugs aren't for Xmas?

http://www.second-skin.net/details.php?item_number=200
(SFW, more or less...uh, use your discretion)

toxic515

"Merry Christmas sweetie... shove it up your ass" hmmm... lmao, sorry, just the first thought that popped into my mind.

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KungFuGuy

well, i talked to her about it first. she's open minded about it. , so while it wont be a crazy surprise gift, it does open up all sorts of possibilities for future ones.

some of these replies really cracked me up, i'm goign to remember them.