Condom sensation letdown . . .
 

I'm a 46 yo man. I'm seeing a woman who will not use the pill or other types of hormone based BC. We have been using condoms and I am experiencing a problem I have had for my entire adult life, but now that I'm a little older it's more significant problem. I don't seem to get enough sensation to stay as hard as I like, and if I stop moving for more than just a moment I will lose my erection. So when I use a condom I have to be really excited, slap that baby on, lube up, and go for the gusto as fast and hard as I can. Which isn't often what my honey wants. In fact it can cause her some pain. I am circumcised, average sized, otherwise healthy. At certain times of the month we have sex with no condoms, and I have no problems. Basically able to control and time my orgasm to however long it takes. I have been using Lifestyles condoms. My question is:

What are some good brands and models of condoms for this issue? and are there any techniques or tricks you have learned that would help me minimize the problem?

Trojan (and other brands I assume) make ultra thin condoms that are supposed to really good for that problem.

You might want to consider THESE .

Maybe you should try Trojan's fairly new 'Supra' condom. It is made from polyurethane and although I haven't tried, everything I've read says that it's very thin and very "realistic." Here is a link I found to a site that sells them if you want to check it out:
http://www.ripnroll.com/supra.htm

Also, perhaps you could try viagra or cialis to keep you soldier at attention even with a condom. Good luck with whatever you decide on.

Thanks everybody. The thought has struck me that there might be an element of performance anxiety involved, too. So I will be exploring that as well as experimenting with the condoms. Not ready to try Cialis yet, but who knows?