Men's opinion of MMF Threesomes
 

Okay, this may not be the first fantasy for Men thinking about threesomes, but I just wanted to see what people felt about it.

The thing is, there is a stereotype out there that most Men would love to have a FFM threesome, but not a MMF, and many Women out there are a little pissed off at the male gender because of this.

From my perspective, which is admittedly a little sexually off-centre for a heterosexual, would be that three naked bodies in a bed (hot tub, floor, elevator, whatever), as long as one fo them was female, is still all good.

Personally, I think a MMFF foursome would be the most fun, but that's another story.

What I want to hear is if any Men out there (or women if you would like to deride us even more), have opinions about having a MMF threesome. You know how I feel, let's hear about your thoughts...

Pierre

Although I prefer the intimacy of the whole one on one thing, were the situation to present itself, both MMF and MFF would probably both be really interesting.

I believe this thread or something similar to it has been done, but I haven't posted in it, so here goes...
I'm married to a woman who'd never in a billion years invite a third party into our bedroom, so my opinions are based purely on fantasy and/or wishful thinking, but I would be most prone to enjoy a FFM myself. If I was to ever cross the boundary into bisexuality I think it would most likely be just him and I alone. I think I would enjoy that more than having my wife present as well.

I've finally accepted that I'll probably never get a threesome (my wife isn't a fan of the idea) but I'd take either one. I'd prefer a FFM because the I'd be able to have sex with the third party but a MMF would be lots of fun too.

I think I'd get off on seeing my wife suck someone while I'm doing her. I'd also like to try a DP. We've done that with vibrators and she loves it. I like how I can feel it vibrate while it's in her. I'd also like to see how her oral would be affected by having someone inside of her at the same time. A double facial would be pretty cool too. I'd consider getting in a 69 with her while someone fucks her but that would depend on the situation.

I would only do it if it was with one of my best friends. I wouldn't feel comfortable if it were a strange guy and another girl. Also, my dick would have to be the biggest in the room. Something about being ultra competitive has something to do with it......

No complaints if it were FFM.

Since I'm in a similar situation to the two married posters here, I'd have to agree. Both would be fun, but most likely won't ever present itself, given my wife's 'never in a billioin years' attitude toward threesomes of any kind. FFM is the ideal, but I would probably get into MMF too, given the right conditions and attitudes of all parties involved.

[edited to qualify the married posters]

Set the record straight
 

Just to set the record straight, I'm in the same married and "it'll never happen" scenario. This thread was just to see what the general thinking was regarding the whole thing. My position (no pun intended) is that I would absolutely do it if the situation presented itself, which is comfotable since I know it wont, so does that make me a lair? Or worse a Hypocrite?

Pierre

In a MMF 3some I think I'd rather have it be someone we don't really know. It would be weird to have my best friend sleep with my wife. For some reason it wouldn't be weird if it was someone I don't know well. I don't think I'd care about who is bigger.

Techincally, MMF would be a gangbang, granted a small one but a gangbang just the same. The only combo that counts as a threesome is the MFF, which just sounds like too much work to me. :)

I guess I agree with you. It would be a small gangbang, not a threesome. So the difference between a gangbang and a threesome as in a threesome all three people please each other vs. in a gangbang two or more people are having sex with a member of the opposite sex but not with each other.

I say tit for tat, but I'm not horribly interested in a FFM threesome either. I think one at a time is enough to handle as it is. I have all kinds of insecurities that would come up during a MMF threesome, all of which I'd rather avoid. Then again, not being open to one after having a FFM with your girlfriend would be hypocritical.

Well, I would do either. However, I wouldn't want to know anyone in the group. Since it is a fantasy, let's also assume everyone is disease free.

I wouldn't want to do a MMF with my wife because I think that a ting of jealousy might ruin the experience for me, as it might her in a FFM. So, the best would be that you don't know the people.

MMF would be fine as long as there isn't any expectation for the two guys to play. Not there's anything wrong with that, I am just not attracted to men. I don't even like DP porn because all I can think about is my balls touching his balls. So, I think we would have to stay on either end of her, so to speak.

This has always perplexed me. I would love some group sex, dreamt about it, fantasised about it. But never done it. Think I might have had the opportunity when I was younger, but was a bit naive (screwed a girl in a bed next to her friend who was pretending to be asleep, but she was watching and fingering herself on the sly - damn how hindsight is great).

The thing is, In a MMF with my girl, it would have to be someone I knew (a stranger may be a bit too rough, or not have the same level of respect for her) and yet if it were a friend I wouldn't want them to see her naked, bang her etc in case I marry the girl! - she's my girl, not my friends (selfish I know?!)

A MFF would be great but I don't know if i've got the stamina! Having said that I did work my way thru a couple of my girls friends before I got to her (if you know what i'm sayin) so should i approach her on this subject..??

I have done both, there was no "interaction" between the guys. To me its was just fucking, but I had an audience. That was a few years ago. Of course the FFM is the best cause you have two girls giving you attention, and you don't have to worry about accidentally touching another naked guy.

Why is it men associate a MMF threesome (yes MMF IS a threesome) with bisexuality? I've done many of them and the two men never engaged in any sexual activity with each other....not to say they CANT but just because its two guys and a girl DOES NOT automatically mean it is

Threesome
Slang for a group of three people engaging in sex.
http://www.mybodyvibes.com/sex_dictionary_t.html
(its not gender specific)

Menage a trois/Threesome
A sexual relationship between three people.
http://www.4sexual-pleasure.com/definitions.html

I'm in no way shape or form every going to get either, so it's all fantasy for me. If we could have a FFM, then why not a MMF. There would be no interaction between myself and the guy, other than a Hi 5 or something. If she truely wanted this, it would happen, so I know it will never. I'd love to see her enjoying herself x2, whether another male or female in the room, but it's hard enough to at times for her to enjoy just me.

Because to some men, one cannot be sexually excited around another man (whether or not that man is the object is irrelevent) without it having homosexual overtones.

Silly, I know, but it's true.

God forbid you got a hardon while taking a shower after gym class...

I'd be totally up for a MMF. I think it would be better than a FFM because I can only fuck one person at a time. I'm not bi but I would not have a problem slapping balls with a guy as we DPd a chick. It's only skin. I have wondered what it would be like to suck cock and I have heard that a live cock up the ass is far better than a dildo so if I was in a MMF situation where I could experience something new I would probably go for it.

I think that MMF is just not right.. different strokes for different folks I guess

if i were to particpate in multiple partner sex...i think MMF would be the more likely. i'm bi, and so that idea of having the chance to express that more fully is a cool idea.

That said...i'm not sure about the concept in general. i'm personally not a fan of casual relationships, so the third party would have to be someone i knew, and cared for outside of the sex.

FFM: Done it. S'fun.

MMF: Would do it. Sounds like fun.

The only trouble I've seen with group sex is, you're never quite sure if they're moaning because of something you're doing or something they're doing....

MMF was fun... haven't had an opportunity for FFM

I couldn't do either personally. I'm only 18 but I thought about a MFF before, quite frequently and I'm sure at least one of the girls i've been with would have been into it (actually now that i think about it, one of the girls I was with before has a female lover now) but I just couldn't do it. I couldn't know if they were getting more satisfaction from the other person or not and I don't think I can separate sex and love. Its just something I can't do...and I'm not sure why.

It's funny when I hear about this male competition thing, or how self-conscious males are about their bodies/sexual performance. Maybe I'm just not normal, but I just think it would be erotic to be with another naked horny guy having sex with a naked horny woman.

Would I cum too quickly? Maybe. Would he? Possibly. Would she, not likely. Still, with three naked people, where's the rush. My gawd, there could be hours of fun, manually, orally, any other way.

Gawd, I'm getting horny just thinking about this. Any takers?

Pierre

Oh yea!

7890

Why not FFF?

Don't tease us. Please don't do that to us :)

MMF? no f*ing way. MFFFFF would be much much better :D

Prude... ;)

Sorry, please spank me... Doh! ;)

lol, I think 2 girls at once would be enough to handle. Anything more and my head would explode.

any more than 2 girls at once and one would get bored. Two, if you're not really good. And i guess 3 if you're a horrible lay.

Well I guess I'm a horrible lay. Bring on the girls.

Yeah, I'd be will to do a MMF threesome. Mostly because giving a DP is a bit of a fantasy of mine (perv!). As long as the other guy understood that I wasn't interested in any man on man stuff, it's all good. It seems like it would be very intense for the girl. I would love a MFF as well. Hell, I'd be will to sit in the corner while a FF went on.

Having a hard on in the gym shower is wrong.

Having a hard on with a coed gym shower, would be ok :p

Having been in a number of MMF threesomes, they are fun but mostly for the women. I'd much rather be one on one.

If both males were bi it could be more fun, but not my thing.

I think I'd have a problem sharing my partner with another guy. On the same note, I think she'd hate sharing me with another girl.

-Thlayli

I'm told that DP is like rubbing your penis against the other guy's with a thick condom on or something. There isn't much separating them. ;)

i think having a naked guy having sex with a girl i like (or simply just like to fuck) wouldnt be the biggest turn on around.

who even likes the idea of having a girlfriend or whatever having sex with another guy let alone doing it right infront of/with you.

in closing, ew.

For the record I'm married and while my wife hasn't said she'd never ever do it I'm not holding my breath. If I got the chance I'd be all over it though. Of course my preference would be MFF. But for MMF as long as its 2 on the chick and not 2 on the dick its all good. I'm not interested in playing with another guy but I'm not scared of catching teh ghey from one either. :) And I think I'd actually get turned on from watching another guy nail my wife.

I think so too, swapping partners, each person gets doubled up on, yeah...would be alot of work especially for the guys but damn that would be so worth it.

Although I'd rather do it with someone I know than a stranger, say 2 of my friends who are a couple.

Oh hell yeah, that would kick ass!

My wife is too jealous for a FFM, and I am too jelous for a MMF. Neither of us is interested anyway. Good question, but no thanks.