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11-07-2004, 07:21 PM
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wtf?
I met this girl, and at first, she was really cool, and was and still is extremely good looking. The first few weeks we had good talks, and she was fun to carry on a conversation with.... I really liked her and was planning on asking her out..
But.. she got really weird all of the sudden, she won't stop calling me, she's no longer fun to talk to as she's annoying all of the sudden, and she acts really crazy all the time. No, its not pms, pms with her is more like shut the fuck up I have pms and dont want to talk at all.... Could this strange behavioral phenomenon be because she really really likes me (which she does, it's been confirmed) and is afraid I'll reject her or is she just a crazy beotch that happened to go through a normal spell for a few weeks and will act like this most of the time... I cannot STAND the way girls act.... I mean seriously, this has really turned me off towards the entire female specie... Anyone able to explain this? Girls comments welcome. EDIT* as an afterthought, her lack of ability to carry on a fun/normal conversation is also attributed to the fact that she seems to have gotten a lot dumber than before as well as annoying. She also knows she's annoying and says stuff like, "am I annoying you? I always annoy you dont I?" Last edited by adfaffasfd; 11-07-2004 at 07:23 PM.. |
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11-07-2004, 07:36 PM
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Let me start off by saying... all girls are schizo. They're insane. Plain and simple.
That being said, she's...you know what, I can't even come up with a good psycological answer. Girls are just crazy.
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11-07-2004, 07:38 PM
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Any of the girls got something to add? Maybe you could shed light onto why this girl and the rest of you for that matter are insane. Redeem thyselves. |
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11-07-2004, 07:44 PM
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Listen, if you liked this girl before why don't you ask her out? Seems like she might be trying to scare you away. It's often subconscious and lots of people do it when they're afraid to get rejected or when they're afraid to commit themselves. I think your analysis was probably right on that point. I did that to girls earlier (20 now, but I did that a whole lot when I was 16-17) because basically I didn't want to have to open up myself.
Anyway, if you ask her out and she agrees to go, but still keep on acting like this ask her why. As is mentioned in the TLF bible about dating honesty is important and if she knows that you like her better the way she is normally (assuming that the good side of her is her normal behaviour) she will probably back off of the act and you can have some sweet loving. As to this turning you off to the female species, be assured that this is universally human. Our brains are operating on a very primitive core and the more advanced parts of our brain have no way of dealing with it... |
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11-07-2004, 07:49 PM
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That seems like good advice...
In retrospect, I can remember acting differently than I normally do (normally being how I act around friends and girls that I have no romantic interest in) around this one girl that I really liked and then wondering why she stopped talking to me as much while all her friends (who i acted normally around) still talked to me all the time... |
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11-07-2004, 07:57 PM
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Yup, being in or trying to fall in love with someone alters your complete perspective on that person. I guess it's down to hormones working overtime on your poor brain. As to what you should do, let me say again that interacting with the girl is your only solution. If you don't get it out in the open you'll never further that relationship. Human relationships tend to need some catalysts once in a while...
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11-07-2004, 08:00 PM
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Oh shit it's Wayne Brady!
Location: Passenger seat of Wayne Brady's car.
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Hey, man. If she's hyper outside of bed...
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11-07-2004, 08:15 PM
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HAHAHA To me that says she's now into you and is trying to latch on because she doesn't want to miss this oppertunity. You're either now seeing her true colors, and she was being phoney before, or she's just going manic on you because she like, totally thinks you're the cutest guy evar! Ahem, sorry. And yes, as far as I can tell all girls are crazy.  No offense ladies.
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11-07-2004, 08:36 PM
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I agree that she's gone nuts because she wants you to remember her, wants you to know she's there, she really wants you to know she exists and doesn't want you to forget. She's nuts about you mate, and if you like her too then go ahead and ask her out.
Once she's sure that you like her too she'll probably calm down, and if she doesn't there's no harm in telling her to chill out. |
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