Painful Sex
 

Ok I start having sex with a smaller women 5'3 about 115 pounds
Me 6'1 223 pds.

Without sounding stupid!!

Our problem is it hurts her when we have sex. We have tried to slow it down and not move alot but still. Pain!! Also not going as deep. Still Pain!

Is their anything I can do to help her? Different positions? Anything?

Peace

Yeah, here's a couple of things to get you started: 1. stop jamming it in her ear, and 2. use lots of lube.

lol funny..funny but mean solk....umm..yea i had the same problem with biznatch when we first became intimate...for one..we realized that bent over doggy was OUT..it hits the cervix and HURTS (slightly stooped over hurts less and you can go just as fast..and the buttocks make you feel like your going deeper then you really are)..ummm same with legs over shoulders...and woman on top...first make sure shes really ready..i mean fully turned on-lots of foreplay ect..think like hours worth..bringing her to orgasm..then cooling it off..at least a few times...then use lube..and go really slow..i suggest missionary at first..after you get into the flow of it she may get used to you and be more comfortable with oter positions...it took me a while to get used to my bf but its just a matter of knowing what the really NO stuff is and then getting used to the rest :)

good luck

Lube is my only suggestion as well.

Its funny because all the shorter girls I have been with 4'11-5'1 have been able to "Take it all", and the taller ones were the ones that had pain. Kinda opposite eh?

Silly question, but are you greatly endowed? I mean bigger than normal? If you have a porn star penis, this will be a problem no matter what.

So....is it the "key" or the "lock"?

Is this the same woman? Or different women with the same result?

if its the same woman has she been to a doctor, there are a few medical conditions, all treatable, which cause painful intercourse.

If it's different women, a book on sexual positions (or google it) might help, side by side might work/

now this is going to sound like im a size queen but ive only had one guy who when we were having sex with it hurt and he was big but i had alot bigger without any difficulties.. i never could figure it out with him... lots of lube lots of foreplay lots of positions all with the same result.. it wasnt cervix pain because i definetly know what that feels like and had several men who had alot more who could reach the cervix in any position without trying... it wasnt a girth issue because like i said he was average.. for some reason his key wouldnt work in my lock.... i hope he found the house his key went to... he was a great guy

Awww... Heehee, that's cute jillian.

well ty... he was a nice guy we just didnt click on a sexual level and lord knows that i have to click sexually

lol indeed..made me smile :)