Climax from oral sex
 

I love my boyfriend he is great at oral sex, but why can't I climax from it? I just end up really sensitive, like it passed me by. Help, I really enjoy this, but I think he gets frustrated by it.

Is this the only person that you've done this with? If not have you climaxed with others?

I get really sensitive as well during oral sex to a point where I can't stand Loverboy to touch my clit. Then I just make him lick another area or stick his tongue inside me or what ever until the sensitivity is gone. I think I get extremely sensitive like that 4- or 5 times during a session before I finally climax.

If you haven't been able to climax at all before then try making your boyfriend lick you while stimulating your asshole gently with a finger. That should to the trick :)

This happens to me if things get too fast too soon.. or if there is TOO MUCH attention directly on my clit.

It helps if I get a lot of attention around the clit, or just passing over it... but not totally focused on it.

Otherwise, it builds too fast, and then it just doesn't happen at all.

Whew, I'm glad I'm not the only one.

you have to think how good it feels

If you don't mind my asking, how long does that generally take???

You two lovely ladies need to share your likes with your lovers. Tell your partner this and you'll find he or she is only too willing to please you. After all...he or she wouldn't be doing it in the first place if it wasn't all about YOUR pleasure. TALK to them! :)

Knowing Nancy like I do I'll answer for her. It takes as long as it takes. Relax a bit and don't focus so much on the goal of orgasm but on the pleasure that you are giving your wonderful partner. If you really enjoy what you are doing then who cares how long it takes...enjoy it!

Nancy baby...you owes me one! :lol:

You sound like you know Nancy pretty well...