What causes people to have fetishes? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Undercover_Man · 10-28-2004, 09:51 PM

Hey there,
I was wondering what causes ppl to have fetishes. Is it caused from something that happened to the person when s/he was a child? Is the person born with it? Is it genetic? What causes these

nutjobs

to get them? Just curious.

- Undercover_Man

P.S. Just kidding about the nutjob thing if you have an unusual fetish.

Hax0ringWang · 10-29-2004, 02:39 AM

You seem to be talking about fetishes as if they are a disease that is "caught", it is simply an act, image etc. that turns an individual on more than "other" activities. There is nothing wrong with being turned on!

Personally I feel that fetishes are discovered, how can you realise that you are turned on by something until you are aware of it?

P.S. I have been lurking these boards for some time now, this is the first time I felt compelled to post, hi all

dobster · 10-29-2004, 02:50 AM

And a great post it was too!

Ok, nutjobs? That is SOOO asking for a loud response. However, I've got to goto work very soon, so I'll just politely request that you explain what the hell you mean.

ShaniFaye · 10-29-2004, 03:19 AM

Im a nutjob because I have fetishes? That doesnt sound very nice

dobster · 10-29-2004, 03:22 AM

HAHAHA! my tfp formatting hides the fact that Undercover_man may have been joking about 'nutjobs'! Yay! Sorry dude.

Shanifaye FYI: highlight the dull text under his post.

phew!

EDIT: You've gotta be in 'Sandstorm' to see this colour of text.

YKK · 10-29-2004, 03:27 AM

i don't know where my particular fetishes come from aside from the general "my screwed up brain".. i'm a dom most of the time and i propagate this because i like the feeling of ownership over another.. i'd assume i like it because of certain chemical combinations in the physical mind released by certain triggers.. though i'm not an expert on the subject and actually dislike psychology as a subject.. so i guess what i'm trying to say is..

i don't know.. nor do i care.. but i'll go with it

ShaniFaye · 10-29-2004, 03:30 AM

hmmm I use sandstorm and I still didnt see that til you pointed it out...quick somebody bring me coffee!!!

Ok...I will forgive him hehehe

I dont think my fetish is that unusual...more and more people are realizing that BDSM isnt such a bad thing hehehe

I dont know if I was "born" with it....but I've been into that as long as I can remember...looking back...probably even before I "knew" what it was exactly.

dobster · 10-29-2004, 03:32 AM

I believe that fetishes tend to be destined by childhood experiences. Alot of fetishes can be linked with comfort or security, factors that we relied on heavily as young kids.
Its mostly about association and triggers.

Aladdin Sane · 10-29-2004, 06:36 AM

The first time I realized that girls might also think about and enjoy sex as much as me I was 14. A friend and I were telling two girls about how we go right to the edge and stop when we masturbate. The girls let us know that they thought this was hot, and that they were horny from thinking about it. They insinuated that they planned to go home and masturbate. I was surprised. Sometime later I went to my first porn movie at a drive-in theater. It showed two young girls on a bed masturbating together.

I love to see or fantasize about young girls masturbating. Is that a fetish? I'm not sure, but I think it all started with the experiences I had as a teenager.

boredom · 10-29-2004, 07:51 AM

Dunno i was just walking around and saw something and it was like instant hard-on. Thats how mine developed

blar · 10-29-2004, 09:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dobster

I believe that fetishes tend to be destined by childhood experiences. Alot of fetishes can be linked with comfort or security, factors that we relied on heavily as young kids.
Its mostly about association and triggers.

what you said is exactly what i read in my sexuality class in school...but I dunno if that is true. For example they say that men that have a fetish for women in stockings most likely experienced wearing stocking as a kid or when hugging their mother around her legs they liked the feeling of the stockings.

but in my opinon peoples likes tastes etc usually change as they grow i don't know how some certain "likes" can be carried from childhood

adam · 10-29-2004, 12:43 PM

Yeah, I dunno. I don't think I have "fetishes" per se, but a lot of the things I find sexy were things I didn't see in my family of origin.

10-28-2004, 09:51 PM	#1 (permalink)
Undercover_Man Insane	What causes people to have fetishes? Hey there, I was wondering what causes ppl to have fetishes. Is it caused from something that happened to the person when s/he was a child? Is the person born with it? Is it genetic? What causes these nutjobs to get them? Just curious. - Undercover_Man P.S. Just kidding about the nutjob thing if you have an unusual fetish.

10-29-2004, 02:50 AM	#3 (permalink)
dobster Insane Location: South London, UK	And a great post it was too! Ok, nutjobs? That is SOOO asking for a loud response. However, I've got to goto work very soon, so I'll just politely request that you explain what the hell you mean. __________________ sig-na-ture 1. One's name as written by oneself. 2. The act of signing one's name. 3. A distinctive mark, characteristic, or sound indicating identity.

10-29-2004, 03:19 AM	#4 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	Im a nutjob because I have fetishes? That doesnt sound very nice __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

10-29-2004, 03:22 AM	#5 (permalink)
dobster Insane Location: South London, UK	HAHAHA! my tfp formatting hides the fact that Undercover_man may have been joking about 'nutjobs'! Yay! Sorry dude. Shanifaye FYI: highlight the dull text under his post. phew! EDIT: You've gotta be in 'Sandstorm' to see this colour of text. __________________ sig-na-ture 1. One's name as written by oneself. 2. The act of signing one's name. 3. A distinctive mark, characteristic, or sound indicating identity.

10-29-2004, 03:27 AM	#6 (permalink)
YKK Crazy Location: Toronto, ONT	i don't know where my particular fetishes come from aside from the general "my screwed up brain".. i'm a dom most of the time and i propagate this because i like the feeling of ownership over another.. i'd assume i like it because of certain chemical combinations in the physical mind released by certain triggers.. though i'm not an expert on the subject and actually dislike psychology as a subject.. so i guess what i'm trying to say is.. i don't know.. nor do i care.. but i'll go with it __________________ We're all black sheep and we know it.. So don't fsck it up for the rest. -- Sick of It All; Yours Truly

10-29-2004, 02:39 AM	#2 (permalink)
Hax0ringWang Upright	You seem to be talking about fetishes as if they are a disease that is "caught", it is simply an act, image etc. that turns an individual on more than "other" activities. There is nothing wrong with being turned on! Personally I feel that fetishes are discovered, how can you realise that you are turned on by something until you are aware of it? P.S. I have been lurking these boards for some time now, this is the first time I felt compelled to post, hi all

10-29-2004, 03:30 AM	#7 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	hmmm I use sandstorm and I still didnt see that til you pointed it out...quick somebody bring me coffee!!! Ok...I will forgive him hehehe I dont think my fetish is that unusual...more and more people are realizing that BDSM isnt such a bad thing hehehe I dont know if I was "born" with it....but I've been into that as long as I can remember...looking back...probably even before I "knew" what it was exactly. __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

10-29-2004, 03:32 AM	#8 (permalink)
dobster Insane Location: South London, UK	I believe that fetishes tend to be destined by childhood experiences. Alot of fetishes can be linked with comfort or security, factors that we relied on heavily as young kids. Its mostly about association and triggers. __________________ sig-na-ture 1. One's name as written by oneself. 2. The act of signing one's name. 3. A distinctive mark, characteristic, or sound indicating identity.

10-29-2004, 06:36 AM	#9 (permalink)
Aladdin Sane Degenerate Location: San Marvelous	The first time I realized that girls might also think about and enjoy sex as much as me I was 14. A friend and I were telling two girls about how we go right to the edge and stop when we masturbate. The girls let us know that they thought this was hot, and that they were horny from thinking about it. They insinuated that they planned to go home and masturbate. I was surprised. Sometime later I went to my first porn movie at a drive-in theater. It showed two young girls on a bed masturbating together. I love to see or fantasize about young girls masturbating. Is that a fetish? I'm not sure, but I think it all started with the experiences I had as a teenager. __________________ Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam.

10-29-2004, 07:51 AM	#10 (permalink)
boredom Insane Location: California	Dunno i was just walking around and saw something and it was like instant hard-on. Thats how mine developed __________________ Wiggum: Find anything this time, boys? Cop: Uh, no sign of him, Chief. Wiggum: Princess Opal? Opal: I see nothing here, but I'm afraid it's splitsville for Delta Burke and Major Dad. Wiggum: But they seem so happy! -- ``Bart the Murderer''

10-29-2004, 12:43 PM	#12 (permalink)
adam Insane	Yeah, I dunno. I don't think I have "fetishes" per se, but a lot of the things I find sexy were things I didn't see in my family of origin.