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gammaalpha1234 · 10-15-2004, 10:48 AM

For a while now ive been having trouble in a relationship of mine because of our equal lack of knowledge about the female vaginal discharge. long sory short ive seen it in her panties and it bothers me because she says its natural and come and goes but i feel like maybe its not a natural thing and could be caused by her having sex behind my back. i want to trust her and believe her and this topic has caused us alot of stress because she only knows so much about it and i dont know anything. is it really normal for a woman to have alot of dried up white stuff in her panties or is this something else? any help would be appreciated.

also is it normal for it to be more on one side then on another?

ShaniFaye · 10-15-2004, 10:58 AM

why would you think it has anything to do with her having sex?

yes its normal....has nothing to do with whether or not you've had sex....could be several things....she got aroused and "got wet" ovulation, etc.....its reasons like this that panty liners are made....but many women (like me) dont like using them so you end up with "white stuff" in your panties.

http://www.mckinley.uiuc.edu/health-.../vagdisch.html

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NORMAL VAGINAL DISCHARGE
All women have some vaginal discharge. Normal discharge may appear clear, cloudy white, and/or yellowish when dry on clothing. It may also contain white flecks and at times may be thin and stringy. Changes in normal discharge can occur for many reasons, including menstrual cycle, emotional stressors, nutritional status, pregnancy, usage of medications - including birth control pills, and sexual arousal.

maleficent · 10-15-2004, 10:58 AM

She's not having sex behind your back...

It sounds like it could be a yeast infection, which are perfectly normal but absolutely should be checked by a doctor. If she has questions about how her body works, or is unsure of something (so she can smack you upside the head for accusing her of cheating

She should really have a discussion with her doctor. (And if she's sexually active, she ought to have a doctor.)

jefferyn923 · 10-15-2004, 11:05 AM

Man your lucky she hasn't beaten the crap out of you... It is normal, and you better become understanding about it REAL quick! I agree with maleficent get her to go to the doc if she doesn't understand her body enough to explain things to you.

pinkie · 10-15-2004, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by gammaalpha1234

For a while now ive been having trouble in a relationship of mine because of our equal lack of knowledge about the female vaginal discharge. long sory short ive seen it in her panties and it bothers me because she says its natural and come and goes but i feel like maybe its not a natural thing and could be caused by her having sex behind my back. i want to trust her and believe her and this topic has caused us alot of stress because she only knows so much about it and i dont know anything. is it really normal for a woman to have alot of dried up white stuff in her panties or is this something else? any help would be appreciated.

also is it normal for it to be more on one side then on another?

Has she given you any reason not to trust her?

pinkie · 10-15-2004, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by jefferyn923

Man your lucky she hasn't beaten the crap out of you... It is normal, and you better become understanding about it REAL quick! I agree with maleficent get her to go to the doc if she doesn't understand her body enough to explain things to you.

I agree. How old is she?

ShaniFaye · 10-15-2004, 11:13 AM

she told him that its normal.....that should be good enuff

Averett · 10-15-2004, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye

she told him that its normal.....that should be good enuff

Yup. And if he doesn't understand it then he needs to do some research. Not think that she's having sex behind his back

It's completely and utterly normal. Some girls have more discharge than others.

gammaalpha1234 · 10-15-2004, 11:29 AM

but what info i found didnt really tell memuch of anything. and i wont lie i do have trust issues and always have througout most of my life which is why im posting this question here because im really ignorant when it comes to the female body ( in regards to what this and that is) and i want to know how it works so we wont have these kinds of arguments anymore. im flawed but im woring at getting past my issues and getting educated about something i dont understand is a way im going about it. and ty all for your replies its help me understand alot more than i originally did.

Averett · 10-15-2004, 11:37 AM

As far as it being on one side of the other, sometimes our undies will slip on us.... Nothing more, nothing less.

Suave · 10-15-2004, 11:45 AM

I like vaginal discharge, but Shani, that description of it really grossed me out.

*Nikki* · 10-15-2004, 12:47 PM

I think that any man who has a GIRLFRIEND or WIFE needs to put some time and energy into researching how a woman's body works. It won't kill you to learn a damn thing or two about a woman other then where you need to stick your cock.

ShaniFaye · 10-15-2004, 01:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Suave

I like vaginal discharge, but Shani, that description of it really grossed me out.

Im sorry....I was trying to make it as blunt as possible and when I put normal vaginal discharge into google that was one of the first 5 out of 82,900 hits that came back

forgive me?

StickODynomite · 10-15-2004, 02:41 PM

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yes its normal....has nothing to do with whether or not you've had sex....could be several things....she got aroused and "got wet" ovulation, etc.....its reasons like this that panty liners are made....but many women (like me) dont like using them so you end up with "white stuff" in your panties.

EXACTLY!

Oh and I agree w/ what *Nikki* said as well.

Jay You Dee · 10-16-2004, 04:24 AM

I'm a guy and agree with what Nikki said. When I was worried about my girlfriend being pregnant, my best friend was Google. While she was at work or asleep I'd be here at the trusty computer reading, then clicking links on those websites, then more links, etc. After about 3 weeks of doing this, I can actually talk to her about those kind of things and not be totally oblivious~

Oh, and in response to the lecture at hand - don't worry about it! Hell, if I worried about that, I might kill myself everytime my girlfriend brings her clothes to my laundromat to wash them. Just relax a little, in the past three months I've realized just how far worrying about things can get you - fuckin' nowhere

(except for the fact that I lost about 35 pounds and now don't really eat but once every other day!)

la petite moi · 10-16-2004, 09:37 AM

It's totally normal. I get a lot of discharge (and no, it's not a yeast infection, because I've heard those itch like CRAZY).

I'm thinking that vaginal discharge is the vaginas way of flushing itself out.

Suave · 10-16-2004, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye

Im sorry....I was trying to make it as blunt as possible and when I put normal vaginal discharge into google that was one of the first 5 out of 82,900 hits that came back

forgive me?

I don't know, you may have ruined my ability to perform oral sex on women foreve... wait, no, I'm fine now.

Forgiven!

jwoodsga · 10-20-2004, 10:05 AM

The wife swears that cum oozes out of her sometimes a day or so afterwards. Douches aren't good, so it just takes its time coming back out.

Unless she gives you a CONCRETE reason to mistrust her, don't sweat it.

Learn about her body, and GROW SOME BALLS

MageB420666 · 10-20-2004, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by la petite moi

It's totally normal. I get a lot of discharge (and no, it's not a yeast infection, because I've heard those itch like CRAZY).

I'm thinking that vaginal discharge is the vaginas way of flushing itself out.

Vaginal discharge is(I'm pretty sure) the result of flushing the vagina out. The vagina is a very dirty place(sorry ladies, no insult to you

), just like the mouth.

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Originally Posted by jwoodsga

The wife swears that cum oozes out of her sometimes a day or so afterwards. Douches aren't good, so it just takes its time coming back out.

I believe I read somewhere that the vagina is built in such a way that it can hold semen for up to two days and sometimes longer(depends on the woman), which coincidentally, is how long sperm can survive in the female body(two days). So even if you found dried sperm on her panties, it very well could be yours. Don't accuse her of cheating unless you have actual proof.

Discharge is perfectly normal, although it can look somewhat nasty. And I have to agree with *Nikki*. If you aren't sure, LOOK IT UP. The internet is the largest and most widely available information source in the world and you obviously have access to it. Use it before you acuse.

monica · 10-20-2004, 05:49 PM

Vaginal discharge is the body's way of keeping itself clean. It is completely normal. It probably fluctuates a lot depending on her monthly hormonal cycle. Sometimes there may be a LOT, while at other times, hardly any.

I would highly suggest you work hard at trusting your partner. You have to realize that your mistrust only hurts the relationship. AND, whether you waste your time worrying about it or not, people will do whatever they want to do with their lives... you can't stop her if she wants to cheat. SO, trust her, enjoy your relationship. Don't waste your time feeling pain when there's no reason to.

Deal with things as they come.

combatmedicjen · 10-20-2004, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by *Nikki*

I think that any man who has a GIRLFRIEND or WIFE needs to put some time and energy into researching how a woman's body works. It won't kill you to learn a damn thing or two about a woman other then where you need to stick your cock.

Rock on, *Nikki*. Rock on.

Locs · 10-21-2004, 09:55 AM

Knowledge of the female body comes when you live with a g/f.

It comes when you have to do laundry, and see "white stuff".
It comes when you do laundry and see her period panties.
It comes when you have to go the store for tampons for her.
It comes when you see a tube of vaginal cream (ointment), and you read about it.
It comes when you have a hot sexy night and notice her black thong panties on the floor with so much "white stuff" because you got her so wet.

Hell with one of my ex's I was so curious I had her show me how she inserts a tampon. She wasnt on her period, but damn I was interested.

All in all...as you grow up and get into more relationships things you might NOT want to know about comes...

KinkyKiwi · 10-21-2004, 11:07 AM

just wondering..altho this may be totally off topic ..but why is it that alot of guys are so afraid to ask and learn about womens bodys? i mean you stick what most guys i know say is the most precious part of your body into it..wouldnt you like to know what it is beyond some random hole on a chicks body? dammit it has other functions! lol

beteez2 · 10-22-2004, 12:21 PM

I agree kinky. You need to be awre of where you are sticking your dick. You need to read up on yeast infections & urinary tract infections & all of that fun syuff because sooner or later you will have to deal with it.

Mango · 10-22-2004, 12:49 PM

A thread about clitty litter.

KinkyKiwi · 10-22-2004, 01:58 PM

lol *pictures her proper french boyfriend asking how her yeast infection is* ....i dunno if i WANT guys to know about yeast infections...i might never get oral again...

beteez2 · 10-22-2004, 06:26 PM

just saying pussy's arnt perfect every day

xxSquirtxx · 10-22-2004, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by *Nikki*

I think that any man who has a GIRLFRIEND or WIFE needs to put some time and energy into researching how a woman's body works. It won't kill you to learn a damn thing or two about a woman other then where you need to stick your cock.

Well said.

raeanna74 · 01-25-2006, 11:43 AM

One more thing to take note of. Don't start getting suspcious or worried if the white stuff goes away for a while either.

When I was on the pill I became very dry. I went through a number of different pills and they each affected me differently. When I had a higher dose of estrogen I had nearly no discharge whatsoever. But once I went off I began to have a regular discharge. I get an excess of discharge when I'm ovulating. It tends to go away a little before I have my period.

As was said - it changes a LOT. Unless you have any other reason don't suspect her of cheating. For goodness sake - it could even just be that she's horny and wants YOU.

10-15-2004, 10:48 AM	#1 (permalink)
gammaalpha1234 Upright	Question aboutfemale vaginal discharge For a while now ive been having trouble in a relationship of mine because of our equal lack of knowledge about the female vaginal discharge. long sory short ive seen it in her panties and it bothers me because she says its natural and come and goes but i feel like maybe its not a natural thing and could be caused by her having sex behind my back. i want to trust her and believe her and this topic has caused us alot of stress because she only knows so much about it and i dont know anything. is it really normal for a woman to have alot of dried up white stuff in her panties or is this something else? any help would be appreciated. also is it normal for it to be more on one side then on another? Last edited by gammaalpha1234; 10-15-2004 at 10:52 AM..

10-15-2004, 10:58 AM	#3 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	She's not having sex behind your back... It sounds like it could be a yeast infection, which are perfectly normal but absolutely should be checked by a doctor. If she has questions about how her body works, or is unsure of something (so she can smack you upside the head for accusing her of cheating She should really have a discussion with her doctor. (And if she's sexually active, she ought to have a doctor.) __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.

10-15-2004, 11:13 AM	#7 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	she told him that its normal.....that should be good enuff __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

10-15-2004, 11:29 AM	#9 (permalink)
gammaalpha1234 Upright	I have done research but what info i found didnt really tell memuch of anything. and i wont lie i do have trust issues and always have througout most of my life which is why im posting this question here because im really ignorant when it comes to the female body ( in regards to what this and that is) and i want to know how it works so we wont have these kinds of arguments anymore. im flawed but im woring at getting past my issues and getting educated about something i dont understand is a way im going about it. and ty all for your replies its help me understand alot more than i originally did.

10-15-2004, 11:37 AM	#10 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	As far as it being on one side of the other, sometimes our undies will slip on us.... Nothing more, nothing less. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

10-15-2004, 11:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
jefferyn923 Upright Location: right on the other side	Man your lucky she hasn't beaten the crap out of you... It is normal, and you better become understanding about it REAL quick! I agree with maleficent get her to go to the doc if she doesn't understand her body enough to explain things to you.

10-15-2004, 11:45 AM	#11 (permalink)
Suave Twitterpated Location: My own little world (also Canada)	I like vaginal discharge, but Shani, that description of it really grossed me out.

10-15-2004, 12:47 PM	#12 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	I think that any man who has a GIRLFRIEND or WIFE needs to put some time and energy into researching how a woman's body works. It won't kill you to learn a damn thing or two about a woman other then where you need to stick your cock.

10-16-2004, 04:24 AM	#15 (permalink)
Jay You Dee Tilted Location: Cleveland, TN	I'm a guy and agree with what Nikki said. When I was worried about my girlfriend being pregnant, my best friend was Google. While she was at work or asleep I'd be here at the trusty computer reading, then clicking links on those websites, then more links, etc. After about 3 weeks of doing this, I can actually talk to her about those kind of things and not be totally oblivious~ Oh, and in response to the lecture at hand - don't worry about it! Hell, if I worried about that, I might kill myself everytime my girlfriend brings her clothes to my laundromat to wash them. Just relax a little, in the past three months I've realized just how far worrying about things can get you - fuckin' nowhere (except for the fact that I lost about 35 pounds and now don't really eat but once every other day!)

10-16-2004, 09:37 AM	#16 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	It's totally normal. I get a lot of discharge (and no, it's not a yeast infection, because I've heard those itch like CRAZY). I'm thinking that vaginal discharge is the vaginas way of flushing itself out.

10-20-2004, 10:05 AM	#18 (permalink)
jwoodsga Upright Location: Hotlanta, GA	The wife swears that cum oozes out of her sometimes a day or so afterwards. Douches aren't good, so it just takes its time coming back out. Unless she gives you a CONCRETE reason to mistrust her, don't sweat it. Learn about her body, and GROW SOME BALLS

10-20-2004, 05:49 PM	#20 (permalink)
monica Upright Location: Canada!	Vaginal discharge is the body's way of keeping itself clean. It is completely normal. It probably fluctuates a lot depending on her monthly hormonal cycle. Sometimes there may be a LOT, while at other times, hardly any. I would highly suggest you work hard at trusting your partner. You have to realize that your mistrust only hurts the relationship. AND, whether you waste your time worrying about it or not, people will do whatever they want to do with their lives... you can't stop her if she wants to cheat. SO, trust her, enjoy your relationship. Don't waste your time feeling pain when there's no reason to. Deal with things as they come.

10-21-2004, 09:55 AM	#22 (permalink)
Locs Upright Location: Texas	Knowledge of the female body comes when you live with a g/f. It comes when you have to do laundry, and see "white stuff". It comes when you do laundry and see her period panties. It comes when you have to go the store for tampons for her. It comes when you see a tube of vaginal cream (ointment), and you read about it. It comes when you have a hot sexy night and notice her black thong panties on the floor with so much "white stuff" because you got her so wet. Hell with one of my ex's I was so curious I had her show me how she inserts a tampon. She wasnt on her period, but damn I was interested. All in all...as you grow up and get into more relationships things you might NOT want to know about comes...

10-21-2004, 11:07 AM	#23 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	just wondering..altho this may be totally off topic ..but why is it that alot of guys are so afraid to ask and learn about womens bodys? i mean you stick what most guys i know say is the most precious part of your body into it..wouldnt you like to know what it is beyond some random hole on a chicks body? dammit it has other functions! lol __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

10-22-2004, 12:21 PM	#24 (permalink)
beteez2 Upright Location: ga	I agree kinky. You need to be awre of where you are sticking your dick. You need to read up on yeast infections & urinary tract infections & all of that fun syuff because sooner or later you will have to deal with it.

10-22-2004, 12:49 PM	#25 (permalink)
Mango Banned	A thread about clitty litter.

10-22-2004, 01:58 PM	#26 (permalink)
KinkyKiwi "Without the fuzz" Location: ..too close for comfort..	lol pictures her proper french boyfriend asking how her yeast infection is ....i dunno if i WANT guys to know about yeast infections...i might never get oral again... __________________ Some mornings, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps. Play with each other. Play with yourselves. Just don't play with the squirrels, they bite.

10-22-2004, 06:26 PM	#27 (permalink)
beteez2 Upright Location: ga	just saying pussy's arnt perfect every day

01-25-2006, 11:43 AM	#29 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	One more thing to take note of. Don't start getting suspcious or worried if the white stuff goes away for a while either. When I was on the pill I became very dry. I went through a number of different pills and they each affected me differently. When I had a higher dose of estrogen I had nearly no discharge whatsoever. But once I went off I began to have a regular discharge. I get an excess of discharge when I'm ovulating. It tends to go away a little before I have my period. As was said - it changes a LOT. Unless you have any other reason don't suspect her of cheating. For goodness sake - it could even just be that she's horny and wants YOU. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.