high_jinx

i've seen all kinds of threads on how to pick up girls... they all deal w/ how to act while you're trying to build chemistry/attraction and how to prepare yourself and dress up before making the attempt. so heres my question... what if you have all those pieces in place and you can tell you're feeling each other, but you're just unsure quite what to say to close the gap and seal the deal while that window is open in front of you.... what do you do or say if you want to escalate or test the waters.... and ladies, what works or has worked with you?

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CityOfAngels

Well you just gotta think to yourself: "What could she do to get my attention?" She could probably flash her boobs at you, right? Well, then the same thing should work with her, right? Right?

P.S. Please don't take me seriously and make a fool out of yourself by flashing your chest at an incredibly hot woman.

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Glory's Sun

it's all depends on the person. What works for one person won't work for another. What turns on one girl won't turn on the other. So for me it's all about eye contact and body language. You can usually tell what a girl is wanting. Sometimes you have to take the slow approach and sometimes you can just go in (pardon the expression) for the kill. I like to use alot of light flirting and then just read into what she wants. A girl will let you know what she wants one way or the other.