Well, I think that it is time that you came clean and talked to the girl and told her how you felt, and that you would like to try a relationship with her. Then depending on what she says you can deal with the other problems.

As do the rest of us! :D

well, IMO you really only have 2 options

1. Hang around till you get some
I sort of did this a few times where you just stay really good friends with girls until they realize they like you. Just always be there for them and always help them with guy problems and they will fall in love with you in no time. But, if you don't watch out you can easily become mayor of friends town, where you are just every girls best friend but none of them want you

2. Just tell her
This is what I would do, just in the middle of a conversation ask her out somewhere to a dinner, or a movie, or something nice that you usually don't do, or else it will seem like something friends do. Have a good time and then at the end of the night just give her a nice short good night kiss. and leave it at that then bring it up sometime later and see how she feels about it.


Be confident, not cocky

i told her that i liked her

and i said "well its not like you like me at all"

and she goes well yea i do like you..

so i guess shes trying to get rid of el stinko b/f haha

Now try something like, "Let's go out for dinner this Friday."

I know, I know, it's so limiting but "Let's go fuck like bunnies." doesn't seem to work well for some reason. :D

Be blunt. Be foreward. be agressive

WEEEEEEEEEEE she dumped her b/f!!!!!!!

Do you want her to hold up a sign in your face that says goddammit ask me out! Don't be a pussy.

It's MUCH too late for that. :D

ouch... she dumped him YESTERDAY lol

i think it needs a little time thats all..

and thanks denim, your such the pal.. :lol:

you always have nothing but mean things to say! how nice! :thumbsup:

ha!

I have to admit, I feel some sympathy for our friend, the self conscious middle man. I feel so because I was and in a lot of ways still am him. I have been in that situation before and I've totally caved and backed away because I was self conscious, or as many of you have labelled it, "a pussy". Well, I commend you, trev. I know how you feel and to some extent what you've been through. It's not easy. Good for you for being aggressive.

Now for a next step, ask her if she wants a shocker...

Well then, do something already. If you give her time, she'll find someone else. Look, if you don't really want her, then stop mooning over her and find someone else yourself.

I would still go after her man.. I was in the same situation about 6 years ago and ever since have wondered what it would have been like and if she was my sole mate.. you never know unless you try and if you don't try.. 6 years from now you will be kickin your self for not going after her.

my 2 cents for what it's worth!

Like so many others have said before: ask her out or your dick will never forgive you. I know mine hasn't.

So now that she dumped her asshole boyfriend ask her on a date. Like everyone has said stop being a pussy, and make sure you know where to go before don't ask her where she wants to go, take charge.

You said it!!

Man if I only knew then what I know now!!!

It may be mean, but it also happens to be true. You're young, we're not. Use our advice to not make the mistakes we did when we were in your shoes.

Little time my ass. Don't be such a pussy and ask her out. I, and everybody else here is getting sick and fucking tired reading about how you're thinking about doing this, or this, or this. GROW A PAIR!!

alright fine, then come to ohio and give me a pair..

maybe that will work, its bad enough that she was drinking and driving because she was depressed about it and crying all over the place.

she has told me a few times that she dosn't want a boy just yet.

It's not up to me.....

It's all on you, you have everyone here rooting for you and you chicken out. Doesn't make you look very good.

i am not chickening out. i told you she has stated more than one time that she is not ready for another boy or man yet.

so again i have to wait

It's time to find someone else, while you wait. :)