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i am 20 and have had sex with three girls so far. not bad not good. the first two went off wothout a hitch the one was a girlfriend and the next was just an overnighter. however the third was an interesting experience. when i did her it didnt last. like 5 minutes or some shit and it sucked and really ruined my day. so i tried with her aain the next week and the same. i dont understand i have never had the problem before and dont understand why it would happen then. any thought would help.

You mean didn't last like blew too soon, or do you mean didn't last like went limp?

either way.....it's all in your frame of mind dude

If you blew too soon, maybe she turned you on so much you couldn't stand it?


More info please.

It happens. Don't think about it too much. Work on controlling your body a bit better. Masturbate earlier in the day. There are about a million factors that could cause that.

You went in with a loaded weapon? Don't you know yer supposed to clean the pipes first...Or you just never seen the movie Something About Marie..

Anyways lots of things can cause that..over excitement for one.

blew too soon. kinda pissed me the fuck off lol

Are you getting overstimulated? Have you tried a desensitizer? Are you hittin it too hard/fast? Does she make you nervous? Is she crazy hot? Maybe cleaning the pipes before you meet up is a good idea. You could also try to think of something non-sexy while you're at it. Something like Rosie O'Donnel taking a crap.

It could be a number of things. What do YOU think it is? If it only happens with her and not with anyone else or by yourself, it is likely a psychological issue.

Try the stop and go technique.... Use the breif interludes to fondle her or change positions.

/far from an expert, but works for me

How can ANYONE give good advice with such little information?

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Dude, just try it again couple of minutes later. Should be able to last longer. If you blow too soon, she must be really hot, so going again can't be a problem.

Good luck!

indeed she was but i think the problem is is that shes an airhead or something to that effect. were kinda just fuck buddies
lol
well see next time thanks

When you quantify and objectify the sexual experience it doesn’t matter how long you go for because it is meaningless.

very good point lol and it really doesnt bother me with her cause well i dont really care about her however the other girls in the future are what i was concerned about and well i dont need that.

What Halx said.



Maybe you're schtupping the wrong team.

Kinda your side of the story also. You blew too soon, but did you do enough before hand to at least stimulate her?

I've always liked sex, but I honestly to think about it...I love the foreplay just as much.

In your situation, if you play all the cards and in the end your hand came up short...all I can say is play another and go all in.

That's cold, Dude. Read what you said. If in your opinion she's only a jism recepticle it's no wonder you blow in five. In your head you're using her for what she's worth.