I've thought about it but not at length. although, when I was about 14 a friend and I pulled a stunt on our girlfriends with a hotdog.. yah... if you pull a prank like that you kinda have to think about it.. oh man, you shoulda saw the look on their faces when the hotdog got bit in half...

I would never do it. I am straight, but can appreciate the male physique (since I am a bodybuilder, I like the way muscle looks on a man, but no sexual feelings whatsoever). The thought has popped into my head, but I think that every guy on the face of the planet has contemplated whether or not they are gay/bisexual. I realized; I am not. I like the womens only (sexually).

I am not interested in doing anything even remotely sexual with a guy. So no.

The thought repulses me.

Well Hal I'm sure alot of guys would fit the bill being clean and nice but as far as the other comparison you'll probably have to start looking on a farm for candidates.
LOL

alright I seemed to have gotten jumped on for my statement.

The reasons i'm saying ovenall has bisexual tendancies (which he says so himself) are:

1. Same gender sexual fantasy

2. Implied by the words "Urge" and "fantasy" I thought that this act turns Ovenall on.

3. Willingness to act upon said fantasy.

Trisk, I believe that girls that kiss/grope/go down on other girls are similarly bisexual as men that would do those acts. I think that the comfort level is just different for women than men towards same-sex sexual play. This is strongly influenced by our society, but probably has genetic factors as well.

The labels of "gay" and "bisexual" seem to be clearly defined in some people's minds from what i've read here, and are different from my own perceptions, so i'll try to explain my own point of view.

I see our sexuality as a point on a scale from heterosexual to homosexual, Bisexuality being right in the middle. Most people will fall close to the heterosexual side. Depending on what you are willing/turned on by, you can shift all the way to homosexuality. I have trouble seeing that people are born either hetero, bisexual, or homosexual and nothing in between. Or that limitations on what makes a gay man or lesbian woman homosexual.

Munku, I disagree with your statement. I love my best friend deeply because i've grown up with him and we've supported each other, but I have no sexual feelings for him, nor him for me. Male bonding would be gay under your restrictions of homosexuality. If male bonding is gay, what then seperates gay men from "straight" guys with friendships with other guys?

All i'm trying to say is that there is a lot of misinformation and plain confusion about what makes us straight or gay. I'm not saying my opinion is right, but that it's just a different perspective on this issue.

I can honestly say I have never had the desire to and even if I did I do not believe i would ever act upon it. But to each is own.

This thread reminds me of a joke from Carlos Mencia (Take a Joke America)

"Goddamnit, anybody willing to suck MY dick is a good person.

I'm not saying I'm goanna let you, I just like the thought behind what you want to do.

[Guy looking at him funny]

Sir... don't look at me funny, what if tomorrow there is a plague and every woman on this planet dies?

You're jerkin off... I got a friend!"

:p

He'd have to be really clean and really muscular.

I won't lie. I've thought about it.

I think that Orphen made a good point. In nearly every society, both before and after the advent of Christianity, shows some homosexual activity. By homosexual, I mean a purely sexual experience with a member of the same sex. I really and truely feel that humans were not "wired" to be totally hetrosexual. I feel that, to an extent, this is largly something to come out of society and religion. I think if you want to try it, go for it! The worst that can happen is you find you enjoy it, which is NOT bad.

I myself have actually done it. I only did it once or twice, but I wasn't a fan of it.

Fresh out of the shower, maybe. Of course I've fantasized about it now and then.

I don't have the desire to do it, but I have wondered what it would feel like and if I'd be any good at it. I will admit, I tried it with my wife's dildo (which is 'regular sized'), and I didn't realize just how far you have to open your jaws. I'm more impressed now that my wife doesn't mind giving blowjobs.

beejay, I have to agree with you. In theory (in a small dark corner of my brain) I have fantasized about having sex with another guy. And we're talking full blown sex, you name, I see myself doing it. The problem in reality is I must have a really high standard for what I consider an attractive male, because the guys I run across, I just kind of go "ugh, no thanks". Now women on the other hand, I don't think I have any standards....

like a few others I've thought about it, but no I'd never do it.

I have thought about it. Not all the time, just sometimes "pops" into my head. HA.

I agree with what halx said esp in regards to the similarity.

When I was about 12 or 13 a friend gave me a blowjob, which I didn't like, and I felt obliged to return the favor. I hated it. All of it. It grossed me out. For me, having sex with another guy is repulsive. Been there, done that. Never again.

yeah i kinda agree with this. I could never see myself with a man in a relationship. I dont want to kiss or even receive a bj... but for some reason i would enjoy giving one. Its totally sexual.

kinda odd, but whatever

Would it make a difference if it was with a transexual for all of you?
I think that that would make it a little easier for me, but the mindset of the person would have to be feminine. Otherwise, pretty much everyone has thought about it, (including me), but there is no interest in it.

What pocon1 said.

I know where you're coming from, so to speak. My problem, such as it is, is that I simply am not attracted to men. However, it's the secondary characteristics that make that determination for me, not the equipment. I could seriously consider blowing a hot she-male, but I don't thin I could do it with a guy (unless it were my clone, and that would be masturbation.)

/shudder

I give guys blow jobs all the time and i must say that theres nothing to frown about, i mean hey its really quite fun and tastes great. i think all men and women should do it all the time because its awesome.... I for one have no problem with one guy giving it to another guy and personally wouldn't mind watching it.

I think that's wonderful Cygnus, if you're ever in the Baltimore area I would love to let you further practive your craft further on me.

I don't care how attractive the guy is, I've never so much as even fantasized about giving a guy a hug let alone a BJ. The thought of another man's manhood anywhere near me just freaks me out.

I agree with Captain Nemo. I've thought about it (and tried it with a girlfriends dildo), but I just can't think of what type of guy I wouldn't be repulsed by. I can't look at a guy and tell if they are good looking or not. They all look ugly to me.

I cant say I've ever really thought about it, but no, I wouldnt want to do that

To be honest i think there are some very attractive guys out there. I too am a very active guy and in the gym 4 times a week. I take care of myself. I would probably expect the same from whomever it was that it was going to happen with.

Besides that I think it would be better if it was an attractive shemale.

Outside of that. never crossed my mind. I really like going down on women and enjoy it to no end.

I have been calling myself Bi-Sexual for almost 14 years now since my first experiment (first of many) I have of course given and recieved Oral sex from a man, as well as had some quite pleasurable Anal encounters as well, but....

At the same time I have never kissed a man or really seen one and thought to myself "wow...he's cute" although seeing a picture of a nice penis does get my excited. Now, for the record let me say that I have been married to a wonderfull woman for over 7 years now, she is bi-sexual as well. One of my biggest fetishes is to sit by and watch her have sex with other men or women (So its safe to say I'm "freaky" to start with :-P ) I am a great lover of women and all the beauty they provide to the world, and though my experiances with men have all been of a purely sexual nature I do consider myself to be "bi" though for the sake of my job and the area of the country I live in I am forced to live this life in reletive secrecy (though even here in the bible belt i'ts not hard to find a cock to suck...and they are ussualy attached to the most unlikely subjects)

Never. Men are filthy, I should know. Reading this thread, I had to supress my gag reflex. Hell, I can't even picture myself kissing/blowing/fucking another man. If I try, I draw a blank. I'm actually pretty thankful for that.

Thought about it... even fantasized about doing it..... i consider myself bi-sexual for all intensive purposes anyway.

I am Straight but i hav thought about giving a blow job and hav liked the idea, but i would be natural to wonder about those kind of things i think.

I've thought about it...but never seriously. Just kind of...in passing. Although I can't think of a situation where I would actually engage in such activities...I learned a long time ago to never say never.
Maybe a really hot shemale...I mean really hot.

I would under the right circumstances, haven't met a guy yet whose cock i wanted to chug, though.

I consider myself bi and have read a lot about it. I think the funniest "first time" stories I've read are accidents. The most common "accident" was a threesome with a wife and a friend, and unexpectedly there is guy-guy contact. The token response is, "I never even thought about myself even liking it. I assumed that I was straight, so I didn't even consider it."

So you could spend your whole life assuming you're straight and "miss out."

As I like to say about most apects of life, "O magnum mysterium."

To be honest, giving a bj never really crossed my mind. Whenever I am thinking about something in a sexual way, I am thinking of a woman. I mean I LOVE women.

Every guy should question his sexual prefrence, just to make sure you aren't missing out on anything you might enjoy. My test was watching a Brad Pitt movie with like 4 of my gay friends (among others). They asked, "What do you think? Would you?" I honestly thought about it. I considered what it might be like to think of another man in a sexual way (I didn't actually think about doing anything with one). I not only didn't like it, it made me really uncomfortable. "No thanks," I replied.

I am not necessarily saying that a mans curiosity to give a bj is gay or bisexual. But in my mind, it's close.

you know, I could give a long explanation as to why I wouldn't, or even think of giving, anything to another male, no matter the sircumstances or consequences.


but, instead, I'll give a simple no. I will say that I am not a homophobe, but simply confident enough in my sexuality to not be curious, not even a little bit.

I've thought about it, sure. I'm not particularly turned on by looking at men, but if a really close friend wanted to come to bed with me and my wife... maybe. There would have to be a close relationship first, though, because the sexual attraction on its own wouldn't work for me.

My wife has told me she feels the same way about women.

I can say I've honestly thought about sexual encounters with other guys. Doubt I would ever act on it but you neve know what life is going to present you with. Not really sure where my wife stands on the issue although I know she finds several females very attractive.

raging heterosexual, here. but have experimented a bit when i was in 7th-9th grade. i just like sexual things and have since i was pretty young. it was only one guy, my best friend, and i was way turned on by it back then. i think my friend and i just couldn't get any play and we were super-horny kids. and then it actually happened again a few years ago in mexico with another guy. my g/f at the time, my best (male) friend, the shower and an entire bottle of tequila were all involved. it wasn't great at all, and my heterosexuality was confirmed. i don't consider myself even bi, because i love women and their vaginas so much. and i know people who have had no experiences at all who think about it. to think about it is definitely normal as far as i'm concerned.