Holding back orgasm....(men) dangerous?
 

i've been reading about kegel muscle exercises here and i've been trying it out.

i was able to mastburbate to orgasm and then squeeze my kegel muscle until it subsided. i didn't ejaculate and i was able to reach orgasm again.

now, i was squeezing pretty hard to hold the ejaculation back. it was almost scary....i was worried, i'd pull the muscle or something.

my question is this: are there any dangers to holding back your ejaculation? on the positive side, i could see myself reaching multiple orgasms this way....but on the negative side, i don't want anything to burst :confused:

I do it all the time and never had anything bad happen.

Never tried it to be honest. I'm like you, don't want to bust a vane or something. You didn't get a serious case of blue balls from this?

how do you do that? what are you squeezing? and when you do cum is it like you know all the stuff you held back aswell?

Kazic, have you ever just made your mr. happy wiggle w/ o using your hands? That's the kegel muscle. If you flex it, you can feel it tugging in the crotch & lower crotch area...

When you are about to come, just tighten that muscle, and it should keep the fluids from coming out :thumbsup:

I don't know if this is true or not, but I've heard that you use the same muscle to stop yourself when your'e taking a piss. So if you stop yourself and hold it when taking a piss you'll be making that muscle a bit stronger and you'll be able to control your orgasm longer that way because you'll be able to hold it in longer.

This is also known as the PC Muscle. If you excerise it enough a man can become multi-orgasmic. You can have orgasms without ejaculating, and without needing a recharge period. Then when you are done you just let go and ejaculate on your last orgasm.

You can excersize it by flexing it, and later when its strong enough flexing and holding it.

That's true, but you should only use it like that to find out if you've got the right muscle. Don't do that too often, or you'll screw something up. Here's a good article about it.

i eventually did ejaculate.

as mentioned above, i suspect that i could have multiple orgasms and last longer doing this. i've been able to delay orgasm, but this was the first time i was able to hold it long enough until the orgasm subsided (with no ejaculation).

it was pretty intense, so i'm wondering if it's dangerous to do this.

the last thing i want to do is pull a muscle down there. :hmm:

This is part of the foundation of tantric sex, male orgasm without ejaculation. Orgasm and ejaculation are completely different physical processes. From what I understand, it's not unhealthy. Also not necessarily easy to do, so kudos ;)

I trained myself to do it. Trust me its great and there is no side effects as far as I know as long as you eventually ejaculate.

Orgasm and ejaculation are to unrelated processes, but we are programmed to do both at the same time. You just have to teach yourself not to do the two at the same time necessarily. When I ejaculate it still feels more satisfying, but a couple of Os before that is great :p

And women appreciate the stamina this gives you. You can basically maintain an erection indefinitely once its up :)

question: when you feel an orgasm coming on, do you need to stop and motion until it subsides? or do you "pump right through"?

Nope you just clench the muscle when its near and keep going like your life depends on it :p

It DOES take a lot of practice though, and sometimes you still have a slip so this should never be used as a form of contraception.

Been doing it for years. Just let off a bit, enjoy the big O and repeat as necessary. Old mr happy loses a bit of wood, but bounces right back in under a minute.
I was shown this when I was in my early 20's by a 37 YO woman and I remain thankful to her to this day:)

Good article, well worth the read! :P

Very interesting article. It seems kind of difficult though to flex the muscle when you're just sitting down. I guess it takes some practice to figure it out.

been able to do this for as long as i can remember, and it definately makes things much more pleasurable

Yeah I've been doing it since peuberty. No one taught me to do it, just experimenting while watchin... movies. Figured it increased the power of my orgasm, and once I started getting sexual with women learned it delays the orgasm helpin out her.

Sounds amazing going to try and figure it out. would be awesome with a girl who is also multiorgasmic. (yes there are alot who aren't) that way we could just share in the exchange of orgasm after orgasm.

Very dangerous. Your head might explode.

My psych prof was trying to explain it to our mostly-female class and said it was somewhat akin to trying to will your nuts up into your body...

Thats because its not very strong. After enough practice you will be able to flex and hold for 30 seconds or so while sitting.

Just don't overdo the practicing. Do like 20 flexes of the muscle twice a day. No more. Otherwise life could be uncomfortable for you :p

Sounds like an interesting psych class you got there, buddy.

mmmm.... psych girls:D

i have heard about this, i am gonna try it, thanks guys!

Psychology of human sexuality, with a very cool prof. He brought sex toys today. I love this class :D Posting in it at the moment actually, heh.

I need to take that course I think.