Without trust your relationship is going to slowly deteriortate and you will both be miserable. "Oh No!!, she was 5 min late!!! Was she fucking somone??"
That's how you're going to start thinking soon. Get out now and save your sanity.

Also, as a future course of action, please try punctuation

Ok, I'm changing my mind I think -- let me understand this.

She wants you to be supportive and stand by her and be her friend and all that goes with it.
She wants to do exactly as she pleases with whomever she pleases. What exactly does that mean? Girlfriends, guy friends, sexual relationships?

Some people have no problem with open relationships, and they can screw whomever they want to as long as the heart beongs only to one... However.. both sides have to agree.

I'm not sure she can have it both ways.

If she wants the freedom to have wahtever friends she wants to, then that's great, in a relationship, a person needs to maintain their own identity, you go out and have your own friends too....

But... and I'm trying to say this as nicely as i can...

Have a little more respect for yourself than to be her beck and call boy. You deserve someone who will treat you better than that.

Courtesy of Offspring

"Self Esteem"

I wrote her off for the tenth time today
And practiced all the things I would say
But she came over
I lost my nerve
I took her back and made her dessert
Now I know I'm being used
That's okay man cause I like the abuse
I know she's playing with me
That's okay cause I've got no self esteem

We make plans to go out at night
I wait till 2 then I turn out the light
All this rejection's got me so low
If she keeps it up I just might tell her so

When she's saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care; Right ?

Now I'll relate this little bit
That happens more than I'd like to admit
Late at night she knocks on my door
Drunk again and looking to score
Now I know I should say no
But that's kind of hard when she's ready to go
I may be dumb but I'm not a dweeb
I'm just a sucker with no self esteem

When she's saying that she wants only me
Then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
When she's saying that I'm like a disease
Then I wonder how much more I can spend
Well I guess I should stick up for myself
But I really think it's better this way
The more you suffer
The more it shows you really care; Right ?

I love that song.

OK
dildo? Nope
Penis? Nope
Virginity? Nope

Its a butt plug isn't it?

My bet is it's closer to this:

http://www.angusoblong.net/gallery/TotallyBustedLG.JPG

thx alot for ur support maleficent
and others its helps with ur advice
I just dont know thats all