Confused
 

Ok, there is a girl I really like, and i am not sure if she likes me back. She keeps throwing really confusing signs at me. She doesn't shy away from hugging me, she talks to me when we meet at different places, and we have a really geeky handshake thingy. I finally convinced myself to ask her to prom, (over the telephone) and she said she will tell me later. She also asked where I got her number and tells me that I was blunt when I talked to her . A few days later, I find out that I have to go somewhere prom night, and I tell her about it, and she is cool with it. One of my friends asked her if she was going to prom with me, even if I didn't have to leave prom night, and she said, "No he's cool and all, but I wouldn't go with him". I then found out that she had asked someone else a month before I asked. I am wondering if it seems as though she does like me, and I screwed up by calling her, if her subtext ment "he is ugly" or what?

Any opinions?

She sounds like a flirt, who doesn't quite know how to be honest with people.

You asked her to the prom, and while she already had a date, she said she'd tell you later? That's also a bit of game player too.

No where did I read a "he's ugly" into that.

Seems like you are in the friend zone. You are a cool guy to hang out with, but thats as far as it goes. She is not thinking about having a relationship with you.

It's a power thing... might not have anything with you. And if it does, it probably has nothing to do with looks or personality.

Ya, don't worry about her and move on. Not worth games.

Ditto. My life experience tells me that if a girl is interested she will definitely let you know. She isn't interested, I think.

dude no worries. keep pluggin away, it makes things easier down the road when you want to meet some real women. if you like her company why not just keep hanging out with her and leave it at that. like mentioned before, if she likes you she will let you know.

dont worry about your looks. you cant change them. just try and keep your confidence up and your laughing.

Move on. She's not interested.

Even though you're not dating her....

Dump her.

The consensus is leave it be. No point in following this path. You are done. Move on. No love lost here.

Thanks guys. I thought it would be fitting to ask someone other than my parents, who tell me I should stay trying to go for her. Damn parents and thinking their children are the best.

sounds like she had you wriggling on the line. The whole "i'll tell you later" thing could either be her not wanting to hurt your feelings over the phone (which is ridiculous, because how painful could it be to hear "I'm sorry I already have a date"), or she just wanted to keep you writhing in anticipation.

Some girls hug and hang on their guy friends. That doesn't make them flirts, but it doesn't mean they're interested either. Forget about pursuing a relationship with her, this one leads to a dead end.