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Old 05-23-2004, 11:49 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Goddamnit, I graduate from high school in a week, and I'm still a virgin. Maybe I can fix that at grad night party....
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Old 05-23-2004, 11:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Whats the rush? Sex is a million times more fun when its with someone you are genuinely attracted to and can get close with. The actual act of sex isn't that great, its all the foreplay and kinky shit that leads up to it that really makes it worth while.
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Old 05-24-2004, 12:51 AM   #3 (permalink)
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I'm gunna feel like a loser graduating high school without ever having any sexual contact with a girl (besides making out/kissing.)

4.0+ GPA, 6/7 college admitances, 32 ACT, nice car (Lexus), and all of it is nothing to me since I haven't gotten with a girl.
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Old 05-24-2004, 01:11 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I was a virgin when i graduated, and I didn't have a 4.0, a nice car, or any college admittances.

relax, it's not a race.
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Old 05-24-2004, 01:18 AM   #5 (permalink)
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It's not a race, it's a lack of accomplishment
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Old 05-24-2004, 01:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Having sex is not an accomplishment by any means. If you're dying to get laid that bad, that's what college is for.
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Old 05-24-2004, 02:27 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I'm gunna feel like a loser graduating high school without ever having any sexual contact with a girl (besides making out/kissing.)
You're allready a loser for feeling that way.
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:05 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:07 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I'm gunna feel like a loser graduating high school without ever having any sexual contact with a girl (besides making out/kissing.)
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You're allready a loser for feeling that way.
I agree. If you're going to base your life accomplishments based on getting laid... Well, you're going to have a pretty sad life ahead of you.
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:08 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I just want to have sex atleast once, then it won't be such a big fucking deal to me....
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:23 AM   #11 (permalink)
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God I'm schizo.

I want to have sex, but I also want to be in a meaningful relationship, even if it doesn't have that much sex in it.
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:27 AM   #12 (permalink)
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That about sums it up.
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:21 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Dude.. relaaaaax.... You're 18, you've got a lot of living to do. And a lot of disappointments ahead of you!
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:23 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I didnt have sex till after highschool.. didnt bug me too much.. high school students dont appreciate it
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:26 AM   #15 (permalink)
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4.0+ GPA, 6/7 college admitances, 32 ACT, nice car (Lexus), and all of it is nothing to me since I haven't gotten with a girl.
Christ. I probably had a 2.5 GPA (if I was lucky), a 27 ACT if I remember correctly, and a car? Ha, I didn't even have my license... You've got to rethink your priorities.
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:36 AM   #16 (permalink)
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Amen. Do you realize how much you do have and how many adults would love to have the opportunities that you have?

Why all the rush all of a sudden to have sex?
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:47 AM   #17 (permalink)
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i didnt have sex til after i finished high school. i'm guessing your grades are fucking awesome - i dont know the US system. but honestly dude, gauging from the reactions to what others have posted in this thread, you're in a much better position than a lot of people.
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:48 AM   #18 (permalink)
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and while im at it - i forgot to mention...

if you go out with the intention of trying to get laid on your grad night, it wont be half the night it should be. go out, have a great night with mates - it'll be the last time you see a lot of them for a loooong time, if at all again (depening where you goto college)
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Old 05-24-2004, 05:08 AM   #19 (permalink)
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Since when did we slip into a bad teen movie? "have to get laid before the end of highschool".. bah..

You have a car, and you're going to go to College. You'll have more girls around you then you ever realized possible. My last point on this

Don't worry.. relax..
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Old 05-24-2004, 05:27 AM   #20 (permalink)
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Like everyone is saying, it's not a race. I would definitely want to have sex with someone that means something to me, not just some person when I'm drunk at a grad party, you know?
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Old 05-24-2004, 06:49 AM   #21 (permalink)
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i didn't have sex until i graduated high school... and like a lot of other people i knew, i had it in my head that it was a huge, life-changing deal. i thought that once i had sex, i would instantly be a new person and that i would become a real man... ha, yeah right... that's a bunch of hollywood bullshit. sex is not a big deal and it won't change who you are.

wait until you meet someone special, you'll be forever glad that you did.

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and while im at it - i forgot to mention...

if you go out with the intention of trying to get laid on your grad night, it wont be half the night it should be. go out, have a great night with mates - it'll be the last time you see a lot of them for a loooong time, if at all again (depening where you goto college)
very good point right here... don't ever make expectations when you're going out other than to maybe stay out of trouble. if you do, you'll almost certainly be disappointed and all you'll remember from the night is how you "failed" rather than what good things did happen.
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Old 05-24-2004, 09:54 AM   #22 (permalink)
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I guess it's not that big of a deal after all...I need to do some serious self re-evaluation....
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Old 05-24-2004, 09:58 AM   #23 (permalink)
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I want to have sex, but I also want to be in a meaningful relationship, even if it doesn't have that much sex in it.
I know whatcha mean, guy. I didn't shed my virginity until I was 25. Afterwards, I could get on with being who I was and not be too concerned about it anymore.

You sound pretty normal to me.
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Old 05-24-2004, 10:00 AM   #24 (permalink)
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I guess it's not that big of a deal after all...I need to do some serious self re-evaluation....
Probably a good idea, yeah. Remember that the grass is always greener etcetera.

OTOH, I wouldn't be too surprised if you still want to shed your virginity. After all, you're still human.
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Old 05-24-2004, 12:00 PM   #25 (permalink)
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its not all about getting laid...if you wanna a quick lay wait till college....but there is no shame in being a virgin.....hell i didnt even talk to girls until college cuz i went to an all guys high school....if that makes it any better
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Old 05-24-2004, 12:17 PM   #26 (permalink)
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go out buy a used copy of american pie, take a sledge hammer smash the shit out of it. Then scream "FUCK HOLLYWOOD AND YOUR UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS YOU SHOVE ON MY GENERATION!!!!" then never watch bullshit like the OC and live a normal life.

Good luck.
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:34 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Hey take it from me, I have been in college for 2 years now and I am still a virgin. Believe me I have had the chance to lose it, but honestly what is the point? I am waiting for the one that I am in love with, not just to fuck for the hell of it. It will happen, just not as soon as you would like.
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Old 05-24-2004, 03:43 PM   #28 (permalink)
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Hey take it from me, I have been in college for 2 years now and I am still a virgin. Believe me I have had the chance to lose it, but honestly what is the point? I am waiting for the one that I am in love with, not just to fuck for the hell of it. It will happen, just not as soon as you would like.
Check and Mate. That is the best thing to do. I did and it was worth every minute of the wait. Had the chance but I was not just looking for sex I was looking for love. Knowing that the person you love waited for the person they want to spend the rest of their lives with and then that being you is the greatest gift you can ever give or ever recieve. There is nothing better than giving yourself completely to the person you love. Don't be like all those other assholes out there just looking for some "poon". I have many friends like that and its just is not worth it at all. You cant call that happiness.
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:39 PM   #29 (permalink)
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K, well, I want to wait for someone I really like, or someone really hot....
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:45 PM   #30 (permalink)
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K, well, I want to wait for someone I really like, or someone really hot....
Glad to see you got those priorities in check

So if some hot chick comes by, you'll bang her? Might as well get yourself a blow up doll and get it over with. It's insane to say "I want to wait for someone I really like....... or somebody hot"

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Old 05-24-2004, 04:48 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Look man, don't feel bad. I graduted without ever having even kissed a girl, and now I have a beautiful g/f who's very active both physically and sexually. There's really no rush, and things have a nice little way of working themselves out.
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Old 05-24-2004, 04:49 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Damn man, I didn't kiss a girl until after I graduated high school, and I didn't worry about it at all. I didn't have sex until I was 19, even though I can see how people could go way, way past that and still be a virgin. If my girlfriend hadn't came along in my life, I'd probably go through college a virgin as well.

There's not a damn thing wrong with not having sex yet. You're going to college, so you'll probably find someone you like there.

High School is bullshit. Everyone always brags about how they got laid this and that last night and how they made out with this and that. It's all bullshit. There aren't as many people as you think in high school that aren't virgins anymore. Damn, you don't even turn 18 until your senior year! There is simply nothing wrong with leaving high school without kissing or having sex yet. If you worry about it, it's simply because of what other people have told you (or those jackass teen movies), which is mainly bullshit. In college, no one gives a damn who's had sex and who hasn't. Get used to it.

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Old 05-24-2004, 04:49 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Don't sweat it. Young 'uns are like that.
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Old 05-24-2004, 07:12 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Damn man, I didn't kiss a girl until after I graduated college, and I didn't worry about it at all. I didn't have sex until I was 19, even though I can see how people could go way, way past that and still be a virgin. If my girlfriend hadn't came along in my life, I'd probably go through college a virgin as well.

There's not a damn thing wrong with not having sex yet. You're going to college, so you'll probably find someone you like there.

High School is bullshit. Everyone always brags about how they got laid this and that last night and how they made out with this and that. It's all bullshit. There aren't as many people as you think in high school that aren't virgins anymore. Damn, you don't even turn 18 until your senior year! There is simply nothing wrong with leaving high school without kissing or having sex yet. If you worry about it, it's simply because of what other people have told you (or those jackass teen movies), which is mainly bullshit. In college, no one gives a damn who's had sex and who hasn't. Get used to it.

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Old 05-24-2004, 08:05 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Well i got laid in my final year of HS, it wasn't as big of a deal as i thought it would be...and it certainly wasnt any life changing experience. If you're that damn hung up about it go out and get a hooker and get it over and done with, then regret not waiting for the rest of your life
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Old 05-24-2004, 09:10 PM   #36 (permalink)
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So you had sex without even kissing? All hail the foreplay master.
Ha ha, didn't notice my typo. Thanks!

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Old 05-24-2004, 11:00 PM   #37 (permalink)
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4.0+ GPA, 6/7 college admitances, 32 ACT, nice car (Lexus), and all of it is nothing to me since I haven't gotten with a girl.
... just wanted to draw attention to that

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Old 05-25-2004, 01:19 AM   #39 (permalink)
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You're going to turn into the wussy guy that will NEVER get laid, trust me. Actually, my intuision is that you're probably solidly there right now.

And the old addage that there's a lot of sex at colleges is a complete myth; there's lots of sex everywhere, if you know how to play the game.

Oh and by the way high school seniors don't need a Lexus.
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