My girlfriend is allergic to me sexually
 

Really, thats what I'm starting to think..

I see her about one week in four (we live in different cities) and about a day after each visit she itches 'there'.

We've both been to the clinic (checked out clean) and were told she has a reaction to some antibodies I deposit. Apparently theres not much we can do about it except use condoms.

Has anyone else here had this experience? And if so, was it permanent?

I've never had a similar situation, but it is entirely possible that she truly does have some sort of allergic reaction to your sperm and that she's not lying about it.

permanent - NO. If you spent more time together it is most likely that this problem will end. :)

Well...See...It is all your fault.. and it isnt an allergy.Girls vaginas maintain a healthy level of bacteria,and you're going in and humpin it all off,Leaving your own. Both of you should shower first(its sexy anyway) Brush your teeth(mouths are naaasty),Use lube.. (instead of spit) and pull out when you ejaculate(don't leave a mess).And even if it isnt any of your boy cooties doing the damage...It could just be from the friction of fucking.Irriatated skin... on a girl.. itches lots.... down there. and post-coital itching is one of the sure signs of a yeast infection.Some times undecetable.So I uh...Good luck.

YeaYea..I been drinking.

This irritation/itching was a problem with my first girlfriend also. But SixEdxMia pretty much said what i wanted to say. make sure everything is clean, but also make sure that she's very wet (or use lots of lube) because the friction can cause irritation.

You may be clean but did they check her for a simple bacterial infection? Bacterial Vaginosis - about as simple as a yeast infection can go unnoticed for long periods of time and actually never cause any symptoms. When the woman has sex those the sex act and all that's involved can disturb her ph balance in the vagina. This can make it much easier for the Bacteria that causes BV to flourish and cause irritation. I deal with BV frequently and it often flares up after marathon sex when things become irritated and the environment in my vagina is set up to allow the bacteria a foothold. Also I managed to get some relief when they treated me for BV with an antibacterial vaginal cream and when they gave hubby some antibiotics. Sometimes the man can harbor the particular bacteria that the woman is susceptable too. Usually Dr's don't treat the male because it's not that common for the woman to get it once they've treated her one time. I take BC and have frequent sex though making it easier for me to succumb to the normal bacteria that lives in our bodies.

I suggest that you get a second opinion. Though it's not impossible for her to have an allergy it is uncommon (from what I understand) and some Dr's don't look for BV because it can go away on it's own without treatment.

The only reason mine was discovered is because I asked them to specifically check for certain things that I knew could be the possibility. My Dr actually gave me a standing prescription for the cream used to treat it because it's a minor enough condition that it's ok for me to self diagnose and treat.

Condoms also may cause more harm, if she's that sensitive, then between the latex in the condom ( lots have allergies to that_ the the spermicide in the condoms ( some are sensitive to that) could be worse than the original problem.

I'd second getting the second opinion.

I also wouldn't rule out psychological for this problem she's having.

I have allergies to latex and get very irritated any time we've used them. I always keep some poly kind around.

I also have this problem with my wife tekawani... my wife is alergic to my ejaculate.. it's not cleanliness its not my spit, its not condoms or anything else anybody has mentioned... we have been living together for two years and we still have this problem..

she itches very badly when i cum inside her and the itch sometimes last for days... it may be psychological, but its definately not any of those other things because we have had sex hundreds of times but she has only had the itching problem the 5-6 times i have ejaculated inside of her... good thing i hate children..

I plan on getting a vaesectomy (sp?) and hopefully that might get rid of what she is allergic too... (this isnt the sole reason for the operation... note the hating children commment)

My wife and I both get irritated using spermicide. Alot of pre-lubed condoms have Nonoxonyl-9 on them, which is what always bothered us.

My wife has these periodic bacterial problems where itching persists after we have sex. She has a prescription of antibiotics that helps this although she rarely has to take them these days.