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View Poll Results: Would you sleep with an attractive stranger? | |||
I am a girl - YES | 13 | 2.70% | |
I am a girl - NO | 25 | 5.19% | |
I am a guy - YES | 314 | 65.15% | |
I am a guy - NO | 130 | 26.97% | |
Voters: 482. You may not vote on this poll |
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04-24-2004, 02:09 AM | #43 (permalink) | |
Femme Fatale
Location: Elysium
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I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. |
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04-24-2004, 09:17 AM | #44 (permalink) | ||
Wehret Den Anfängen!
Location: Ontario, Canada
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(random google website on the topic). The risks are low, but not ignoreable.
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04-24-2004, 09:34 AM | #45 (permalink) |
Invisible
Location: tentative, at best
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I remember years ago hearing a female comedian tell this story to demonstrate the difference between how men and women think:
Imagine you're leaving a bar after last call. You're walking to your car - alone; it's dark, and the parking lot is unlit and mostly empty. Before you get your key into the lock, a stranger of the opposite sex, obviously drunk, who was making lewd remarks to you across the bar earlier, runs up behind you, puts their arms around you, and describes - in great detail - what sexual acts they would like to perform on you right there; right now - in a dark parked car, in the now-empty parking lot. To most men - this is a nightly fantasy; a dream come true. To most women - it's a frightening nightmare. /questions the relevance; just sharing.
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04-24-2004, 09:51 AM | #46 (permalink) |
Alien Anthropologist
Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana
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My SO was a late shift bartender & oh my - yes, I've done that scenario before, knowing full well that it was totally safe from disease...wore the trench coat and bare skin and yes, I was the aggresser. Said I was the best attack girl he ever trysted with in a car.
but now I seriously doubt that I'd say "yes" if it were me in that dark lot, since things have changed so much over the years. I miss those safe sexy nights at the Park!
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04-25-2004, 07:13 AM | #50 (permalink) |
Naughty Just Right
Location: Euphoria
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Absolutely no.
I've never accepted a one night stand proposal from guys that I have partied with and "know" on some level. I certainly wouldn't accept it from a complete stranger. I don't care how "hot" they are. I'm one of those people that has to have an emotional connection with someone when I am sharing my body and my bed.
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04-25-2004, 05:24 PM | #52 (permalink) |
Sauce Puppet
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If an extremely attractive woman came up to me and asked for sex I would do two things before taking any action. I'd ask if she'd be willing to come to a clinic with me and get tested for STD's WITH me. If she was willing to do that, then I would. But I imagine some stranger who comes up and asks for sex wants it then and now... nope, sorry.
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04-25-2004, 09:33 PM | #53 (permalink) |
Upright
Location: Bangkok, Thailand
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This is definately one of those tricky question that if a woman asker her SO, he would never give the right answer!
I want to say no, but when it came down to it, in the passion of a moment, I don't know how I would react. Unfortunately as a man, I just might end up saying yes, and I'm not sure if that is a behavior based on the social structure that men grow up in or just the libido of a man rising to the occasion. (no pun intended) |
04-29-2004, 12:07 PM | #55 (permalink) |
Cautiously soaring
Location: exploring my new home in SF
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Bag it and Tag it. Sex is beautiful, share it.
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04-29-2004, 12:18 PM | #56 (permalink) |
Junkie
Location: Pa, USA
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I'm a guy, and I definitely wouldn't.
Not worth the risk, and I'd find it a little disrespectful honestly.
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04-29-2004, 12:31 PM | #57 (permalink) | |
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04-29-2004, 09:02 PM | #60 (permalink) |
Oh dear God he breeded
Location: Arizona
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I'm male and a Sailor. What do you think?
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04-30-2004, 10:10 AM | #62 (permalink) | |
A Real American
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I agree, but I still said yes.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince |
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05-04-2004, 09:56 AM | #63 (permalink) |
Crazy
Location: Central Illinois
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I am female and I find that I cannot do that kind of thing with a stranger, the lack of trust bothers me. I find that when I think about this I am mostly turned off by the blunt fact that I have no emotional link to a stranger.
And I must agree with MrFlux on the risks, I'm not interested in getting sick or pregnant. It just isn't worth it.
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05-05-2004, 05:49 AM | #64 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Texas
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I am a guy, I say no...
I am married and couldnt do that to my wife... of course it might be very hard to say no in a RL situation... but I think I have the self-restraint...
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05-05-2004, 10:09 PM | #66 (permalink) |
bAck iN aCtiOn!
Location: in my imagination
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im a female obviously and i dont have a bf currently, so assuming proper protection was used and the person/situation didnt seem creepy and i didnt get bad vibes, and assuming there would be no committment or even contact after the fact, HELL YES.
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05-06-2004, 09:11 PM | #67 (permalink) |
Addict
Location: University of North Carolina at Greensboro
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I'm a guy, and I'd never sleep with a random attractive stranger. Because they're STRANGERS. You know nothing about them.
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05-20-2004, 09:15 PM | #72 (permalink) |
Psycho
Location: Macon, GA
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Cool poll, it would be a little better if girl/guys were separate categories that both add up to 100% Oh, by the way Guy/Yes. This is under the assumption that "no strings attached" applies in the situation. For example, hot girl that I never have to see, talk to, carry as baggage, no one finds out, Yes. If other people will find out, she calls all the time, etc, then NO!!!
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05-22-2004, 03:45 PM | #73 (permalink) | |
Psycho
Location: Fortress of Solitude
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I'm a guy and I have been in that situation. I guess now I am more interested in a long term as I think things get better with familiarity. but.... if she were really hot I might try it and hope it dosen't turn into a one night and maybe something that could be more promising like a friend with explicit benifits.
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05-22-2004, 06:12 PM | #74 (permalink) |
Who knows what evil lurks in the hearts of men?
Location: right here of course
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as a male and former sailor myself my answer is never have and never will under such circumstances. Still waiting for the marriage and wife scenario.
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Started talking to yourself I see. Yes, it's the only way I can be certain of an intelligent conversation. Black Adder |
05-22-2004, 10:04 PM | #77 (permalink) |
Tilted
Location: Auckland
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Even if I was single I wouldnt think about it, never a stranger, and if they are attractive and ask me to sleep with him, chances are hes asked many girls before
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05-25-2004, 01:28 AM | #79 (permalink) | |
Tilted
Location: Deep in Jersey
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Re: If an attractive stranger asked...
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05-25-2004, 04:08 AM | #80 (permalink) |
Thats MR. Muffin Face now
Location: Everywhere work sends me
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Seems like alot more guys would do it.. Hmmm
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