How Many Notches Are On Your Stick (no pun intended)
 

There may be a thread like this already but i'm not sure. There is a VERY broad and diverse group on this site, more-so than any other that I am a member of. So I'm wondering how many *different* people you've had sex with. I'd like you to post your response along with voting but it's ok to be anonymous. So?

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if it makes it any easier, ive got 14

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0
1
2-5
6-10
11-15
16-20
21+

sorry for the type-oh. if a mod could fix it, it would be appreciated.

woooo first person to vote for my category...


i remember when i went from 1 to 2 i called up a friend and told him i just doubled the number of sexual partners in one night... and he assumed i was in an orgy or somethin... it was funny as hell

20+ honest, I would never lie on an online poll to boost my own ego... *cries the lonely man cry*

:)

1

Firmly in the third category. I'd like to be able to hold my head in the air and say that it was bevause I was afraid of stds. In fact it's because for most of my life I've been afraid of girls (or they've been afraid of me).:(

#1. a one-night stand in college (a long time ago in a land far, far away)

#2. wife of 21 years (starting 2 years after college)

no further variety needed :)

I have only had one but the person I did it with i am still with!!! 4 years and counting lol but he has had 7 before me, so to me thats kinda gross, some times I try to imagine how he was having sex with them.
He still has the same bed from before we were even dating so thats kinda gross too.

Hey, I was going to write that! :D

Actually, for me it was a 2-night stand in college, followed a couple months later by meeting the woman who became my wife (together for 17 years now).

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14 men (counting hubby)
8 women

22 people total

All since I got married.

Wow.
Makes me happy that not everyone is fucking a lot of people.

2. Boyfriends. Loved them both, one of them loved me. The second I can't speak for. Or would even want to.

I've only had sex with one person. I think I'd like it to stay that way.

Whoa, guess I embraced the fact that I was born and raised in the sixties (can we say free love). 53 that I remember, and there are at least a dozen parties where I suppose it could have happened

I think I am around 25 or so... I am actually surprised by the lack of activity in young people today.

Great Googli Moogli!!!

And here I was thinking my 5 seemed like a lot.

This lack of activity in us young people could be due to all that sexual awareness/education they've been pushing for in schools. That and there's too many STDs goin around, I know I don't want any, who knows :hmm: .

All of my activity was before AIDS really became a problem and before my marriage. I was well into my 50s when I stopped counting. Experience with different people is overrated based on my experience now, but at the time it seemed like the thing to do. I had trouble relating to women to beyond the first few dates. Sex would happen, and I just didn't know how to deal with a longer-term relationship. Some girls I had sex with didn't want a relationship either. The 80s were a bit different in that regard. I don't know about the 90s since I was dating or married to my wife the whole time.

How many are including themselves in that number? :)

:)
Not me
Just one for me, and it looks like it's going to stay that way for a while. She's been my girl for a decade now, and still going strong!

Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here?

If it's intercourse, two. If it's any sort of sexual interaction at all, including kissing or touching... then it's more than that.

Skysooner, that is exactly it. I got married in 1986 and all of my activity was pre-marriage and pre-AIDS.

I'm counting intercourse. Hell, if we counted kissing many of our numbers would be much higher!

I don't think you get a "notch on your bedpost" for a blowjob. I assumed intercourse.

I've only ever had sex with my wife. She wasn't my wife when we first started, though, to be precise.

No, I don't regret it.

Tobe honest, I am not exactly sure as to how many women I've slept with...

I think the number is around 10 though.

1 - my wife.

We were each other's first 12 years ago. We've been happily married for over 6 years now.

word booty.

Too many by most people's standards, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm a naughty, naughty man.

I need punishing.

Volunteers for the punishment squad show apply (in green ink) to:

36 at last count, but again I've been off the market for about 6 years or so, and think that I'll keep it that way.

At first I found it interesting that you stopped the poll at such a low number...

...and then I remembered that once you get much higher than that, it's easy to lose count. :o


;)

Good one SiN... :cool:

21+

There was a good six months that I hung out at this strip club alot and... yeah... things happen.

3.5

1) husband
2)boyfriend
3) uh... yeah.... one night thing... don't wanna talk about it
.5) depends on your opinion if it counts or not.. I was drunk, he was stone sober... do the math

8 for me, basically one for every year I've been sexually active

nine for me... number 10 may be right around the corner

6, could be more but one night stands just don't do it for me. I can't get off....LOL

Do random hook ups for blow jobs count in this? :D

I've responded including only those where intercourse was involved. Nine is the number.

12 and counting.

None

I'll probably get around to it someday when I have the time.

I spent a very active youth sowing my wild oats. I travelled the world, sowing, to be honest. Getting women was never a problem for me. I was, to be very honest a real prick, too. I could not be trusted around my friends wives and girlfriends. If the opportunity came up, I would bed them in a heartbeat. I wouldn't touch their daughters unless they were over 18, but their wives and girlfriends were fair game and I did a lot of them.
I was a miserable prick. What you would call a "Cocksman".
When I sobered up, I stopped all that and figured out why I behaved as I did. I won't go into that here, but, before she married me, my wife demanded that I tell here exactly how many women I had had sex with. She wanted a specific number and even names and places and dates in case one day there was a knock at the door (or a lot of knocks at the door) and somebody showed up claiming to be my kid(s), she wouldn't be surprised.
It took me quite a while but I added them all up and got her her list and it freaking shocked me!
I lost my cherry at 17 and married my wife when I was 30. In the years between, while travelling the world and going girl crazy, I managed to screw 282 women. Making out and hand jobs and blow jobs without screwing totalled another 306. Since I have been married and Sober, I have been monogamous and happy as hell - I landed a really great Irish chick. And to her credit (or insanity), she married me in spite of my past!

Wow.. 282! I'm surpised you kept count! Most guys would say "Oh around #"

You must have been busy in those 13 :lol:

I am not gonna say, I feel like a dirty whore now :) I am really surprised at the low nembers, but I guess with std that makes sense. But I am at 2 if you just count the last 12 years, with my wives. ( and no not at the same time)

282?!?!?

Well, Im happy to hear that you're happy now, and that you've found an irish wife (best combo.. forgiving, but won't put up with shit *g*)

two for me, but as far as the second one goes, i'd rather the number be one. no biggie, though. :p

282?! damn man. your competing for a title with a number like that.

I think around 30. In 16 years time. Two a year on average. Not bad. Starting at age 14 and ending at age 30, when I got married. Women really were attracted to me during my twenties. Boy how times have changed. I haven't had a woman come on to me since Reagan was president. Yikes! Will someone please bring me some hemlock.

Two, both caring and serious relationships.

Been going dry for a few months and I'm starting to desperately wonder where number three is :D

over 100 but it is not as cool as it sounds. I stopped fooling around so much when I was 28. Between 15 and 22 I had some magical jedi power to have sex with pretty much anyone I was attracted to. Left a ton to be desired in the emotional department though.

yea i fit in, with 2-5 im so happy

One. I'm still with my first serious girlfriend (ten months next week, yay). It's still great :)

My number is ten so far. Should be eleven after tonight!

2 for full intercourse, 4 if you count oral intercourse.

Somewhere around 15, I was never really counting.

just the one for me

Just one.... very meaningful. Very happy with my number.

15, most I dated for at least 6 months to a year

in the neighborhood of about 35.

What I want to know is: how can you guys go your entire life without wondering what it would be like to sleep with only one person your entire life. Isn't there any doubt there? What if they are really bad in bed, and you just don't know it?

Even now that I'm seriously dating someone, my girlfriend or I occasionally bring home a new person to have fun with (usually while together). It just makes life worth living.

None - haven't meet the right person yet and isn't a priority atm.

Do prostitutes count?

Only if you go to one, not if it is your occupation. I say that because the question would then be "how often do you go to work" if you were a prosititute and it would throw off the curve.

3.
Before I started dating my gf I had sex with two girls with whom I had unsatisfactory sex due to no real feelings were involved.

Im just going to say 2 - 5, because it sounds better than 2

realizing a small number is an okay thing, kinda bothered me due to the feeling of lack of diversity and experience. glad i realized otherwise... a few friends made me understand what its like the other way around.

E-GAD!
 

Jeezus christ,Way to make a girl think.
Okay..So..I guess the only way to find out is to count the notches on my headborad next time I'm tied to it?!?

Well I feel a bit better now, seeing I am in the average range...LOL

The wife and I was just talking about this the other day, was doing a retrospective of my life (closing in on 40). And was feeling a bit down, cause I had only been with three girls, including her, and the other two were one timers. And she had a lot more experience than me, to tell the truth…she taught me everything I know.

But still, I wish I would had been a bit more adventurous in my younger years…yep if I only knew then what I know now.

My zeroness shall go down in the record books along with
Sir Isaac Newton. We should all look up to him for more than
just his mathematics :P

By raeanna74:
14 men (counting hubby)
8 women

22 people total

All since I got married.

By dei37:
My number is ten so far. Should be eleven after tonight!

I love you guys! you two are the best.

I've had sex (of any sort) with 2 women (the only 2 women I've dated). The first was while I was in my early 20s over a span of about 3 years. Since then I've only been with my wife (for over 21 years now).

If I actually told my wife - she would divorce me.

I'm her second. She thinks 5 or 6 is alot. I'm somewhere between 20-25.

I have been with 1 man, my husband, and 1 woman. As a matter of fact, the only 2 people I've kissed are that same man and woman.

I used to be really curious about sex with another man, kind of just to say I'd done it. But after many years (12) with my husband I realize that I have everything I need and that it's really special that we have such a unique relationship. He was there with me when I was with the woman (not a 3some though) so even that was just an extension of our relationship. Something we did for each other in a lot of ways.

I am really surprised to see all these other people who have only been with their spouses, too. I thought we were unique! :P

edit: I'm at 3.

Two serious relationships (one 1.5 years, the other 3 years).

The third was a girl that I have very strong feelings about, but lives 14 hours away. Quite possibly the best I've had (at least that I can remember).

hehe
 

8 here

* Puppylove (11 month lationship)
* First real g/f (23 month relationship)
* One night stand (damn you alcohol)
* Another g/f (4 month relationship)
* Another g/f (1 month relationship)
* Fuckbuddy (6 times in 6 months)
* Fuckbuddy (3 times in 3 days)
* Another g/f (3 month relationship)

And still not satisfied...

(sounds bad, doesn't it)

Waiting on 3some... that would bring total to 10 hehe

Three so far. I'm fairly discriminating. And I like my genitals sans warts, strange discharges, etc.

1 here. My fiance. Never had a desire to go "all-the-way" with anyone else.

17. I loved 3 of them, a couple where just randoms the rest girlfriends.

Are you James Bond ? You are arn't you...

hrmm...

13, hmmm, an unlucky number?!

1 in high school
11 in college
1 wife

and at one point I was even turning women down! It was just fun to get them naked and fiddle, then walk away! (STDs ya know). Married at 23, when I was reelin' them in, sometimes I wonder...

Still only 27!

0, I'm a total chick magnet.

I'm at 7 and now married, but would...honestly...like to have had more 'experience' before my wife. I find that I'm significantly more interested in experimentation than she is. Am I a 'he-hor', as she has referenced guys who sleep around, or is this typical of guy-types? I'm 31, if that helps frame my point of reference for you all.

Last time I actually counted I got up to somewhere around 40.

Add a couple of years, and I'd stake a guess at approximately 45, maybe 50?

But I'm happily married now and Mrs Mephisto would happily castrate me if I returned to my old ways... :)


Doen'st stop me from appreciating a beautiful woman when I see one though!


Mr Mephisto

Three

19 and done .

I suppose I should update this as the number has changed.

18 men (counting hubby)
12 women

30 people total

8

Update...

9...

9...waiting to make it 10 (the fiancee is waiting till her wedding nite) then staying there

1 with my wife of 17 years

21+

I've always been considerd very mature for my age, so when I was younger I always dated girls that were older than me. I've always been very sexual too ... and have had plenty of experiences before gettting out of high school. During high school/college I worked in a super market and I have to tell you, there's plenty of unhappy women out there just looking for an ounce of excitement or somebody to notice them.

Of course living in a college dorm, being away from parents and the new sexual openess of woman ... well, I've had a few partners.

Looking back ... I'm not sure if I would have liked to have less partners than I had. Believe it or not, there were cases when I refused to have sex with somebody for different reasons, but now that I'm older and maturer ... I'm still not sure if I regret having so many partners. Well, I'm sorry, that's not completely true. There were times when some of my partners were in committed relationships, and because of my immaturity I simply had no respect for relationships. Being in a serious relationship now, that certainly is one of my regrets.

Only one, and it will stay that way.

just my current gf and im damn happy the way it is.

Update...it's now 16.

up to number 9, who's currently treating me well.

Still at 0. Go me. Though I'm still holding out hope for finding that special #1 eventually.

i'm only at 3... the first was a one-timer, but the second i had sex with dozens of times, and the third hundreds of times and counting.

my roommate, however, is well over 70 people... thank god we have seperate bathrooms.

edit: i posted this before i voted, but after seeing the results i'd just like to add that i'm surprised to see that over 20% of the people here are virgins and another 23% or so have only slept with one person. it's nice to see that a large portion of people are still sexually reserved and responsible.

Well, almost too embarassed to admit. I lost my virginity at 20. I am turning 30 this year and I have honestly lost track. It has actually been a few years since I have been that way and I actually prefer to not have sex unless there is more behind it. I got to about 35 when I was 25, but since then I have pretty much lost count. I would guess around 50+. I have no regrets about my past because I feel what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. lol

Two here.
The first one was stupidity I was young and stupid. The second was my husband and there will never be any one else.(no men)