How Many Notches Are On Your Stick (no pun intended)
 

There may be a thread like this already but i'm not sure. There is a VERY broad and diverse group on this site, more-so than any other that I am a member of. So I'm wondering how many *different* people you've had sex with. I'd like you to post your response along with voting but it's ok to be anonymous. So?

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if it makes it any easier, ive got 14

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0
1
2-5
6-10
11-15
16-20
21+

sorry for the type-oh. if a mod could fix it, it would be appreciated.

woooo first person to vote for my category...


i remember when i went from 1 to 2 i called up a friend and told him i just doubled the number of sexual partners in one night... and he assumed i was in an orgy or somethin... it was funny as hell

20+ honest, I would never lie on an online poll to boost my own ego... *cries the lonely man cry*

:)

1

Firmly in the third category. I'd like to be able to hold my head in the air and say that it was bevause I was afraid of stds. In fact it's because for most of my life I've been afraid of girls (or they've been afraid of me).:(

#1. a one-night stand in college (a long time ago in a land far, far away)

#2. wife of 21 years (starting 2 years after college)

no further variety needed :)

I have only had one but the person I did it with i am still with!!! 4 years and counting lol but he has had 7 before me, so to me thats kinda gross, some times I try to imagine how he was having sex with them.
He still has the same bed from before we were even dating so thats kinda gross too.

Hey, I was going to write that! :D

Actually, for me it was a 2-night stand in college, followed a couple months later by meeting the woman who became my wife (together for 17 years now).

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14 men (counting hubby)
8 women

22 people total

All since I got married.

Wow.
Makes me happy that not everyone is fucking a lot of people.

2. Boyfriends. Loved them both, one of them loved me. The second I can't speak for. Or would even want to.

I've only had sex with one person. I think I'd like it to stay that way.

Whoa, guess I embraced the fact that I was born and raised in the sixties (can we say free love). 53 that I remember, and there are at least a dozen parties where I suppose it could have happened

I think I am around 25 or so... I am actually surprised by the lack of activity in young people today.

Great Googli Moogli!!!

And here I was thinking my 5 seemed like a lot.

This lack of activity in us young people could be due to all that sexual awareness/education they've been pushing for in schools. That and there's too many STDs goin around, I know I don't want any, who knows :hmm: .

All of my activity was before AIDS really became a problem and before my marriage. I was well into my 50s when I stopped counting. Experience with different people is overrated based on my experience now, but at the time it seemed like the thing to do. I had trouble relating to women to beyond the first few dates. Sex would happen, and I just didn't know how to deal with a longer-term relationship. Some girls I had sex with didn't want a relationship either. The 80s were a bit different in that regard. I don't know about the 90s since I was dating or married to my wife the whole time.

How many are including themselves in that number? :)

:)
Not me
Just one for me, and it looks like it's going to stay that way for a while. She's been my girl for a decade now, and still going strong!

Does it depend on how you define "sex"? Not to get all Bill Clinton about this thing, but.... Is a blowjob sex? Or are we talking about intercourse here?

If it's intercourse, two. If it's any sort of sexual interaction at all, including kissing or touching... then it's more than that.

Skysooner, that is exactly it. I got married in 1986 and all of my activity was pre-marriage and pre-AIDS.

I'm counting intercourse. Hell, if we counted kissing many of our numbers would be much higher!

I don't think you get a "notch on your bedpost" for a blowjob. I assumed intercourse.

I've only ever had sex with my wife. She wasn't my wife when we first started, though, to be precise.

No, I don't regret it.

Tobe honest, I am not exactly sure as to how many women I've slept with...

I think the number is around 10 though.

1 - my wife.

We were each other's first 12 years ago. We've been happily married for over 6 years now.

word booty.

Too many by most people's standards, but I wouldn't have it any other way.

I'm a naughty, naughty man.

I need punishing.

Volunteers for the punishment squad show apply (in green ink) to:

36 at last count, but again I've been off the market for about 6 years or so, and think that I'll keep it that way.

At first I found it interesting that you stopped the poll at such a low number...

...and then I remembered that once you get much higher than that, it's easy to lose count. :o


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Good one SiN... :cool:

21+

There was a good six months that I hung out at this strip club alot and... yeah... things happen.

3.5

1) husband
2)boyfriend
3) uh... yeah.... one night thing... don't wanna talk about it
.5) depends on your opinion if it counts or not.. I was drunk, he was stone sober... do the math

8 for me, basically one for every year I've been sexually active

nine for me... number 10 may be right around the corner

6, could be more but one night stands just don't do it for me. I can't get off....LOL

Do random hook ups for blow jobs count in this? :D

I've responded including only those where intercourse was involved. Nine is the number.