MadHatder

What are people's opinions on this? Me and my girlfriend have talked about it(with another girl, either the two girls switching a strapon or using a double end dildo, I would never go with another guy) and I want to know what people here think about it. We've already done anal, so that's not a problem, and she's bisexual, so that isn't either.

FaderMonkey

Well, I've never done it. I would only do it if you are both sure that there won't be any jealousy from seeing your girlfriend interact with the other girl or her seeing you interact with the other girl. If there is any apprehension at all I wouldn't do it...it's probably not worth screwing up your relationship. If you are both cool with it then have fun.

kutulu

the only thing better than one set of tits is two sets of tits!

Seriously, I'd be carefull.

Good luck

phaedrus

Sounds like a good time. Enjoy.

aintyoboyfriend

In my personal opinion, I don't think that a threesome is possible in a relationship. Even if you are with someone who doesn't typically get jealous, someone is bound to.

Now outside of any kind or serious relationship, I would love to try it.

Ustwo

*buzz* I'm sorry wrong answer.

Hehe, threesomes can work just fine for SOME people with stable relationships. Trust me.

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ladyadmin

I can be wish-washy with my thoughts on most things. At this current time I'd be interested in sharing in this experience with my two closest friends. I've mentioned it; I don't think I'm being taken seriously.

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toxic515

that may hold true for you, but it's a very unsafe generalization. The fact is jealousy is not always a factor, and 3somes are not guaranteed roads to unstable relationships.

It does, however, pretty much require that you are capable of seperating sex and love intellectually and emotionally. and ideally that the additional partner(s?) do the same. It's not a wise choice if you are uncertain or your SO is, as it can lead to distance rather than closeness. If that's the case, enjoy it as a fantasy for a while, then see what develops.

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digme

I say go for it. Never know when you'll get the chance again. If the jealousy thing comes up, its better to know now than later.

fallenangel

the thing about threesomes is just make sure you talk about it ahead of time if yo'ure in a relationship... i'm still close with the other girl i was with, but it still makes me uneasy worrying about him being intimate with another person. *shrugs* it totally depends on the couple. If it's a purely sexual hookup thing, if you're comfortable, giver... never hurts to try anything once!

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motdakasha

Next time, try searching for topics as cliché as a threesome before starting your own thread. I saw at least three other threads with similar topics when I searched for just "threesome" in Sexuality.

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HYEHORSE

i think it's a great idea. i dont see anything wrong with another chick, but that's probably because im filthy pervert guy.

MadHatder

We are in a stable relationship, and basically it would mean us finding someone to have a threesome with once, mabye more if we like it. I don't think we'd be jealous, but I'll talk to my baby about it.

iccky

Its also really imprtant that the third person is cool and has NO romantic attachment to either of you. Screwing up a good friendship is almost as bad as screwing up a relationship.

Ace_O_Spades

awww i had a huge thread that i made about this

you should have looked it up... lots of good responses

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macmanmike6100

i think it's been said on the forum before but 1) talk about it before engaging to make sure that the rules are set and the participants are comfortable, 2) be respectful, and 3) enjoy!

let us know how it goes, esp. for those of us who aren't as lucky (points to self)

fallenangel

someone once mentioned the thought to me to be careful because sometimes post-threesome, one or the other of the people may feel less satisfied sexually with anything less than two partners at a time, dunno if that's a factor at all either lol

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Nancy

a thresome is great! But I think that it's pretty egoistic for a guy to demand a thresome with two girls and not want to have one with two guys! It's not like the guys have to touch each other at all so I really don't see what the problem is. My boyfriend is going to fulfill my biggest sexual fantasy: a thresome with himself and his best friend in the near future and in return I'll fulfill his: a thresome with me and another girl...

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asshopo

It's not for everyone, specially the jealous type. Personally, I wouldn't mind a threesome, as long as it can go both ways (mfm, fmf). S.O. and I have talked about swinging more than a threesome tho. I'm not complaining either way

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cynicalgrrlll

Yep she's right

Cynthetiq

closed thread since there are already several threads on this topic.

Please use the search function before posting a thred.

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