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Old 03-03-2004, 09:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Interesting Fetish

I have a strange fetish. The majority of the pleasure I get from sexual encounters comes from giving pleasure to the girl I'm with. There is nothing that turns me on more than bringing a girl to climax. I'm just wondering if there's a word for this, as femorgasmophile just doesn't really have that ring?
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Old 03-03-2004, 09:27 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Just kidding !! I often feel the same way too. It's frustrating knowing that it's going to take this girl 20+ minutes to get me off, when I can make her come 2-3 times in the same amount of time.

I'd call it, SuperLova Syndrome. Ha ha ha ha.
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Old 03-04-2004, 12:54 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Old 03-04-2004, 05:08 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 03-04-2004, 09:26 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I feel the same way, but i don't really consider it a fetish, just a preference.
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Old 03-04-2004, 10:13 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I am a Leo and have read a bit on my horoscope. I typically don't believe in that crap, but it's fun.....says I get more pleasure out of pleasing my partner than I get out of my own pleasure. There is nothing better than having a woman clamp her inner thighs around your noggin so hard that you almost pass out because she is having such an incredible orgasm when you are goin down on her....
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Old 03-04-2004, 11:13 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I'm with water_boy1999, and I'm a Libra rgasmic smiley:
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Old 03-04-2004, 11:25 AM   #8 (permalink)
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this is not a fetish. liking something does not make it a fetish. if i said "hey you know what, i have a fetish for brown hair" or "i have a fetish for missionary sex!" wouldn't you laugh in my face? frankly calling your desire to make a girl cum a fetish implies that such a desire is somehow odd and that making a woman cum shouldn't be exciting -- which is somewhat egotistical not to mention sexist.

honestly this sounds like a personal ad ( or a thinly veiled attempt at compliment fishing) -- "hey girls talk to me! i love making you cum!" -- in my experience such claims are usually overstated .

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Old 03-04-2004, 12:48 PM   #9 (permalink)
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well, I have to admit, if I wasn't married, that SO would've worked on me
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Old 03-04-2004, 01:08 PM   #10 (permalink)
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honestly this sounds like a personal ad ( or a thinly veiled attempt at compliment fishing) -- "hey girls talk to me! i love making you cum!" -- in my experience such claims are usually overstated .
Hehe thats what I thought of it too
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Old 03-04-2004, 02:00 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Old 03-04-2004, 02:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I wouldnt describe that as a fetish.
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Old 03-04-2004, 02:44 PM   #13 (permalink)
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I agree with most people hear. This doesn't seem like a fetish. To me, a fetish is something that *most* people would think is strange, but you really like.
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Old 03-04-2004, 02:44 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Yeah, not a fetish. I think a lot of guys find pleasure in that.
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Old 03-04-2004, 03:30 PM   #15 (permalink)
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from dictionary.com:

fetˇish also fetˇich P Pronunciation Key (ftsh, ftsh)
n.

1. An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.
2. An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.
3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
4. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

I think you're going for #3 here -- but since making a girl orgasm cannot be construed as material or nonsexual I think this didn't make the fetish cut.
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Old 03-04-2004, 04:23 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Re: Interesting Fetish

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I have a strange fetish. The majority of the pleasure I get from sexual encounters comes from giving pleasure to the girl I'm with. There is nothing that turns me on more than bringing a girl to climax. I'm just wondering if there's a word for this, as femorgasmophile just doesn't really have that ring?
While I do get immensely turned on by getting a girl all hot and climactic, I don't get more pleasure from pleasuring a woman than I do from her giving me oral sex or letting me take her anally.

I love going down on a woman and making her cum like crazy. However, some women just take FOREVER to reach climax no matter how much foreplay and clitoral stimulation you give them... and I don't have the patience for that.
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Old 03-04-2004, 04:26 PM   #17 (permalink)
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i can relate. some of my greatest pleasure is knowing that i'm giving pleasure. it turns you on to know that your getting the girl off.
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Old 03-04-2004, 04:31 PM   #18 (permalink)
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"ideal male partner"
Your partner must but very very happy. Some guys just think too much about themselves sometimes.
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Old 03-04-2004, 09:28 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Amen.

My human sexuality teacher passed out a table of she said/he said quotes that typify the most common examples of miscommunication between a couple. These quotes were from a book written by a therapist who interviewed many couples seeking therapy (meaning their volunteers, which can skew the representation). The quotes are more like summaries of the common problems, they're not word for word (although in some cases they might be).

Here are some miscommunication problems:

She says - I like it soft and gentle.
He says - I like to "hit it" hard, that's what she likes me to do.
(My commentary: If that's what she likes, how come she's saying the exact opposite?)

She says - He just wants to "stick it in." That just doesn't do anything for me.
He says - She should want me inside of her. Now that's love and adoration for me.
(My commentary: Most egotistical and selfish thing I've ever heard.)
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Old 03-04-2004, 09:42 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Fetish, no, more common than you think, definitely.
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Old 03-04-2004, 10:48 PM   #21 (permalink)
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I love getting my wife off....

When we have sex I always do that first.... I enjoy it and I know she does
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Old 03-05-2004, 12:16 PM   #22 (permalink)
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i have always assumed that getiing your SO off was the whole point anyways, you are both there to have a mutual experience and please your partner for the satisfaction of yourself.
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Old 03-05-2004, 01:15 PM   #23 (permalink)
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what else are you there for? You could get yerself off anytime.
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Old 03-05-2004, 01:15 PM   #24 (permalink)
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I feel the same way, but i don't really consider it a fetish, just a preference.
This is true. Preference is the correct word. Using the word fetish makes sure people understand what I'm trying to say, as it's in more common usage for this kind of thing.

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