phunktastic

So, in relation to the webcam sex thread

This girl I was talking with turned out to be from the same city I live in. Being that she seemed to like what she saw and we live in the city, she invited me over to her place.

Of course, in a decent thread, this is where the story would get interesting.. but I had to decline. Mostly because I'm still a virgin and want my first person to be someone I actually knew. But also because I'd be a little scared about meeting someone that I had just talked to for an hour or so online.. with the whole basis of that chat being me on my webcam.

Anyway, just got me thinking, so I thought I'd post here to see what people thought about this issue, would you ever do it, have you ever done it?

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absorbentishe

If I were single, and horribly horny I might.. Oh who am I kidding, I'm sure I would. If you think you might get more out of it, then not on the first or second meeting. Make sure to double wrap, can't be too certain!

Averett

Well, I've had sex with somebody that I met online. But I knew him for well over a year and he's a great friend. And it wasn't a "hey, we should meet up and have sex" type of thing. Although we both knew that it would most likely happen, that wasn't the purpose of meeting.

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NoLa

Never.

Unless I knew them for a long while. (like Averetts situation) Its way too dangerous nowadays.

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When I was young and horny, absolutely. Now that I'm older and horny (but hopefully wiser), I wouldn't. At least not quickly.

Strange Famous

I dunno, realistically, probably not - although it has been a long while since Ive been with anyone and I'd be tempted, I dont think I would do it unless I was at least able to pretend that there was a relationship that amounted to more than that there.

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Maybe

Amano

I've always been taught that using more than one condom can actually be dangerous, because the friction between the two layers of latex actually increase the chances of tearing....

Sounds valid, but I don't know. I've never been in a situation where I've felt like I needed more than one layer....

james t kirk

Already done it. Several times in fact. Chat lines are better than the web, but the web yields results too.

I have literally gone to meet a woman I had never met before, gone to her place (or her mine), and went directly to bed with them.

I find it quite thrilling actually. I have had some completely fantastic experiences doing just that.

The only draw back is that you become addicted to the thrill. I find very little equals the thrill of having sex with a complete stranger.

In one instance, I chatted with this one woman from England who was working in Toronto. SHE suggested that we meet in a darkened hotel room, undresss each other, and have sex in the dark, unable to see what the other looked like.

I rented a room at a downtown hotel, called her with the room number, left the door open a crack.

She entered the room, we found each other in the dark, kissed, undressed each other, etc. My heart was pounding in my chest I remember.

The sex was mind blowing. I could only see her Silhouette and feel her body. (She was tall and slim.) We did it all night long, and in the morning we finally saw each other in the morning light. We smiled, laughed, had a shower together, then we left.

I never did get her name.

Doesn't matter, it was one of the hottest experiences of my life, and I think of her often.

digme

YES!! DO NOT DOUBLE BAG!

The latex rubbing on latex will tear tiny holes in both condoms, thus making a path for the little guys to complete their ultimate goal... TO RUIN YOUR LIFE

Amano

Not only that, but think of the chances of getting venereal disease from someone you may not even know the real name of....

phunktastic

Hehe,, reactions seemed mixed, just like my own. I think I'll just continue talking to her. If there's anything there, we can meet for a regular date thing.. then whatever happens from there.

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txlovely

Ditto. Way to risky.

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eribrav

james t kirk, that is an awesome story.

I'm not sure I would have the guts to do it.

Were you worried about a guy with a bat or a gun barging in and robbing you?

doncalypso

If I had been single for a long time (i.e. years) and had not gotten a laid in a long then sure I would give it some thought.

But with my luck, it would never happen.

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james t kirk

We spoke on the phone, she was female. I didn't get the impression that there was anything sinister going on. Besides, it was a large downtown hotel, and for the most part, toronto is a pretty safe city. I have never even seen a hand gun in my life.

Plus, I may have had 20 or 40 bucks in my wallet.

The only thing I was worried about was that she lied about her appearence and actually weighed 400 pounds.

Alas, it was a good experience.

brianna

I can't say that i would engage in anonomace sex with anyone reguardless of where i met them -- but meeting someone on the internet does not make them any more likly to be carrying a disease than if you met them in a bar (or in the grocery store, or in church...)

Aladdin Sane

Take a friend along.
Meet in a public place where lots of people are around.
Preferably in a place with video surveillance.
During daylight hours.

There's lots of wack jobs about. Can never be too careful.

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LStanley

<-- ducks his head and wonders who all knows me...

Yeah I've done it, and again, and again... and I'd do it again too... fun stuff...

just keep yourself tested, hope they test, and hell even have eachother tested...

but otherwise... most ppl on the net fit into two categories. SLUTS, or way too shy for the real world... as long as they fit int he latter, you should be fine

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Aladdin Sane

So what do these girls look like? And where do you meet up? How about sharing some details? Cheers.

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Astrocloud

I've been really bad about meeting women for sex that I met online. I might do it again and I might not. It all depends on how desperate I get.

teph

Sorry to deviate a little from the intention of the thread (I don't think I'd ever do that, by the way), but I had to put in a word on this.

It's very true that latex on latex will cause a heat/friction buildup between the two layers and tear holes in them both. You can wear two condoms at the same time, though; they have to be made from different things. Use one latex and one lambskin (or some other combination). From everything I've heard, this is safe to do. Oh yeah, and remember to lubricate . . .

water_boy1999

sheesh, I have enough trouble with friction with one jimmy on.


Yes, I have met women online and ended up meeting later that night. It was years ago and I wouldn't do it again. It is no more dangerous than meeting someone at a bar and taking them home with you. It is also a great avenue to meet more people if your life is pidgeonholed with work and other extracurricular activities.

I had a few experiences where they didn't look remotely close to the pic they sent, but in those cases, I just met them for a drink then said LATER!

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Mango

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kulrblind

GREAT idea! That way, you're having sex with someone you know as well!

kazoo

I fail to see the difference between meeting someone on the internet, in a chat room, at a party, or in an elevator.

Not all relationships are traditional, where you know someone for several years before dancing the nasty.

There is an undeniable electricity about the unknown and the forbidden aspects of sex. Were it not for the combination of fear and pleasure, would amusement parks survive? Yes, I've had the pleasure of an internet encounter which takes on aspects of what one would read in Penthouse Forum. Was it risky? Yes. Would I do the same thing, given the chance? You bet!

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chrisg299

Lmao genius

kutulu

If I was single, I'd do this sort of thing. However, I would meet the person in a public place first (even if its only for 5 min). Meeting at someone's house seems like playing with fire to me.

If I was still a virgin, I would not want to lose my virginity like that.

CinnamonGirl

I don't even meet people from online just as friends unless I've been talking to them quite a while...so no on the sex (well, there's also the fact that I'm married...)

Y'know what I miss? The old school local BBS's. When I was in high school, everyone met up at the football games...good times.

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HYEHORSE

tough call. i would have to know them for a while, had seen pics of them too. but you never know what you'll end up with. could get ugly.

toxic515

yup, I would and have. but I'm not at all into the anonymous kind of sex. It's far too intellectual an endeavor for me to approach it flippantly. (hey if you dig it, more power to you) I find too much of the attraction for me is the persons mind and how they use that in conjunction with their body. Of course that makes the chatting online and emailing part very nice for me! :-)

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ratbastid

It's very nice as a fantasy. I'm not sure I could do it as a pick-up thing, though. At least not without getting to know them first. As I've demonstrated to myself lately, I don't seem to have any problem fucking friends. But fucking strangers is another story.

fillips

sex is sex, i would have done it

jazzwyld

Nope don't think that would be safe for one. I'm up for fun, but i would have to definitely get to know them, just don't swing that much

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Dilbert1234567

just doesn't sound safe, you dont even know them or anything, there must be a reason that they resort to the net.

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seretogis

Pardon me for being the voice of reason here, but it is absolute stupidity to meet up with a random person for sex, be it over the internet, at a bar, or in a restroom. In this age of AIDS-awareness you would think that people would think more clearly before promoting risky anonymous sex.

If you want to feel a thrill, jump off of a cliff -- don't put everyone that you have a sexual encounter with at risk.

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qtpye4u84

Well, i would have to get to know them i would have to meet them and like them but i wouldnt have sex until he or she was my boy friend/bi girl friend and of course i would make the guy wear some thing like a condom and if she liked me enough too wanna lick my kitty i would make her use the protective strechy oral sex condom there fun and they taste good

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hu-man

I've never done it, closest thing was having phone sex, which was fun!
I've had the offer though and refused.
If I was single and horny I'd do it, but take my precautions... condoms, meet outside at a public place first.

ladyadmin

You took the words right out of my mouth. It would be exciting to just have a sexual encounter like this but the fear of getting a disease that doesn't have a cure or that would stay with me for the rest of my life isn't something I want to partake in.

I'm in high sexual peek right now and am horny very often. This doesn't change how I feel about my own health and I'd hope that others care about themselves as much to use protection and be smart with whom they choose to have sex with.

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