Spice up your sex lives! Advice from those who have been there. - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

datroyenschwart · 02-04-2004, 09:33 PM

I am starting this thread in the hopes that myself and my friends, through our experiences, will be able to help others out in turning up the heat in the bedroom. I also hope that we can pick up a thing or two along the way.

Whether you are in a committed, long-term relationship and you wish to get ideas for new things or you want to find ways to warm your gf/bf up to new ideas, your posts are welcome. Also if you have had any experiences that you would like to impart or recommend to the rest of us, I'm sure we'd all be appreciative.

Ace_O_Spades · 02-04-2004, 09:57 PM

Mix it up, in the immortal words of Chris Rock

"If it aint new... its through"

lafemmefatale · 02-04-2004, 10:04 PM

Do something nice sexy when they don't expect it. Spice up the routine, if you typically do it before sleep, do it at lunch time for once, or right after he/she comes home from work. Anything goes.

Paq · 02-04-2004, 10:06 PM

Seriously, routine is boring..unless it's a 3 am routine after the first time, you know...where you go at it before bed with all those things you wanted to try and all those things that are fun and you both finish and pass out...then the 3 o'clock wakeup call is heard from the guy downstairs (not john the neighbor, but the holder of all male thought) who wants seconds...then you roll over, nudge the girlie until she wakes up and you commence just going at it again with that straight on, get me off freestyle sexual encounter...that routine is just fine.

But as far as those days where you take your time, try something new. I try to christen the house and yard and cars with different positions as often as possible. It helps and you never get rugburn on the same parts twice

Confederate · 02-05-2004, 12:00 PM

hot body massage oils, never fails

datroyenschwart · 02-05-2004, 12:16 PM

For those of you that have never tried it, I'm going to recommend handcuffs first and foremost. Usually a cheapie pair from someplace like Walmart will cost you less than $10 and won't break (except for one time, but trust me, real ones would have). Make sure to get two pairs to individually anchor each arm to a bedpost. A sock rope will usually suffice for your legs if you feel the need, as the handcuffs probably won't fit. Regardless, there is nothing like being completely helpless to what your partner does to you, boy or girl.

NOTE: Make absolutely sure that you do this only with someone you trust.

ratbastid · 02-05-2004, 12:50 PM

In my experience, nothing spices up a sex life like finding some hot friend for you both to flirt with.

It's worked wonders for us!

Tomservo · 02-05-2004, 12:58 PM

By all means, take a shower with your mate, wash everywhere, so you're squeaky clean... and have NO boundaries. If it feels good, do it, no one else is watching.

slimcr · 02-05-2004, 01:46 PM

showering is nice.....

Strange Famous · 02-05-2004, 01:49 PM

The unexpected is sexy, I mean, as long as you both like it. I always remember one time I was in the shower and my ex girlfriend came in with all her clothes on.

Well, maybe thats just strange...

datroyenschwart · 02-05-2004, 02:43 PM

Tip #2:

For guys

Have sex with her in her prom dress. This is a dress that she wore once because she thought it made her look beautiful and then likely never touched again. Being in it will make her feel confident and beautiful again, and will make her enjoy the experience immensely. For bonus points, have her wear the dress earlier in the evening for a romantic activity alone (dancing, dinner, etc). It's something she's not likely to forget in a hurry.

annie1 · 02-05-2004, 02:51 PM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by datroyenschwart
[B]Tip #2:

For guys

Have sex with her in her prom dress. This is a dress that she wore once because she thought it made her look beautiful and then likely never touched again. Being in it will make her feel confident and beautiful again, and will make her enjoy the experience immensely. For bonus points, have her wear the dress earlier in the evening for a romantic activity alone (dancing, dinner, etc). It's something she's not likely to forget in a hurry. [/B
][/QO]

HAHA I do not recommend suggesting this to your girl if there is any chance what-so-ever that there is no way that she would ever be able to squeeze into that dress... suggesting this to her could possibly make her very bitter!

digme · 02-05-2004, 03:31 PM

if you live in a multi roomed apartment/house, make sure to have sex in places other than the bedroom.

Mirrors are very nice. Try to find a ceiling to hang one from.

AlCap0wn · 02-05-2004, 06:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by datroyenschwart
For those of you that have never tried it, I'm going to recommend handcuffs first and foremost. Usually a cheapie pair from someplace like Walmart will cost you less than $10 and won't break (except for one time, but trust me, real ones would have). Make sure to get two pairs to individually anchor each arm to a bedpost. A sock rope will usually suffice for your legs if you feel the need, as the handcuffs probably won't fit. Regardless, there is nothing like being completely helpless to what your partner does to you, boy or girl.

NOTE: Make absolutely sure that you do this only with someone you trust.

Don't forget the blindfold.

pallaspixie · 02-05-2004, 11:59 PM

as far as sex goes, handcuffs & blindfolds & getting it on outside in the daylight, not in a public place hopefully--seeing e/o's faces and bodies clearly is very intimate (and such a turnon!!)

Paq · 02-06-2004, 12:13 AM

OOoOOO...I know one i tried this past summer..

Sex on the roof of your house

broad daylight, take a blanket, climb a ladder, get nekkid and watch people pass across the street.

Best in residential, 1 story houses/neighborhoods or where your house is tallest.

~springrain · 02-06-2004, 05:16 AM

a corset... a collar... and a flogger... *impish smile*

cas305 · 02-06-2004, 07:24 AM

In my experience thae best rule is to think of their needs first! If both partners do this then you can't lose everybody is happy! Like everybody else said be creative, be free.

One game that is fun is a porno fast forward, your partners tells you when to stop then you have to do what they are doing. But any game you both will enjoy is ok, just make it fun!

thedrake · 02-06-2004, 09:33 AM

Try some sex toys, my fiance loved them, even though I didn't even consult with her to buy them.

datroyenschwart · 02-06-2004, 02:25 PM

Kudos for the sex on the roof of the house idea. If it's a nice warm day I think a whole naked picnic would be pretty awesome, assuming that the sex came first and the picnic happened in the relax time.

datroyenschwart · 02-06-2004, 02:30 PM

Tip #3

For Girls

If it's out of character for you, ask your guy for sex in a really dirty way. Most guys are very turned on when their girl asks them for sex at all. If it's done with a phrase that's delightfully blunt, your guy will flip.

ex. "Hey Dan, if you're not too busy right now, do you think you could press me up against the wall and fuck me?"

Paq · 02-06-2004, 04:57 PM

DAMN datroyenschwart
If any of my gf's ever say that to me...wow...hell, you'd never see me online again..

datroyenschwart · 02-06-2004, 05:35 PM

Well Chris, see if you can get her to go to this thread without saying why...

raeanna74 · 02-06-2004, 07:16 PM

Hubby and I have surfed porn together. It helps that I'm bi. We've watched a couple porn movies but don't usually watch them that much since we're Busy.

Also we've fantacised about things. Not role playing exactly but talking about "What if I were to be out camping and you are hiking through those same woods. You come upon my campsite and we start talking..." You can guess the rest.

Since we swing that adds a lot of spice on it's own. Coming home to each other hasn't lost it's spark so much because it's different every time. We've also learned more about each other and what our hot spots are. We talk about sex a lot. We have fantacised about being with other girls or couples and doing things.

Also when we go out to eat or to the store even sometimes I will neglect to wear my panties. I whisper it in his ear and he gets this boyishly giddy smile. When we get home and the house is clear of kids including our daughter asleep he'll come to me and say "So what were you trying to say when you told me you forgot your panties?"

It's the little stuff. All the time. Through the day that keep each other hot. Even when he calls on his lunch break. Sometimes I'll drop just a little tidbit about how horny I am or how our daughter hasn't napped and will probably go to bed early so... Hubby gets a chuckle and once his boss even teased him asking him if he was up to something "naughty" cause he looked guilty one time. It tells hubby that I want him. He does the same for me. It takes a lot of work but once you have done a few things you start thinking of more and it becomes fun.

ShaniFaye · 02-06-2004, 07:55 PM

I always know I'm in for a "special" nite of sex when I come to bed and the flogger and the chains are out

datroyenschwart · 02-07-2004, 08:55 AM

Tip #4

For Both

Try it in a car. Wait until you are out late at night, like 12:00 AM on a weekend or something and then park the car someplace romantic. Turn up the heat and play some mood music and then just suddenly start making out with your signifiant other. The best sex I ever had was in my car, parked on the beach, with Bush's "Glycerine" and "Alien" set to repeat. The windows quickly became fogged enough that we were in our own little world. That car has so much more sentimental value now.

NOTE: Cops are bad. Cops have caught me lierally with my pants down twice now. Don't park on the side of a highway or a road that cops love to patrol. It can really ruin the whole experience.

minyn · 02-07-2004, 08:59 AM

Costumes, toys, scenerios, and as one of my friends recommended..... "torture" (and yes the "s are there for a reason, cuz its meant in the deprive them or make them beg kind of sense)

AlCap0wn · 02-09-2004, 08:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by datroyenschwart
Tip #3

For Girls

If it's out of character for you, ask your guy for sex in a really dirty way. Most guys are very turned on when their girl asks them for sex at all. If it's done with a phrase that's delightfully blunt, your guy will flip.

ex. "Hey Dan, if you're not too busy right now, do you think you could press me up against the wall and fuck me?"

If my woman said that to me, I'd not only give it to her right then and there, but the entire neighbourhood would hear.

skysooner · 02-10-2004, 07:59 AM

The things that work for us are to have sex in public while on vacation. It is tastefully done and not flaunted at all. I'm talking about places like the hotel hot tub late at night when noone else is around. We once did it in a hot tub in full view of about 300 balconies, but it was hidden at ground level. Again we were careful about not making it too obviousl. We have also had sex standing in 4 feet of ocean with people within 20 feet. That is usually very easy to accomplish as long as the water isn't too cold

datroyenschwart · 02-13-2004, 04:09 PM

Tip #5

For guys

Surprise her when you're not supposed to be there. If you told her that you have to work and then you find out that you don't, just show up at her door and don't even give her time to speak before your lips are wrapped around hers.

Yet another NOTE: Do NOT do NOT do NOT do this if you question your significant other's loyalty. First of all, you will be going there in the wrong state of mind. Secondly, catching her by surprise could equate to my house being burned down because of my advice. I like my house, so if you do doubt her faithfulness, leave this for the non-questioners.

toxic515 · 02-14-2004, 02:32 PM

lots of fun things can add spice.. Rather than handcuffs, which can be uncomfortable if there's much pulling involved, go get 4 cat collars (leather or nylon works just fine) as bracelets and ankletts... You can then use any of a number of different connecting devices to tie / strap down any way you'd like. I like the double ended keychains that come apart in the middle (normally so you can seperate the car key from the rest of them or whatever) Those things make great impromtu handcuffs out of the collars, and I have bought several of them and have nylon straps on all 4 corners of the bed fo attaching them is as simple as a "click". The black leather ones with the rhinestones look great on fishnet too!

daydream · 02-14-2004, 03:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by datroyenschwart
Tip #4

For Both

Try it in a car. Wait until you are out late at night, like 12:00 AM on a weekend or something and then park the car someplace romantic. Turn up the heat and play some mood music and then just suddenly start making out with your signifiant other. The best sex I ever had was in my car, parked on the beach, with Bush's "Glycerine" and "Alien" set to repeat. The windows quickly became fogged enough that we were in our own little world. That car has so much more sentimental value now.

NOTE: Cops are bad. Cops have caught me lierally with my pants down twice now. Don't park on the side of a highway or a road that cops love to patrol. It can really ruin the whole experience.

Haha I know what you mean about cops... we've been caught "in the act" in the car also... I just can't wait until we can live together and we NEVER have to do it in the car again!!! I would love to be able to have the house all to myself with my sweetie and for us to be able to go at it all night and not worry about any interruptions... that way we can be as loud as we want or even shower together.... that would be so nice... one day...

datroyenschwart · 02-14-2004, 08:53 PM

Tip #6

For Girls

Tease him someplace where you know you can't have sex when you know that you will be in a secluded location soon. One of the hottest sex sessions that I have ever had was after my girlfriend picked me up at the airport. She teased me for all 30 minutes of the ride back to her house. Our clothes were on the floor within three seconds of being inside.

NatureBoy · 01-04-2005, 02:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by datroyenschwart

Tip #3

For Girls

If it's out of character for you, ask your guy for sex in a really dirty way. Most guys are very turned on when their girl asks them for sex at all. If it's done with a phrase that's delightfully blunt, your guy will flip.

ex. "Hey Dan, if you're not too busy right now, do you think you could press me up against the wall and fuck me?"

That's good stuff, right there.

Bauer_Power · 01-07-2005, 03:14 AM

Variety is the spice of life. Watch porn and find a new position. Try it rough, try it calm, just do it anyway you wouldn;t normaly do.

Nancy · 01-07-2005, 03:47 AM

Spoil one another.

Men: Try coming home from work one day and grab your girl and lift her into the bedroom and give her oral sex for an hour.

Women: Many of you don't like having sex during your menstruation anyway so why not turn that week into blowjob week and take care of your man daily?

monica · 01-10-2005, 09:45 AM

Talking about fantasies together does it for me... because I get super horny just talking about them and then it gives him and I new ideas.

Cover your entire bed with fluffy towels and then pull out a HUGE bottle of baby oil, and use it all. Rub your body all over their entire body, fuck all different parts of them.

Tie her up with her own panties or stockings.

Make noise! Let them know how hot and sexy they are, tell them how much you love their cock/pussy, call out their name! Talk dirty.

My fav: Call and leave him a message when masturbating... tell him all about what you're doing with your hands and then let him hear you cum!

Jonsgirl · 01-10-2005, 10:05 AM

Clear out all the furniture in the living room (or other large area).
Tape down a large sheet of plastic.
Grab a bottle (or 4) of baby oil.
Slip and Slide!!! The messier the better!

discotequi · 01-10-2005, 12:02 PM

love the idea of baby oil... sounds like a blast!

Francis · 01-10-2005, 12:48 PM

pop rocks rock !!

02-04-2004, 09:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Spice up your sex lives! Advice from those who have been there. I am starting this thread in the hopes that myself and my friends, through our experiences, will be able to help others out in turning up the heat in the bedroom. I also hope that we can pick up a thing or two along the way. Whether you are in a committed, long-term relationship and you wish to get ideas for new things or you want to find ways to warm your gf/bf up to new ideas, your posts are welcome. Also if you have had any experiences that you would like to impart or recommend to the rest of us, I'm sure we'd all be appreciative.

02-04-2004, 09:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
Ace_O_Spades The Death Card Location: EH!?!?	Mix it up, in the immortal words of Chris Rock "If it aint new... its through" __________________ Feh.

02-04-2004, 10:04 PM	#3 (permalink)
lafemmefatale Insane Location: Vancouver	Do something nice sexy when they don't expect it. Spice up the routine, if you typically do it before sleep, do it at lunch time for once, or right after he/she comes home from work. Anything goes. __________________ -poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another-

02-04-2004, 10:06 PM	#4 (permalink)
Paq Junkie Location: South Carolina	Seriously, routine is boring..unless it's a 3 am routine after the first time, you know...where you go at it before bed with all those things you wanted to try and all those things that are fun and you both finish and pass out...then the 3 o'clock wakeup call is heard from the guy downstairs (not john the neighbor, but the holder of all male thought) who wants seconds...then you roll over, nudge the girlie until she wakes up and you commence just going at it again with that straight on, get me off freestyle sexual encounter...that routine is just fine. But as far as those days where you take your time, try something new. I try to christen the house and yard and cars with different positions as often as possible. It helps and you never get rugburn on the same parts twice __________________ Live. Chris

02-05-2004, 12:16 PM	#6 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	For those of you that have never tried it, I'm going to recommend handcuffs first and foremost. Usually a cheapie pair from someplace like Walmart will cost you less than $10 and won't break (except for one time, but trust me, real ones would have). Make sure to get two pairs to individually anchor each arm to a bedpost. A sock rope will usually suffice for your legs if you feel the need, as the handcuffs probably won't fit. Regardless, there is nothing like being completely helpless to what your partner does to you, boy or girl. NOTE: Make absolutely sure that you do this only with someone you trust. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-05-2004, 12:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
Confederate Death Leprechaun Location: College Station, TX	hot body massage oils, never fails

02-05-2004, 12:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
ratbastid Darth Papa Location: Yonder	In my experience, nothing spices up a sex life like finding some hot friend for you both to flirt with. It's worked wonders for us!

02-05-2004, 12:58 PM	#8 (permalink)
Tomservo Crazy Location: Los Angeles, CA	By all means, take a shower with your mate, wash everywhere, so you're squeaky clean... and have NO boundaries. If it feels good, do it, no one else is watching.

02-05-2004, 01:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
slimcr Insane	showering is nice.....

02-05-2004, 01:49 PM	#10 (permalink)
Strange Famous follower of the child's crusade?	The unexpected is sexy, I mean, as long as you both like it. I always remember one time I was in the shower and my ex girlfriend came in with all her clothes on. Well, maybe thats just strange... __________________ "Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate, for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain without being uncovered." The Gospel of Thomas

02-05-2004, 02:43 PM	#11 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Tip #2: For guys Have sex with her in her prom dress. This is a dress that she wore once because she thought it made her look beautiful and then likely never touched again. Being in it will make her feel confident and beautiful again, and will make her enjoy the experience immensely. For bonus points, have her wear the dress earlier in the evening for a romantic activity alone (dancing, dinner, etc). It's something she's not likely to forget in a hurry. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-05-2004, 02:51 PM	#12 (permalink)
annie1 Insane	[QUOTE]Originally posted by datroyenschwart [B]Tip #2: For guys Have sex with her in her prom dress. This is a dress that she wore once because she thought it made her look beautiful and then likely never touched again. Being in it will make her feel confident and beautiful again, and will make her enjoy the experience immensely. For bonus points, have her wear the dress earlier in the evening for a romantic activity alone (dancing, dinner, etc). It's something she's not likely to forget in a hurry. [/B ][/QO] HAHA I do not recommend suggesting this to your girl if there is any chance what-so-ever that there is no way that she would ever be able to squeeze into that dress... suggesting this to her could possibly make her very bitter!

02-05-2004, 03:31 PM	#13 (permalink)
digme Crazy Location: madison, wi	if you live in a multi roomed apartment/house, make sure to have sex in places other than the bedroom. Mirrors are very nice. Try to find a ceiling to hang one from.

02-05-2004, 11:59 PM	#15 (permalink)
pallaspixie Upright	as far as sex goes, handcuffs & blindfolds & getting it on outside in the daylight, not in a public place hopefully--seeing e/o's faces and bodies clearly is very intimate (and such a turnon!!)

02-06-2004, 12:13 AM	#16 (permalink)
Paq Junkie Location: South Carolina	OOoOOO...I know one i tried this past summer.. Sex on the roof of your house broad daylight, take a blanket, climb a ladder, get nekkid and watch people pass across the street. Best in residential, 1 story houses/neighborhoods or where your house is tallest. __________________ Live. Chris

02-06-2004, 05:16 AM	#17 (permalink)
~springrain Banned Location: central USA	a corset... a collar... and a flogger... impish smile

02-06-2004, 07:24 AM	#18 (permalink)
cas305 Insane Location: Indiana	In my experience thae best rule is to think of their needs first! If both partners do this then you can't lose everybody is happy! Like everybody else said be creative, be free. One game that is fun is a porno fast forward, your partners tells you when to stop then you have to do what they are doing. But any game you both will enjoy is ok, just make it fun!

02-06-2004, 09:33 AM	#19 (permalink)
thedrake Banned Location: Iowa	Try some sex toys, my fiance loved them, even though I didn't even consult with her to buy them.

02-06-2004, 02:25 PM	#20 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Kudos for the sex on the roof of the house idea. If it's a nice warm day I think a whole naked picnic would be pretty awesome, assuming that the sex came first and the picnic happened in the relax time. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-06-2004, 02:30 PM	#21 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Tip #3 For Girls If it's out of character for you, ask your guy for sex in a really dirty way. Most guys are very turned on when their girl asks them for sex at all. If it's done with a phrase that's delightfully blunt, your guy will flip. ex. "Hey Dan, if you're not too busy right now, do you think you could press me up against the wall and fuck me?" __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-06-2004, 04:57 PM	#22 (permalink)
Paq Junkie Location: South Carolina	DAMN datroyenschwart If any of my gf's ever say that to me...wow...hell, you'd never see me online again.. __________________ Live. Chris

02-06-2004, 05:35 PM	#23 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Well Chris, see if you can get her to go to this thread without saying why... __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-06-2004, 07:16 PM	#24 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Hubby and I have surfed porn together. It helps that I'm bi. We've watched a couple porn movies but don't usually watch them that much since we're Busy. Also we've fantacised about things. Not role playing exactly but talking about "What if I were to be out camping and you are hiking through those same woods. You come upon my campsite and we start talking..." You can guess the rest. Since we swing that adds a lot of spice on it's own. Coming home to each other hasn't lost it's spark so much because it's different every time. We've also learned more about each other and what our hot spots are. We talk about sex a lot. We have fantacised about being with other girls or couples and doing things. Also when we go out to eat or to the store even sometimes I will neglect to wear my panties. I whisper it in his ear and he gets this boyishly giddy smile. When we get home and the house is clear of kids including our daughter asleep he'll come to me and say "So what were you trying to say when you told me you forgot your panties?" It's the little stuff. All the time. Through the day that keep each other hot. Even when he calls on his lunch break. Sometimes I'll drop just a little tidbit about how horny I am or how our daughter hasn't napped and will probably go to bed early so... Hubby gets a chuckle and once his boss even teased him asking him if he was up to something "naughty" cause he looked guilty one time. It tells hubby that I want him. He does the same for me. It takes a lot of work but once you have done a few things you start thinking of more and it becomes fun. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.

02-06-2004, 07:55 PM	#25 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	I always know I'm in for a "special" nite of sex when I come to bed and the flogger and the chains are out __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

02-07-2004, 08:55 AM	#26 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Tip #4 For Both Try it in a car. Wait until you are out late at night, like 12:00 AM on a weekend or something and then park the car someplace romantic. Turn up the heat and play some mood music and then just suddenly start making out with your signifiant other. The best sex I ever had was in my car, parked on the beach, with Bush's "Glycerine" and "Alien" set to repeat. The windows quickly became fogged enough that we were in our own little world. That car has so much more sentimental value now. NOTE: Cops are bad. Cops have caught me lierally with my pants down twice now. Don't park on the side of a highway or a road that cops love to patrol. It can really ruin the whole experience. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-07-2004, 08:59 AM	#27 (permalink)
minyn young and in bloom Location: under the bodhi tree.... bling	Costumes, toys, scenerios, and as one of my friends recommended..... "torture" (and yes the "s are there for a reason, cuz its meant in the deprive them or make them beg kind of sense) __________________ "Woke up this morning with a blue moon in my eye" ~A3 "woke up this morning" "Don't compromise yourself, you're all you've got." -Janis Joplin

02-10-2004, 07:59 AM	#29 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	The things that work for us are to have sex in public while on vacation. It is tastefully done and not flaunted at all. I'm talking about places like the hotel hot tub late at night when noone else is around. We once did it in a hot tub in full view of about 300 balconies, but it was hidden at ground level. Again we were careful about not making it too obviousl. We have also had sex standing in 4 feet of ocean with people within 20 feet. That is usually very easy to accomplish as long as the water isn't too cold

02-13-2004, 04:09 PM	#30 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Tip #5 For guys Surprise her when you're not supposed to be there. If you told her that you have to work and then you find out that you don't, just show up at her door and don't even give her time to speak before your lips are wrapped around hers. Yet another NOTE: Do NOT do NOT do NOT do this if you question your significant other's loyalty. First of all, you will be going there in the wrong state of mind. Secondly, catching her by surprise could equate to my house being burned down because of my advice. I like my house, so if you do doubt her faithfulness, leave this for the non-questioners. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

02-14-2004, 02:32 PM	#31 (permalink)
toxic515 Addict Location: Texas	lots of fun things can add spice.. Rather than handcuffs, which can be uncomfortable if there's much pulling involved, go get 4 cat collars (leather or nylon works just fine) as bracelets and ankletts... You can then use any of a number of different connecting devices to tie / strap down any way you'd like. I like the double ended keychains that come apart in the middle (normally so you can seperate the car key from the rest of them or whatever) Those things make great impromtu handcuffs out of the collars, and I have bought several of them and have nylon straps on all 4 corners of the bed fo attaching them is as simple as a "click". The black leather ones with the rhinestones look great on fishnet too! __________________ Time flies like an arrow, fruit flies like a banana.

02-14-2004, 08:53 PM	#33 (permalink)
datroyenschwart Tilted Location: North Carolina (college)	Tip #6 For Girls Tease him someplace where you know you can't have sex when you know that you will be in a secluded location soon. One of the hottest sex sessions that I have ever had was after my girlfriend picked me up at the airport. She teased me for all 30 minutes of the ride back to her house. Our clothes were on the floor within three seconds of being inside. __________________ Every day that I am alive is a great day. Life is filled with potential and love is everywhere.

01-07-2005, 03:14 AM	#35 (permalink)
Bauer_Power Tilted Location: Nebraska	Variety is the spice of life. Watch porn and find a new position. Try it rough, try it calm, just do it anyway you wouldn;t normaly do.

01-07-2005, 03:47 AM	#36 (permalink)
Nancy Femme Fatale Location: Elysium	Spoil one another. Men: Try coming home from work one day and grab your girl and lift her into the bedroom and give her oral sex for an hour. Women: Many of you don't like having sex during your menstruation anyway so why not turn that week into blowjob week and take care of your man daily? __________________ I have all the characteristics of a human being: blood, flesh, skin, hair; but not a single, clear, identifiable emotion, except for greed and disgust. Something horrible is happening inside of me and I don't know why. My nightly bloodlust has overflown into my days. I feel lethal, on the verge of frenzy. I think my mask of sanity is about to slip. Last edited by Nancy; 01-07-2005 at 05:54 AM..

01-10-2005, 09:45 AM	#37 (permalink)
monica Upright Location: Canada!	Talking about fantasies together does it for me... because I get super horny just talking about them and then it gives him and I new ideas. Cover your entire bed with fluffy towels and then pull out a HUGE bottle of baby oil, and use it all. Rub your body all over their entire body, fuck all different parts of them. Tie her up with her own panties or stockings. Make noise! Let them know how hot and sexy they are, tell them how much you love their cock/pussy, call out their name! Talk dirty. My fav: Call and leave him a message when masturbating... tell him all about what you're doing with your hands and then let him hear you cum! __________________ ---- Monica's Reviews

01-10-2005, 10:05 AM	#38 (permalink)
Jonsgirl Semi-Atomic Location: Home.	Clear out all the furniture in the living room (or other large area). Tape down a large sheet of plastic. Grab a bottle (or 4) of baby oil. Slip and Slide!!! The messier the better! __________________ Someday, someone will best me. But it won't be today, and it won't be you.

01-10-2005, 12:02 PM	#39 (permalink)
discotequi Tilted Location: Dallas	love the idea of baby oil... sounds like a blast!