making out
 

ok, iv never really thought to post this up hear, but i was thinking "hey tfp is the perfect place to say it"

ok theres two types of kissers that i have kissed.

1. Where the couples tounges kind of lay on top of eachother then one moves thier tounge to their left around the others tounge while the other moves their tounge to the right, kinda looking like the old school dance movie where u spin your fists around eachother

2. the couples push their tounges against the others tounge, kinda like you're licking your partners tounge


i was just wondering, which one of these is the proper way to kiss in your opinion, i prefer the 2nd one, as the 1st one is kinda like your having a sword fight inside your mouth

Soft, sensual, and passionate.......:o ahhhh

2nd one is more "sensual" and more enjoyable I would have to say.

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Whatever feels good at the time.

Hahah there's no specific technique to use ^_^
You start off with just basic kisses on the lips, and open gradually until you become comfortable with what your partner is doing, and learn to work with one another's styles.

I've kissed two girls who have had a perfectly compatible technique to mine, and it is very pleasureable :)

I've kissed two who hardly open their mouth & don't really use any tongue, and I've kissed a couple who were very aggressive with it & got into it right away.

I was told I kiss like a girl (by a girl o_O) so I dunno what to make of that. Probably a good thing, it would suggest I kiss differently to other guys she's kissed before :P

ummm... I'd say it is all good.


Seriously... what every works at the time. There are times that call for aggressive, hard, deep and passionate. And there are times that call for soft, gentle and probing...

The key is to be able to meet your partners mood and actions.


(if you are still in doubt... just look at the Kings avatar again)

I haven't kissed that many guys in my time (sniff) but I know what I like, and I know what I don't. My exboyfriend... Don't like. He never quite got the clue that I didn't want to be swallowed whole or drown in his saliva. I'd always say "Hey, I'm not going anywhere, slow down." He never got it though...

Another guy... I could kiss him forever. It was nice and slow and soft and fast and urgent and great. And he had really great lips.

I start with soft kisses on the bottom lip. If im with the person sometimes I sneak in a slow lick of the inside of the lip between kisses. Then wrap my arms around her in pull her tighter to increase the pressure during a full on kiss then pull away for a split second and *BOOM* tongue all down her throat.

You're supposed to use your tongues too? Man, I've been missing out all these years! My wife isn't into more than just touching of the tongues, and I'm cool with that. Our kisses are very passionate, mostly without any tongue at all. Kissing is an art form, and you can never get enough practice!

Asif there is any technique, just move your tongue around all weird.. but soft and slow :P

dammit, wheres my girlfriend...

My last g/f used to lick around my lips with the tip of her tongue...talk about a turn on...LOL.

hehe, its just that i felt like i was going to lose my head when i got kissed by the #1 girl. but my ex kissed like #2 and i liked it ;D

# 2 for me.

kissing is an art form... I personally enjoy the passion involved with kissing....

Ive been told by everyone ive ever kissed that i am a GREAT kisser... and my technique... well i dont want to give away my secrets..... just kidding, but really the best thing you can do (especially when kissing someone for the first time) is adjust to the moment... most of the time you and your partner's kissing techniques may vary.... She may open her mouth wider than you, or she may not use her lips enough or you might not use your tongue enough.... well the best thing to do is compensate and take over... in a sense i try to "persuade" the kissing to go a certain way...

Like for example, a girl i kissed a while back, she would just press her lips on mine and just use her tongue.... well i enjoy using my lips as well and using a certain motion, so I adjusted a bit and basically "invited" her to use her lips more so that the motion would be in rythym... well it worked well and she used her lips more.... (I hope you understand... kinda hard to explain)

but to answer your question, one isnt any better then the other... # 1 or #2... it depends on how you kiss... and you can basically take the lead and let things flow

Have you ever tried the Spiderman one person upside down kiss? Very fun, but kind of distracting. Everything seemed backwards and I got too caught up in how wierd things felt.

Best way to kiss, in my opinion, is to not think about how you're kissing.

just friggin kiss man
there is no right or wrong way
it's however you do it as long as she likes it
i've had women who kiss differently and it's all been pleasureable. Everyone likes something different and after a short period you should adequately adjust to the way they like and they to you

or so my experience has told me

i was just suprised at how a chick tried to gobble my head up D:

I like sucking on my Lover's tongue, or his bottom lip. Meep.

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Analog, you are a very very very wise man. When you concentrate on things too much, they become less enjoyable.

I usually prefer soft but passionate kisses. I don't like feeling that my head is being swallowed. Sometimes when we get really into it, I think that my SO forgets that my mouth isn't as big as his.... but that doesn't happen TOO often.

We've decided that it isn't whether or not a person is a good kisser, it's whether or not two people's kissing style matches. I've kissed guys that I've been told are great kissers, and haven't enjoyed it... but I've kissed guys that have been told they are bad kissers, and WOW. So I believe it's all about style.

deffinately, I'd take the 2nd one please

yeah, a triple kiss with those two girls in king's avatar would be cool. dunno how that works, but in theory it makes me happy.

I don't jump into either of them. First just soft kisses and as it gets hotter, whatever feels right. I try not to make things mechanical.

Good plan. There is no 'right way' to kiss. :icare:

the first time my boyfriend kissed me upside down i was so pleasantly surprised. he was also rubbing my chest, though, so...we kiss all different ways and i never really think about it, but now that you mention it when we go for more tongue we usually do use method #2. i think method number 1 is weird. but whatever works.

mmm i love kissing. i use many different techniques.

i prefer method #2 i think.. more passionate but #1 is more playful for getting into it.. i like soft kisses that gradually get more and more passionate. kissing the bottom lip. sucking and nibbling it a little. then kissing the top lip... running my tongue around the top and bottom lips then meeting them again.

it's best not to think about though. just enjoy :)