monkeysugar

Last night after my girlfriend and I had finished up having sex, we were going about our usual post-sex ritual of cleaning up. I am fortunate enough to have a girlfriend who gets extremely wet, to the point where my entire pubic area is covered in her lubrication by the time we are finished. Suffice to say, a good wipedown afterwords is a necessity, even before showering. I finished wiping down, and as I was taking off the condom something just didn't look right- the tissue I had used to clean up with was covered in blood. The wierd thing is, her period is about a week early, and she didn't get any cramps beforehand.

I'm not freaked out or upset or anything like that. She was hella embarassed, but I reassured her that I wasn't upset or grossed out, etc. The whole thing just struck me as being pretty odd.

Does this seem completely wierd, or has something similar happened to you before?

I went through the post titles in this forum, but did not find anything that addressed this topic. In the event that I missed a thread, I apologize.

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sillygirl

I don't know what to tell you... sometimes a girl will get her period early. If she wasn't in any pain, etc, I don't see what there is to worry about...

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raeanna74

Sometimes if she's ready to have the period then sex will just get it going. I used to be totally regular where I never was early. Now it's changed. Hormones, stress, health, so many things can affect the timing. A week early isn't abnormal at all really. If it was a constant thing it could wear her down just a little but once is no big deal. I wouldn't worry about it at all. This particular scenario has happen to hubby and I a number of times. Just the way things work sometimes.

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monkeysugar

That's good to know. Thank you. I figured it may have something to do with stress. She's been extremely stressed about finals lately, and she is also extremely homesick.

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hu-man

Well, the finals and everything might very well have messed things up a little, that's just normal. And if you then procede to stir it with a stick then it just happens. Don't worry about it, at least you're sure she's not pregnant

World's King

Yummy...


Sounds chunky.

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monkeysugar

True that. Despite the fact that we use condoms each and every time, it's still something I worry about every month about this time.

yabobo

Condom everytime???????
Don't you rub the pussy just a little bit with your dick before you
slide that condom on?
Precum on your penis head contains sperm which may lead to prego status, sorry just the facts.
Condoms everytime is ideal but nearly impossible. I recomend
a spermacide foam to go with the condom.
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Good times and luck monkeysugar!

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skysooner

My wife rarely starts early, but we have noticed that a good session just before her period can help kick it off. We call it the Roto-Rooter. Also, if she is at the end of her period, and we are wanting to kick things off early, she will often have additional bleeding after it (again the Roto-Rooter).

smithja0423

If my girfriend is within 3-4 days of starting her period and we have GOOD sex, it's a given that she'll be bleeding before the end of the night. There have been several times where she's been PMS crampy, and 2-3 orgasms later, her period's started and and she's feeling fine. All women are different, and YMMV. Nothing to worry about tho.

vveronica

Sounds like a terrible life.... too bad you did not to just stop having sex. I'm sure from what you said your wife is just as or even more miserable..

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DogmaMa

This has happened to me twice, both times with my current boyfriend. The first time was our 'first time' , and the second time we were shrooming (which was kinda bad). Is someone trying to tell us something??

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31Friction

one of my ex-girlfriends did this, its not such a bad thing, just clean up and move on.

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Boo

You sure that you didn't break her skin with a hang-nail or something?

Did she have a full period or did it stop within a few hours?

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monkeysugar

I didn't finger her beforehand, so it wasn't that. I'm assuming it's her period. There was quite a bit of blood. I'm assuming she's still on it since it happened on Monday night/early Tuesday morning. She's also pretty quick to inform me when it's over.

Ilow

bah, nothing to worry about. Sounds like you handled it with aplomb, which bodes well for you two. Soon you'll be trying to sneak one in before Aunt Flo packs up for the month too.

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sillygirl

For the record (and not to freak anyone out or anything, as I'm sure you all already know), it is possible to get pregnant while on your period. My friend was conceived while his mom was on her period. She likes to tell the story of how she was on her period, using a condom, and the nurses called him nuko-sperm. lol. Not a HUGE chance, but it's possible.

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monkeysugar

Yeah, I've heard about things like that happening. As of now, she's going through the "hell day" of her period. We use condoms, and she's got her period, so right now I'm just hoping for the best I really wish they'd finish up with the testing on the Male pill, so I would have just that much more....security I guess. I'm a semester away from graduating and don't want to screw my future goals or her future goals by getting her pregnant.

gal

Has happened to me twice. Bleeding between the regular cycle that is - we usually do it during the period too. Driving the firetruck as it's called here It's not really a problem imo.

macro

It's happened to me, waking up the next day going to the toilet with crusty red bits amongst my pubic hair. I was like "ew" but beyond that it didn't (and shouldn't) bother me.

water_boy1999

When I was younger and a little inexperienced at the whole sex scene, I had a GF that left quite the puddle around the area we were doing it. When we turned the lights on it scared the crap out of me because it was the first time I had seen that much blood. I thought I had done something wrong. Since then, I have had it happen on several occasions with different women and it doesn't bother me in the least bit.

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Chord

How does this happen?

monkeysugar

From what I've read and heard from others, Orgasms can serve to help alleviate the pain of cramps. Whether it is mental or physical I am not sure, but giving my GF orgasms when she's really crampy does seem to at least get her mind off of things a bit. Perhaps someone who is more informed or experienced on the matter could provide a better explanation as to why it happens.

Jaron

The girl I've been with for eight months (since April) is on the shot, and was on the pill before. The hormones or whatever caused her body to react rather strangely, and she started bleeding pretty much constantly for about four months. After the first week of bleeding constantly, I was damned close to insisting that she see her doctor about it, but she didn't... we later found out that it's fairly normal, especially when on the pill or the shot, for that to happen.

Hell, it's not even that unusual for it to happen when the girl's NOT on the pill/shot.

gr8-4pla

Well it could have been worse. She could have gotten her period while you were going down on her.

raeanna74

Here's why sex and in particular orgasms can be beneficial to a woman who is suffering from menstrual cramping.

"Menstrual cramps are caused by contractions in the uterus, which is a muscle. The uterus, the hollow, pear-shaped organ where a baby grows, contracts throughout a woman's menstrual cycle. If the uterus contracts too strongly, it can press against nearby blood vessels, cutting off the supply of oxygen to the muscle tissue of the uterus. Pain results when part of a muscle briefly loses its supply of oxygen." Source - WebMD

Sex actually increases the blood flow to the uterus, genitals, and the woman's sexual organs. When the cramping is caused my loss of blood flow you actually help the cause of her cramps not just dull the pain. There's also the effect of the endorphins that are released with an orgasm. They are the body's own natural pain killers so the woman gets a double dose of help.

Personally I find that when I'm menstrating I get pretty horny so if you don't mind the mess you can make your woman feel good, improve her mood, and get plenty of good sex for yourself.

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macro

You don't even have to make a mess. A pair of underpants and a clitoris is all you need!

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monkeysugar

Nope.....she wouldn't let me. She's pretty grossed out by the idea. I got my red wings about two years ago with my ex.

uv7piy

I heard story about this guy that got surprise by the early period after oral sex. He didn't notice anything, but in the morning got a shocker when he looked in the mirror. The GF was really embarrassed. Very funny story, but glad it never happened to me. Nothing wrong with "driving the firetruck", but I'll save the Bloody Mary's for NewYear's Day.

paultantk

What are red wings?

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numist

red wings are a play on words from just 'wings' meaning a pilot, 'red' meaning during a period. Therefore, 'red wings' are getting your wings during the period, or having sex with her while she's bleeding.

Not many guys can say this. Sex during a period is actually really good for her, because of all the benefits mentioned above, plus, its sex, if you dont like it, dont look.

Try it sometime, when the cramps dont feel as bad after sex, she'll love you as her own personal painkiller

Yalaynia

I had this happen once. Im on the pill and of course you can tell when you are going to start your next cycle. I mean get to the end and well guess what. Anyways one day I woke up went to the washroom and noticed that I had started, but I still had a week to go with the pills. I had called the doctor and explained what was going on and she told me it was whats known as breakthrough bleeding. She said there was nothing wrong and that I just needed to come in and get a different persciption.

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taylorspl

EWWWWWWWW i feel your pain, I hate when Aunt Flow visits at such a wonderful time.

RenaissanceII

Methinks that i'm up for recertification on my red wings license

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