It's that time of the month...
 

How can u make ur girl feel good when she is having her period? I don't mean sexually but like umm physically and emotionally... What are things one can do to show her that no matter what you care for her?:hmm:

HEHEHEHEHEHEEHHE!!! I use to sit in bed with my girlfriend, and just take her top off, get her to lean up against me and just rub her nipples, they are a nice sensitive area.. and can generally bring pleasure..

You could try giving her a massage etc - chicks love the romantic side of things every now and then, massage her feet/shoulders/back or something :)

Being patient is one of the biggest for me (I tend to get just a TAD irrational when I have my period). Simple compliments are always nice. Just taking extra time to spend with her/ do for her (dinner, movie, or just getting her a drink). Back rubs. If you want to go the 'buying her things' route.. I suggest things like flowers and teddy bears, not chocolate or ice cream (unless of course she asks for it). Basically just being there and being supportive are most important.

Oh yeah, I also enjoy when my b/f has little suprise outings planned. Nothing big or fancy... maybe just a trip to the park or a short hike.

If she's up for it (some girls are very much NOT), have some good sensual encounters. Back rubbing, a bath, stuff like that. Also, straight-up sex is good, too. Sex tends to make the pains of menstruation subside in most women. Just have a dark towel under her, or do it in the shower. It's good stuff.

Re: It's that time of the month...
 

Lets see if we can't repair this a little.
I think you mean to say:
"How can i give the woman i love pleasure when she's having her period? I mean this in both a physical and emotional way. Does anyone have suggestions as to caring things i can do for her?"

We welcome everyone here at the TFP, but please don't type in shorthand.;)

You mean more than just letting her blow me instead?

One of my exes liked to have her abdomen massaged gently.

My current girlfriend likes it when I stay in the other room.

::shrugs:: It varies.

now this guy's got the point! Same way for me. I find that nine months out of ten, i can't do anything right, and my girlfriend just prefers that i don't try.

Yeah massage usually works for me, errm when she is moody or irratable just leave her be - no pressure, she'll want ur attention soon!

After our 4th child, the cramps, pains, bleeding has increased 2 fold, and she just wants to be left alone. In the early days, we'd still mess around, and I've earned red wings a couple of time. I'll hug her more or kiss, what ever just so she knows I'm still there, and sex isn't the only thing in our relationship.

"That time of the month" means I get to give blow jobs,no sex or orgasm for me.Other than that life continues as usual with me working fulltime,doing all the cooking,cleaning and laundry.

My wife absolutely doesn't want to have sexual contact during that time just because she feels gross. However what I have taken to doing is to just touch her. I'll often come up behind her and put my hands up the back of her shirt to touch her upper back, skin. Her back is her biggest errogenous zone. I'll then nuzzle her neck a bit. All of this provides a nice buildup for when we do have sex again (usually the first moment possible afterwards).

I hug my girl. Apparently, a hug will do more than tylenol to ease her pain. Plus it lets her know that you love her.

The bonus is, she gets horny during her period ;)

Did somebody just suggest sex while a girl's on her period?

That is actually quite disgusting...

my girlfriend is all about no sexual contact during that time, so i make it a point to give her more compliments on how she looks, give her more hugs and kisses, and remind her how much i love her. my girlfriend also gets horny during her period, so i like to help her build it up so much that she's ready to explode when the period is over and its back to the sexual activities.

For some strange reason, whenever my girlfriend has her period, it seems her friends have their period also. It is very fucking scary having 3-4 menstrating women at my place at once.

Having sex on your period is not a big deal if you're in a comfortable relationship...put down a towel and have at it, if she's willing and ready.

It has to do with pheromones, but whenever you have a bunch of women working together or going out together all the time, what have you, their cycles adjust to each other so that they all have it at the same time. Weird huh?

lurkette loves tummy rubs when she's crampy. Poor thing.

I end up giving my girlfriend a lot of massages, tummy rubs, kisses, and compliments while she's on her period. Also, as someone mentioned above, just sitting behind her, taking her shirt off, and gently playing with her nipples for quite some time will definitely take her mind off cramps (and make it so she jumps me the second she's off her period).

As for sexual contact while a woman is on her period, some guys don't mind, some guys do - and more to the point, some women don't mind, and some women do. I've known girls who don't mind if their boyfriends have sex with them while on their period, and I've known guys who don't mind going down on a woman on her period (that's a little too far for me). Conversely, some guys and girls think the whole thing is gross and don't want to even imagine sexual contact during that time period.

thats horrible i think your joking (or so i hope)

any way, be nice, do something special, and dont make it into a big deal.

I make sure she's comfy (usually in bed), ask her if she needs anything, and usually I gently rub her back and give her hugs and little kisses on the cheek. She does her best to take care of me when I don't feel good, so I do the same for her.

sex while shes on period is actually not that bad. It relieves her cramps too, so you're really doing a public service for her, and she'll love you forever for it, mostly because other guys are too scared of it to try (no offence, guys).

Seriously, unless its a 'heavy' day, its not bad.

Otherwise, take the time to catch up on the cuddly-romantic aspect of your relationship, my lady always gets taken in by the sweet nothings etc.

Normally, we have sex after the heavy day. The only problem with sex during her period is that it may add an extra day or two of bleeding. Aside from that, it's quite fine. Just remember to use lubrication because the vagina does not generate as much lubrication as usual.

Personally, Im not grossed out by blood. The blood is actually very clean--similar to blood that comes out when you cut yourself. The vagina is actually much cleaner that one's mouth so, periods really are not dirty.

My gf loves sex during her period and Im lucky that Im all for it. If you love someone, I guess you can do anything.

To all the women out there, period or not, you are all still very sexy and wanted. Its a part of life.

wow, i'm very impressed by the responses here! yall seem like really really good guys (for themost part) next time im on the rag ill just have to read this thread, since at the moment i dont have anyone to do these nice things for me! wow!

i brush her hair and massage her scalp with the brush, that works for almost everything

moskie doesn't like to do it while I'm on my period. And I get really horny, and then I cry and then I have cramps and then I cry.

What I like is to get lots of food, but I do realize that I'm a big pain in the ass and no one would like to be around me when I'm on my period.

Foot rubs!! I get a lot of cramping and there is an acupressure point on the foot that relieves the cramping so much. It's between the joints of the big toe and then next toe over. With you facing her head and her foot on you thigh, place your thumb on the ball of her foot between the big toe joint and then next joint. Just rubbing in any way or steady pressure can give so much relief. If she has any cramping it will make her feel so much better. Let her tell you what feels good and what doesn't and you'll become a master of the foot massage. When I get a foot rub (which is actually pretty seldom) I feel like I'm valued and special to him. It's a sweet gesture that doesn't speak sex but does speak love.

i still go with the nipple rubbing / bath / massage

then just slowly let her drift to sleep.

:)

"that" week != hummer week

We may not act like we need to hear that, and you might not feel like you want to say so, but saying things like that during PMS and period will earn you major points. In general, be sweet. Some girls are lucky and don't have such a bad time of it. Some girls have a really rough time. Whatever the situation, doing the little things that show you care and want to be with us no matter what are wonderful. A little extra attention, help around the house, general stuff like that speaks volumes for you. And if we are too hormonal or distracted to notice how wonderful you are at the time, odds are we'll realize how wonderful you are at some point. Don't despair. That's when girls like me need to most help.

i feel sort of stupid asking this question but when do girls generally get their periods and how long do they last?

Once a month, generally around the same time of each month, but they can be late or off put if they do drugs, or just can just be off for several reasons..

3-4 days I think?

Yes, it varies from woman to woman.

My ex girlfriend never really had a change in personality, I respected the fact that she was having her period and never really brought it up..

Didn't mean I didn't want to have sex with her or anything, as much as I tried and wanted to, she just kept saying, I wouldn't force myself upon her, we'd just lay in bed and kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss, she actually got a rash above her top lip lol.. :)

I'd see her, and just go straight for her, grab her arse kiss her pin her against the wall and just kiss kiss kiss, damn I loved kissing her :)

But it does suck, because sometimes you are left with extra washing, but it's a part of life and it is required.

Be gentle in those times, they usually feel bad about it - let them know its okay :D

Yes, I did. And no, it's not. :)

It might not be for you if you're squeemish with blood, or overly selfish, but it's by no means unsanitary. Give it a try, maybe you'll find your girl is so happy afterward that it's worth it. Or maybe it can be disgusting and you can do it anyway, because i'm sure you 2 do things in bed she's not 100% on, but does because it gets YOU off. Just a thought. :)

Unless you're a girl, in which case... *shrug* nevermind.

try 4-7 or so.

Lets see, I'm a girl. What do I like when I'm all pissy and cruel? Lots of hugging and snuggling feels really good, being able to rest on a shoulder--falling asleep with the person you care for. Being patient and lots of snogging is also good too!!!!!

Bum sex. Touching boobies. YAAAAAAAAAAAAY.

My fiancee loves having her abdomen gently rubbed. She also love just cuddling up.

I get really snappy unintentionally when I am about to start, and that's when my husband knows- he does all of the sweet things he normally does, plus knowing that a nice long hair brushing and massaging takes my mind off of PMS/my period. Thanks, moonstrucksoul.....