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Men's Health magazine recently ran a story on premature ejaculation that I found quite interesting. Too interesting, really - it far too close to home for my tastes.
Here's the article: http://www.menshealth.com/cda/articl...0-2023,00.html Quite a bit of Halx' paper's topics also appeared in the article, so those familiar with this thread won't see much that is new and earth-shattering. The author did mention a book I plan to investigate; perhaps others will find it interesting, too: "How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation" by Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D. (ISBN: 0876305427) Barnes & Noble has this and a number of other PE-related books, as well. Off to do some homework... |
Excellent post HAlx, very informative! tx, and hope the grade is good!
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Don't think you think that wearing two condoms would remove all the fun from sex, just as thinking about something else would?
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"Three more methods of preventing premature ejaculation should be taken at face-value "
I found that very amusing, even if it wasn't ment to be. |
yeah wearing two condoms.... very bad idea! Good besides that.
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I've been doing my Kegel exercises to strengthen my PC muscle more or less regularly, but it hasn't translated into much of an improvement in my sexual performance. However, when I started to workout on a regular basis I did gain a bit more control over my ejaculatory response.
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I have an interesting method.
Usually, when it happens to me, it's just because it's been a while and I'm so amped up, there's nothing that can stop it. So, when faced with lemons, make lemonade I say. The upside to this is that I'm usually so wired I can go 2-3 times, each time taking quite a bit longer than the last. My personal record, when I was much younger, was a porn enhanced 6 times in a span of about 6 hours. My GF of the time (now my wife) fell asleep after my third trip to O-town. I wasn't tired and had a few more movies to watch. :thumbsup: |
Believe me when I tell you that masturbating at least twice that day before you have sex, coupled with a 12 pack of Miller High Life will take care of any and all premature ejaculation problems you may experience.
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Hmm, you have no idea how much I just learned, great read. :-p
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okay...so ive read through this thread and im in serious need of help...ive tried a few of these methods but nothing is working it all....i bought desentizing condoms and tried them once. i didnt get off too soon, instead i got limp....so...i tried two condoms, that didnt work either. i masturbate a lot so i dont know if thats helping or hurting. this is a very frustrating problem for myself and my s/o becuase i cant get her off and she get mad and then i get upset becuase i feel like a failure.
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If you go to the gym and start doing regular cardiovascular workouts you will find that the level and quality of your ejaculatory and erectile control will improve. Also, you will have more stamina to recuperate and go for round #2. |
Thank Hal very informative! I found for me the only time it ever happens is if she's on top (can only last usually 3-5 minutes if it's the first time for the evening, after that it's not a problem) other positions I can go forever.
Thank God for this forum and kagel exercises :) |
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i don't think it should even be that big a deal. you can orgasm more than once, and i don't think penetration is always so important to females anyways; it's not even the vaginal passage that is thier most sensitive sexual part, i think it's just a luxury to have the standard type of sex. i think a series of sexual things and different methods would pay off more for both partners anyways. if you know how to be romantic and feel open during sex i don't really think it matters how long you can last.
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Premature ejaculation is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, upon, or shortly after penetration. Retarded ejaculation is the oposite fenomenon, man ejaculates after a long time.
There are some hopes for PE. Studies show that Levitra may help sufferers. In 2006 FDA will approve the first drug aiming to treat PE, Dapoxetine with good results. Retarded ejaculation is still a new frontier to break, until now no certain hopes. |
Hey Hal, great paper. Very informative. Structure was awesome, as well as the information. I really liked how you put some humor in there also. I knew about the PC thing, but didn't about Prozac. Very interesting. Let me know what kind of grade you get! :)
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I was on a fairly stout does of Prozac for what turned out to be a mis-diagnosed psychological condition. The delaying effects were very noticable, however there were times I simply couldn't have an orgasm. While that may sound somewhat appealing it did turn out to be somewhat painful and frustrating.
If you're considering using Prozac or another SSRI type drug use caution. Too much of a good thing isn't necessarily a good thing, if you understand what I'm saying. |
i cum three time just looking at you post!!!
(ok, i am only joke.) |
Top read Hal, cheers for the info.
Might I add that it was very well written, which makes reading it far easier :) |
I wish I could spill my milk, I want to spill the milk, I must spill the milk..
Just a note: It's frustrating the other way around too. To not be able to have an orgasm with a partner. |
great post but tell me...
two condoms sounds tight and painful |
An interesting read. I have differing thoughts regarding the affirmations, "I don't want to spill my milk." When you say this your subconscious mind picks up, "...spill my milk!" That is very disempowering. Use positive, powerful words like, "I am an amazing love and I control my ejaculation easily and effortlessly!"
This WILL produce a huge difference. If you want to find out how I cured my Premature Ejaculation problem go to www.premature-ejaculation-solution.com Enjoy and I hope you found this useful. |
Next link- premature ejaculation: http://www.help4men.com
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Big, big help, Halx. i love that magnificent brain of yours.
I've been doing PC exercises for a while now, but just the other day i read that they were actually bad for a PE problem. I would like some clarification on this from someone. I think ill take dons advice with the cardio thing. i do push up, stretch out, and lift weights. But as far as cardio goes, nothing. actually i just pretty much sit around all day and smoke when im not working. so i definitely need to work on this. maybe my problem is psychological. maybe i just need more confidence. i dont know. |
Was about to say something about the two condoms, because recommending that in a medical-ish paper can't be good. I mean, it'd be fine with a couple who's ready or doesn't care if they have children, or women on BC. But still, a warning parentheses wouldn't hurt.
Other than that, a good read. I liked the funny bits; sex can often turn into something funny. -----Added 12/2/2009 at 11 : 45 : 54----- Quote:
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Yeah, I was on Paxil for a short time. I would last pretty long, but the truth was I didn't care one way or the other.....
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If I were on a SSRI and took Viagra, I could go all night. Actually, I would get exhausted before my penis would be done.
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