Delaying male orgasm
 

Hey there!

I'm gonna date this superhot chick in a couple of days with an outlook on sex ;) So do you have tips how to increase my potency ? I want to please her and not cum just before she is done?

Also any long-term exercise-tips are appreciated.

kegles- exercise of the PC muscle. Will allow you to control things a little better. Till then your best bet is to think about your grandma naked or something else gross to ward it off.

You could also try changing it up. When you're about to cum, slow it down, or change it up. Keep her going if you can (you have more than one appendage capable of stimulating pleasure) until you've calmed yourself down a bit. Then dive back in for more. She'll appreciate you taking the time, and not just getting off. There is a technique and a rhythm to it, and once you learn it you'll be able to control yourself for hours if needed.

You can get condoms with a bit of anaesthetic in them (Durex Performa or similar over here) - they certainly work; though have had problems with them & not being able to come at all!

Try this link.

Kegel Exercises

have you thought about pleasing her oraly first? Tis what I did with my gf at the time and she loved it. And if your worried too much about it just masturbate about 30 minutes before you see her for the date. I personally havnt tried this one but I had a friend that said it did wonders for him, and no imnot the friend sorry.

I find that if you really concentrate on breathing normally I can go for longer. For some reason I tend to hold my breath when things start to heat up. I have never heard of the exercises, but I do know that improving your cardiovascular heath will help a lot, but that is more a long term thing so I guess its no applicable. Gook luck

Practice ceasing urination in the middle of it, holding for a couple seconds and releasng again. Get good at it and you work the muscle that controls when you blow or not.

Run one off before you go on your date.

i'm the friend!!! :) LOL

wack one out before you shag her, works wonders....

try wanking more often too, it helps. you can control your orgasm and learn techniques for lasting longer...

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A guy I was sleeping with did this once and it was horrible, he couldn't feel his dick... It was just a horrible experience. Its ok to take it slow but not finishing is horrible.

lots of foreplay and get off once during it before actual intercourse. then when you do start to have sex certain positions will help also. usually with the girl on top. the missionary position is by far the WORST sexual position. it gets the guy off quickest and the girl slowest...

It always helps me to think about Rosie O'Donnell or Oprah. Or get mad about something...

I actualy find tha I tend to hold my breath durring orgasm as well, so that when I try to breathe normaly, it helps a little. Plus positions where I can use my body to thrust instead of my ass. I've found that in positions like missionary, where you thrust with your hips & ass muscles that I will finish more quickly than ones where I don't.

A quick yank on the crank
before you go out.

Also, you could focus on silly things while you are trying to hold back.

Donald Duck, Donald Duck, Donald Duck
Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse, Mickey Mouse
Goofy, Goofy, Goofy
:p :p :p

I've found that when I'm about to blow, I pull out and flick her pussy for a few seconds. It helps me find my stamina again, but it keeps her in the game as well.

Bubbles - just whip off a batch by hand before the date. You'll be able to last longer when you are called upon to perform.

Dont have sex?

lol

hey, thats an option :p

thanks for the hints so far!

A whole lot of it is mental. If you believe without a doubt that you will last, then you will. Well, most of the time.

jack off before the date

i suggest jakcing off several times before the date. i know if it's my bf's fourth time he can go forever.
and the foreplay before sex for her is definately a good idea.
i always like to get on top and drag things out myself, but it might be hard to get her to do that. i love getting a guy close though and then trying to keep him from cumming but soo close for as long as i can. hmmm. i have to stop and go to bed. this is making me horny. good luck.

I still think my Rosie O' Donnell idea is the best.

the durex performa works
and i sometimes had that problem of not being able to come at all
but eventually did

Well, it looks like most people believe in a lil pre wank before gettin some, but my problem with it is that my sexual encounters are never planned that far ahead.

pop off to the loo before it, do it quickly yourself, say your taking a dump or shower to freshen up.

then delay sex for a few minutes with foreplay, work on her which will get you horny enough to rise again straight away. or just get her to blow you before sex till you cum, and you eat her out while your recovering

I think the best approach is to simply learn how to control yourself during intercourse. (takes lots and lots of practice! :) )

Rubbing one out beforehand, especially multiple times just makes the climax when you are with her a little less...well, climactic.

For me, positions are key, I have found the ones that are easiest to control are her on top or reverse cowboy. Doggy style while you stimulate her clit is also a good one. That was my last girlfriends favorite position and it allows for really deep penetration...which is always nice. :)

Bottom line is that knowing yourself and being receptive to what's going on with her is the key. Pay attention to the pleasure that BOTH of you are feeling and go with it.

Ok, think of Goofy if you must.

Yea, I find myself thinking about the strangest thing while trying to hold out. Last time I thought about Police Horses. Why do they ride on Horses? What's that going to accomplish?!

You know, I don't have this problem and am just a little envious of you. It takes me forever and sometimes, just sometimes, I can't do it. I've tried all sorts of mental exercises. The ones that work the best involve me screaming. I know it sounds odd but just bear with me. Screaming real loud during sex is a complete turn on. It's not like I'm screaming my name or the alphabet or anything. I'm just -you know; getting into it.

And then sometimes the girls pitch in. I can be really loud. That's why it's necessary to get some good trackage on the CD. Tonight it was the Greatest Hits of James Brown. Yesterday it was Concrete Blonde... But that's neather here nor there.

Listen close bubbles, listen close - the secret to holding out is that you just do it. I can cum at will sometimes... just sometimes.

Jerk it a couple hours before the date.

Is that mousse?

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