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Old 10-08-2003, 09:04 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Guys how long did you last your first time

I've never understood why, but every guy i've ever talked to blew his load supper fast his first time.

I wish i would've known that this happens, because i didn't and it was quite embarassing especially since i'd be able to recieve head, and hand jobs for like 20 minutes easy.

Regardless

Me about: 20 seconds first time
Friend steven: he said he barely got it in ( i thought that was funny i beat him by 2 pumps )
Various others: ( all under 2 min )
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Old 10-08-2003, 09:39 AM   #2 (permalink)
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when i was 16, the first time i had sex was with a girl who had been with about 3 or 4 guys, so she knew what she was doing. Anyways, we did it for like 2 hours and i never even came, it wasnt till about the 5th time or so i actually gizzed.

then i went thru a period where it was like 5-10mins done deal.

Now, at 20 its around 20-45mins and im spent.

Ive never seemed to be able to match the stamina i once had except for a few choice exceptions, but ever since i started having sex, 2 girlfriends ago, ive never gone thru a period where ive had no sex, so its been like 1-2 times a day almost 3 years, so i think maybes its just practice,
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Old 10-08-2003, 09:41 AM   #3 (permalink)
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the first time was an hour and a half and we had to stop because i tired her out and i didnt come. now on average it is around 30 minutes. i think it was because i was nervous. maybe because i was too sexy. the world may never know.
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Old 10-08-2003, 10:06 AM   #4 (permalink)
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The first time? 5 minutes, 10 at tops. I have a very active imagination which used to cause me no end of embarrassment. Luckily though, I developed good pussy eating habits and haven't heard a complaint yet.

Now that I'm taking Zoloft, I rarely cum. I can last as long as I want, even with my overactive imagination. Out of the 7 times or so we have sex during a week, I may come twice, it that. Thank you Zoloft.

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Old 10-08-2003, 10:17 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I think the first time is really irrelevant. It is really just something to get over with. I wouldn't obsess about it, that could just make it worse. Try jerking off just before your date. That should slow you down.

Practice makes perfect! That's the good part. If you come off too fast then try again an hour later. practice practice practice!
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Old 10-08-2003, 10:29 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Some of the responses are really funny... Guys are such....
Well whatever. I have been with 3 guys on their first time. The longest of the 3 was 10 minutes and that was mostly my doing making him wait and settle down.
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Old 10-08-2003, 10:33 AM   #7 (permalink)
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i was so drunk my first time i dont even remember it!
but i know that my second time i couldnt get off at all!
i had no clue what i was doing so i couldnt get the job done!
 
Old 10-08-2003, 10:36 AM   #8 (permalink)
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First time was almost a disaster, the lizard spat before he even made it out of his cage Happily she was older and experienced, and there was a repeat about 20 mins later. That lasted a whole 5 mins.

I've improved since. Well, that was the only possible direction from there.
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Old 10-08-2003, 11:09 AM   #9 (permalink)
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i am still know to cum very quick--i can not hold back love when i have excitement!

the good news for me is i am still swollen and i can stroke for many more time before i explode again!

i am not unusual to jizz maybe three time in one sex!
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Old 10-08-2003, 11:36 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Some of the responses are really funny... Guys are such....
Such what??

I lasted about 1 minute the first time. And I thought it was only because it was the first time, but I couldn't have been more wrong. Hell, I think even a year later I was still a little more than a 5 minute man. Thank god I have a powerful and fast tongue.
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Old 10-08-2003, 11:47 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Such what??

I lasted about 1 minute the first time. And I thought it was only because it was the first time, but I couldn't have been more wrong. Hell, I think even a year later I was still a little more than a 5 minute man. Thank god I have a powerful and fast tongue.
No shame in that none at all.

I've got no problems now. It was just my first 3-4 times I came pretty fast, after that my pen0s decided to stop being hyper sensitive. I would assume that i'm about average it time with the exception that when the girl is on top i can't come at all. That might be because of her lack of orgasm inducing motions.

meh just to let any virgins know your first time don't expect anything amazing.
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Old 10-08-2003, 11:53 AM   #12 (permalink)
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id say easily 25-30 minutes. for some reason i didnt have a problem with that. and when i finally did finish, damn it was powerful.
i havent had a problem with lasting but i did finish quickly once under 3 minutes. i dunno, maybe it had something to do with the jacquzzi i was in
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Old 10-08-2003, 11:58 AM   #13 (permalink)
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1st time, didnt come at all, made love for what felt like an eternity (it was a rather lovely night). didnt care that i didnt get off. that wasnt the point.

sence then. have ran the gammut from 5 minute quickies to half hour or 40 minutes. but, like i say, if i dont come, big fucking deal. or if i come quickly...who cares. as long as youre having fun and making who youre with feel good, its all good!
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Old 10-08-2003, 12:05 PM   #14 (permalink)
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My first time was also when of my longest outings, strangely enough (could be 'cause she went down on me beforehand...). I lasted about 2 hours, and didn't come. I stopped because she was on her third lap and I was feeling a bit left out (though she made it worth my while by a second trip southward)...

*edit* where'd my knowledge of grammar go?
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Old 10-08-2003, 12:16 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Now that I'm taking Zoloft, I rarely cum. I can last as long as I want, even with my overactive imagination. Out of the 7 times or so we have sex during a week, I may come twice, it that. Thank you Zoloft.

does zoloft really do that? someone jokingly told me i should take it, but now maybe i really should :P
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Old 10-08-2003, 12:42 PM   #16 (permalink)
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First time - a minute, even after two prior rounds of oral that same night. Totally mental, not physical. Since then sessions are significantly (5-45 min) longer, but no "average" time.
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Old 10-08-2003, 01:38 PM   #17 (permalink)
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First time somewhere around 5 minutes but I was receiving a rather long hj right before to which I like to put most the blame =P
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Old 10-08-2003, 02:30 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Only a few mins. here's another question, how about first blow job? how long did u manage to last? I think I only lasted a few but im not sure I forget / was drunk lol :P
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Old 10-08-2003, 02:32 PM   #19 (permalink)
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preach on brother!

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1st time, didnt come at all, made love for what felt like an eternity (it was a rather lovely night). didnt care that i didnt get off. that wasnt the point.

sence then. have ran the gammut from 5 minute quickies to half hour or 40 minutes. but, like i say, if i dont come, big fucking deal. or if i come quickly...who cares. as long as youre having fun and making who youre with feel good, its all good!
i used to have sex a lot without cuming at all!
allthough since i started dating my current girlfriend i havnt had that problem cause its incredible sex! best ever actually! so i always cum no matter what! hell there are times when my eyes start to roll back in my head the second i enter her! And that with a condom! i cant imagine whats gonna happen if i ever get a chance to be inside her without one!
i know for a fact it will be WAY shorter than usual!
if i last 2min. id be suprised!
 
Old 10-08-2003, 02:34 PM   #20 (permalink)
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could have lasted all night!

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Only a few mins. here's another question, how about first blow job? how long did u manage to last? I think I only lasted a few but im not sure I forget / was drunk lol :P

first chic to give me a BJ was clueless so there was no chance of cuming at all!
allthough i was with a girl for a littlw while who was a trained pro,when she did it i would nut down her throat in a matter of seconds!
 
Old 10-08-2003, 03:02 PM   #21 (permalink)
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how about first blow job? how long did u manage to last? I think I only lasted a few but im not sure I forget / was drunk lol :P
That was ridiculously fast. Maybe three minutes? She loved it, though, 'cause that meant she got what she was looking for much sooner, and was happy to work for it again about an hour later...
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Old 10-08-2003, 05:08 PM   #22 (permalink)
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Only a few mins. here's another question, how about first blow job? how long did u manage to last? I think I only lasted a few but im not sure I forget / was drunk lol :P
she wasn't any good at it, and alternated between hand a blow i think her neck hurt. So i didn't go from that at all.
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Old 10-08-2003, 05:39 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Like 2 minutes, maybe. Now I've gone from 3 minutes until way too long. It all depends on how much recent sex I've had (more = longer).
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Old 10-08-2003, 06:58 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Not sure how long it took my first time, was a while ago. I think she blew me beforehard, so I think I probably lasted a good 10-15 minutes. How much I've learned since then....
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Old 10-08-2003, 07:40 PM   #25 (permalink)
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first time was over 30 minutes, didn't come, she stopped saying she was sore. not too big of a surprise though. it took over 20 minutes for my first bj too.
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Old 10-08-2003, 08:11 PM   #26 (permalink)
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First time I had sex, I never came. I have to have somewhere to put my legs or I can't come for some reason. We figured that out the second time. I think it was about 10-15 minutes the second time, maybe a bit longer.

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Old 10-08-2003, 08:39 PM   #27 (permalink)
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The first time I managed to last about 9-10 minutes, although it felt like only a minute had passed.

After not having sex for awhile, I still can barely manage to get to 10 minutes, but the more often I have sex the longer I can last. I think the longest I ever went was 45 minutes.
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Old 10-08-2003, 10:16 PM   #28 (permalink)
 
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It's interesting, actually. My first time was with a condom and I could have lasted as long as I wanted. In fact, I tried hard to _make_ myself cum 'cause I thought I might lose my erection if I continued screwing her without bringing myself closer to the edge.

The first time I had sex _without_ a condom, I only lasted a few pumps. That damn condom makes all the difference. I hate condoms...
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Old 10-08-2003, 10:17 PM   #29 (permalink)
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My first time i lasted about 4 hours but that is because of nerves i think. The usual for me is about 30 min. The longest i ever went was all night. =) now that was a great night!!!
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Old 10-09-2003, 01:13 AM   #30 (permalink)
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my first time i was so worried about cumming too soon so i had like a mental block...we went at it for an hour or so, and at that point i wasnt so nervous so it went off like a firehose
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Old 10-09-2003, 04:16 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Heh, 3.5 hours. I was in my bedroom which shared a wall with my moms room. On top of that I was uber-nervous about blowing off to soon. Somehow, I gave her 5 orgasams that I remember, and lost count after that. Now, I would KILL to be able to go that long without cuming.

Hashbrowns can verify as she was the other party involved :-D
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Old 10-09-2003, 11:49 AM   #32 (permalink)
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Actually I was the exact opposite. I lasted a good 10 or 15 minutes after my girlfriend went. It was amazing. Total time was about 1 hr if I remember correctly.
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Old 10-09-2003, 12:27 PM   #33 (permalink)
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First time? I didn't even cum. Of course, my girlfriend was also a virgin, so neither of us really knew what we were doing. As I recall, after we had sex for a while, we gave up, and I fingered her to orgasm. That was it.

Now, after a lot more experience... I'm actually bringing DOWN the time it takes me to get there. I can make myself come in a minute flat with my hand, but I find it much harder when someone else is doing it.

Don't get me wrong; it feels better when someone else does it. I love having sex, getting head, whatever. It just takes longer. I can't explain it. Whatever.
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Old 10-09-2003, 12:36 PM   #34 (permalink)
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I didn't cum my first time... she gots sore after a paltry 4 minutes... and this is with lube and extensive oral...
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Old 10-09-2003, 12:41 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Oh, bout 8-10 minutes or so, was really, really cool, and im still with her and thats even cooler. now i'm lasting 30-45 minutes
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Old 10-09-2003, 12:49 PM   #36 (permalink)
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My first time was with an older chick, I was 16 and she was prolly 20 or 22. I didnt even really move the whole time. She was on top and I was like a deer in headlights. In fact I dont even remember how long it was... bout 5 to 10 minutes I guess.

Since then I have come a long way. I very rarely have complaints. Not beacuse Im some super stud, but I pay very close attention to the girl. I love making girls get off. I think the turning point was when I realized how much of it was mental. Now I guess I can last from 20 to 45 minutes in one session. Sometimes I can go 5 or six times with a 5 to 10 minutes break in between.

I have started working on my cardio beacuse I find when I concentrate on my breathing I can last longer. Does anyone know how much difference it makes when you have a healthier cardio system.
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Old 10-09-2003, 01:39 PM   #37 (permalink)
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About 2 minutes although I was actually only inside around 45 seconds. I couldn't get the angle right, and she was experienced and wasn't helping me out any.
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Old 10-09-2003, 02:35 PM   #38 (permalink)
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The first time for me i didn't I was too nervous. Nowadays I can hold it as long as I like.
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Old 10-09-2003, 02:35 PM   #39 (permalink)
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two and a half hours give or take five min.

my only explaination is that i had Tons of practice on my spare time
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Old 10-09-2003, 02:40 PM   #40 (permalink)
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iamjero: "She was on top and I was like a deer in headlights"
that made me laugh out loud. good analogy.

oh, first bj. she used her teeth the whole time. i wanted to die and was making audible pain noises. I think she thought I was into it.
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