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Sleepyjack · 10-06-2003, 10:46 PM

ok, this is a little silly, but i just read this joke in the humour section and was thinking about the way in which you say yuou have sex with someone, ie normally either they fucked me or i fucked them.

It's generally the guys fucking the girls, although it probably more relates to who is the more dominant in the act? and the dominant one is doing the fucking. Or the person giving is doing the fucking, although then, who gives what when having sex or various sex acts???

Anyone want to shed some of their thoughts on this trivial topic

YKK · 10-06-2003, 10:54 PM

i believe it's simply a matter of who is the most dominant in, if not the relationship, then the particular sexual act.. at least it is for me.. i normally have a bit too much pride to say that my wife "fucked me" and in practical terms she hardly ever does.. i generally "fuck her" though our case might be a bit special as we have a definite top/bottom mentality in our relationship.. not to mention our sex life..

^^

Wombat · 10-07-2003, 02:38 AM

I'm rarely the fuckee.

Rlyss · 10-07-2003, 03:11 AM

I've always understood the person who does the most 'work' during sex, or is on top, or who initiates changing positions, etc. to be the one doing the fucking.

Although I suppose it's never really clear cut, as if you were doing *all the work it really wouldn't be so much fun.

Thraeryn · 10-07-2003, 04:41 AM

I am generally fucking Jin, as she (by her own admission) is lazy and likes to lie there and be fucked.

Even when she gets the drive up and fucks me, it returns to my fucking her. I've just never been able to finish if I'm not the one fucking. Some sort of strange mental block, I guess.

IC3 · 10-07-2003, 04:58 AM

There is nothing hotter than a girl that will fuck me the whole time...I love a girl who likes to be in control..That gets me soo turned on.

For me to finish though I have to be on top missionary style..So in the end it's me fuckin her. I won't get off from a BJ or a hand job either. She could fuck me for an hour and I won't get off, But as soon as I get on top..It only takes a couple minutes.

So ya...I like to be dominated by the girl and fucked.

tekaweni · 10-07-2003, 12:40 PM

With me its both ways. Whoever's the horniest usually takes charge - being the guy it usually means I do most of the driving for practical reasons, though I've had some pretty awe-inspiring times with her on top.

The important thing is the mental approach. Maybe some guys/girls just like to be dominated/submissive and seek out an appropriate partner?

iamjero · 10-07-2003, 12:48 PM

I like it both ways. I know Im giving a proper fucking when I seem to be in control, ie. switching position, doin the work, being dominant, when all of a sudden the girl takes over, slams me on my back and rides me to her climax. Super hot

When Im the fuckee I like to me really really submissive, even roughted up a bit.

mb99usa · 10-07-2003, 12:55 PM

I must say that I am usually the one doing the fucking. It is a rare treat to be the one getting fucked. That said I really just want there to be fucking going on.

wry1 · 10-07-2003, 09:53 PM

I usually am the one doing the fucking, but there was this one time when my girlfriend (at the time) grabbed me, slammed me into a wall, climbed onto me - we were both clothed at the time, too! - and said, "Fuck me, NOW!"

That time, she was definitely in control.

89transam · 10-07-2003, 10:35 PM

I dunno, arent you both "fucking" . AS in Fucking like rabbits. But yes it does seem like the guy is proboly usually the one that is fucking the girl.

motdakasha · 10-07-2003, 11:19 PM

I usually say "we fucked," since I do just as much "work" as he does. Give a little, take a little.

bermuDa · 10-08-2003, 08:48 AM

i like what motdakasha said ^^

I'd say I like to fuck, but I equally enjoy getting fucked.

vveronica · 10-08-2003, 10:41 AM

been fucked, have fucked and prefer being used, played, and taken

air45 · 10-08-2003, 10:59 AM

this is all good news for me! everyone should do the fuck work for excellent fun of all!

World's King · 10-08-2003, 11:03 AM

FUCK ME

Dano069 · 10-08-2003, 11:13 AM

The wife and I take turns fucking one another. Some days she's the aggressor, other days I am. It's all good!

Averett · 10-08-2003, 11:36 AM

Who's getting fucked? Unfortunatly not me

As has been said, it depends on who's the aggressor.

The.Lunatic · 10-08-2003, 05:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Averett
Who's getting fucked? Unfortunatly not me

As has been said, it depends on who's the aggressor.

i'm there with you, however It was both of us when i was getting fuct, as she would go on top quite often.

sexymama · 10-08-2003, 05:20 PM

I like to think that for the most part it is mutual; but honestly, sometimes Lebell fucks me and sometimes I fuck him.

analog · 10-08-2003, 07:19 PM

i'm usually the one fucking the girl- although that's not to say i've not been royally fucked by a girl on some several occasions.

WarWagon · 10-08-2003, 07:21 PM

Since I'm at OSU and my girlfriend is at UConn, nobody

majik_6 · 10-08-2003, 07:34 PM

Hmm, in practical terms, I would agree that it's whoever took the initiative.

However, I believe in conversation, it usually comes out as "I fucked her" or "I fucked him" depending on your gender/orientation. My best friend is a frickin' sex-o-holic, and he would never say "she fucked me". I think, that since one is usually describing the action they themselves took, it becomes a case of describer being the "fucker", for lack of better terminology.

bundy · 10-09-2003, 08:51 AM

i stand before you, naked, just a man... take me.

either way its fun... i mean, both have their time and place.

skysooner · 10-09-2003, 10:19 AM

My wife is fucking me. I'm fucking her. To me it makes no difference whether you are dominant or not.

QuasiMojo · 10-09-2003, 01:56 PM

There is....quitealot of fucking going on here.

wabbit · 10-09-2003, 04:26 PM

I prefer to conjugate.

Sleepyjack · 10-10-2003, 03:28 AM

Quote:

QuasiMojo said
There is....quitealot of fucking going on here.

fucking is good though, although i realize i am not meant to be saying it like that, sorry.

ie -> http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=30552

i now fully understand the phrase of saying who fucked who as well

its all subjective though

Astrocloud · 10-10-2003, 02:32 PM

I think it's better to be fucked than to fuck... sometimes.

prince_albert · 10-10-2003, 03:07 PM

This reminds me of a joke:

The wife walks in the office to find her hubby having sex with a fit blond. As she is ready to go beserk the bloke says: "hunny calm down, I am not fucking her, she is fucking me, she is my new boss"

jerseyboy · 10-10-2003, 05:39 PM

As evidence by my previous thread, most definitely not myself.

thumper69 · 10-10-2003, 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by iamjero
I like it both ways. I know Im giving a proper fucking when I seem to be in control, ie. switching position, doin the work, being dominant, when all of a sudden the girl takes over, slams me on my back and rides me to her climax. Super hot

When Im the fuckee I like to me really really submissive, even roughted up a bit.

I feel you man, I like it both ways.
It really doesn't matter, it's all good and fun.
And fucking great.

I miss it... good times, good times. ::slowly wipes tear away::

citbs · 10-10-2003, 09:27 PM

This might fucking explain it...

http://www.aestheticdesigns.net/funn...erenglish.html

numist_net · 10-11-2003, 01:30 AM

my g/f and I do not fuck

her and I together make love, no one is the lover or the lovee, we are both equal in the act, and it is both wonderful and beautiful.

so there :P

esotar · 10-11-2003, 05:40 PM

mainly my partner and I make love.........until the fuckin begins

.....Seriously tho, Im usually the "top" but when things get really intense, I will tell her to "fuck me back", its a mental thing, it sort of seems to make it that much more intense for both of us if I remind her she needs to do a little work for her orgasm. I love my partner, and I swear to all the gods you care to mention, she is the best sexual partner I have ever had. She fucks me like a dream, absolutly RULES my clit, and pushes me to levels of sexual experience I had not previously contemplated. The coolest thing about this is, she is experiencing realms of pleasure with me she never felt before. A beautiful, fufilling relationship. I am truly blessed.

*Nikki* · 10-11-2003, 08:01 PM

Raises hand!

Doing both.

Fucking and being fucked a whole lot lately. I prefer the being fucked one but there are times when I do all the work.

10-06-2003, 10:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
Sleepyjack Fast'n'Bulbous Location: Australia, Perth	Whose getting fucked? ok, this is a little silly, but i just read this joke in the humour section and was thinking about the way in which you say yuou have sex with someone, ie normally either they fucked me or i fucked them. It's generally the guys fucking the girls, although it probably more relates to who is the more dominant in the act? and the dominant one is doing the fucking. Or the person giving is doing the fucking, although then, who gives what when having sex or various sex acts??? Anyone want to shed some of their thoughts on this trivial topic

10-07-2003, 04:58 AM	#6 (permalink)
IC3 Poison Location: Canada	There is nothing hotter than a girl that will fuck me the whole time...I love a girl who likes to be in control..That gets me soo turned on. For me to finish though I have to be on top missionary style..So in the end it's me fuckin her. I won't get off from a BJ or a hand job either. She could fuck me for an hour and I won't get off, But as soon as I get on top..It only takes a couple minutes. So ya...I like to be dominated by the girl and fucked. __________________ "To win any battle, you must fight as if you were already dead" -Musashi

10-07-2003, 12:40 PM	#7 (permalink)
tekaweni It wasnt me Location: Scotland	With me its both ways. Whoever's the horniest usually takes charge - being the guy it usually means I do most of the driving for practical reasons, though I've had some pretty awe-inspiring times with her on top. The important thing is the mental approach. Maybe some guys/girls just like to be dominated/submissive and seek out an appropriate partner? __________________ If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten

10-07-2003, 12:48 PM	#8 (permalink)
iamjero Insane Location: New Orleans/Oakland/San Diego/Chicago	I like it both ways. I know Im giving a proper fucking when I seem to be in control, ie. switching position, doin the work, being dominant, when all of a sudden the girl takes over, slams me on my back and rides me to her climax. Super hot When Im the fuckee I like to me really really submissive, even roughted up a bit. __________________ "Ideas are far more powerful than guns. We don't allow our enemies to have guns, why should we allow them to have ideas?" - Joseph Stalin

10-07-2003, 12:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
mb99usa Keep on rolling. It only hurts for a little while. Location: wherever I am	All the Work I must say that I am usually the one doing the fucking. It is a rare treat to be the one getting fucked. That said I really just want there to be fucking going on.

10-06-2003, 10:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
YKK Crazy Location: Toronto, ONT	i believe it's simply a matter of who is the most dominant in, if not the relationship, then the particular sexual act.. at least it is for me.. i normally have a bit too much pride to say that my wife "fucked me" and in practical terms she hardly ever does.. i generally "fuck her" though our case might be a bit special as we have a definite top/bottom mentality in our relationship.. not to mention our sex life.. ^^

10-07-2003, 02:38 AM	#3 (permalink)
Wombat Crazy	I'm rarely the fuckee.

10-07-2003, 03:11 AM	#4 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	I've always understood the person who does the most 'work' during sex, or is on top, or who initiates changing positions, etc. to be the one doing the fucking. Although I suppose it's never really clear cut, as if you were doing *all the work it really wouldn't be so much fun.

10-07-2003, 04:41 AM	#5 (permalink)
Thraeryn Loser	I am generally fucking Jin, as she (by her own admission) is lazy and likes to lie there and be fucked. Even when she gets the drive up and fucks me, it returns to my fucking her. I've just never been able to finish if I'm not the one fucking. Some sort of strange mental block, I guess.

10-07-2003, 09:53 PM	#10 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	I usually am the one doing the fucking, but there was this one time when my girlfriend (at the time) grabbed me, slammed me into a wall, climbed onto me - we were both clothed at the time, too! - and said, "Fuck me, NOW!" That time, she was definitely in control.

10-07-2003, 10:35 PM	#11 (permalink)
89transam Psycho Location: Central California	I dunno, arent you both "fucking" . AS in Fucking like rabbits. But yes it does seem like the guy is proboly usually the one that is fucking the girl.

10-07-2003, 11:19 PM	#12 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	I usually say "we fucked," since I do just as much "work" as he does. Give a little, take a little. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

10-08-2003, 08:48 AM	#13 (permalink)
bermuDa don't ignore this--> Location: CA	i like what motdakasha said ^^ I'd say I like to fuck, but I equally enjoy getting fucked. __________________ I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

10-08-2003, 10:41 AM	#14 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	been fucked, have fucked and prefer being used, played, and taken __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

10-08-2003, 10:59 AM	#15 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	this is all good news for me! everyone should do the fuck work for excellent fun of all!

10-08-2003, 11:03 AM	#16 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	FUCK ME __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

10-09-2003, 01:56 PM	#26 (permalink)
QuasiMojo King Knave Location: Lancaster	There is....quitealot of fucking going on here. __________________ AzAbOv ZoBeLoE

10-09-2003, 04:26 PM	#27 (permalink)
wabbit Psycho	I prefer to conjugate.

10-08-2003, 11:13 AM	#17 (permalink)
Dano069 is Nucking Futs! Location: On the edge of sanity	The wife and I take turns fucking one another. Some days she's the aggressor, other days I am. It's all good! __________________ I may look attentive, but I'm taking peeks down your blouse faster than the human eye can follow.

10-08-2003, 11:36 AM	#18 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Who's getting fucked? Unfortunatly not me As has been said, it depends on who's the aggressor. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

10-08-2003, 05:20 PM	#20 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	I like to think that for the most part it is mutual; but honestly, sometimes Lebell fucks me and sometimes I fuck him. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

10-08-2003, 07:19 PM	#21 (permalink)
analog Banned	i'm usually the one fucking the girl- although that's not to say i've not been royally fucked by a girl on some several occasions.

10-08-2003, 07:21 PM	#22 (permalink)
WarWagon Loser	Since I'm at OSU and my girlfriend is at UConn, nobody

10-08-2003, 07:34 PM	#23 (permalink)
majik_6 narcissist Location: looking in a mirror	Hmm, in practical terms, I would agree that it's whoever took the initiative. However, I believe in conversation, it usually comes out as "I fucked her" or "I fucked him" depending on your gender/orientation. My best friend is a frickin' sex-o-holic, and he would never say "she fucked me". I think, that since one is usually describing the action they themselves took, it becomes a case of describer being the "fucker", for lack of better terminology. __________________ it's all about self-indulgence

10-09-2003, 08:51 AM	#24 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	i stand before you, naked, just a man... take me. either way its fun... i mean, both have their time and place. __________________ Ohayo!!!

10-09-2003, 10:19 AM	#25 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	My wife is fucking me. I'm fucking her. To me it makes no difference whether you are dominant or not.

10-10-2003, 02:32 PM	#29 (permalink)
Astrocloud Apocalypse Nerd	I think it's better to be fucked than to fuck... sometimes.

10-10-2003, 03:07 PM	#30 (permalink)
prince_albert Banned Location: Bradford, UK	This reminds me of a joke: The wife walks in the office to find her hubby having sex with a fit blond. As she is ready to go beserk the bloke says: "hunny calm down, I am not fucking her, she is fucking me, she is my new boss"

10-10-2003, 05:39 PM	#31 (permalink)
jerseyboy Insane	As evidence by my previous thread, most definitely not myself.

10-10-2003, 09:27 PM	#33 (permalink)
citbs Upright	This might fucking explain it... http://www.aestheticdesigns.net/funn...erenglish.html

10-11-2003, 01:30 AM	#34 (permalink)
numist_net Banned Location: UCSD	my g/f and I do not fuck her and I together make love, no one is the lover or the lovee, we are both equal in the act, and it is both wonderful and beautiful. so there :P

10-11-2003, 05:40 PM	#35 (permalink)
esotar Upright Location: triangle area, nc	mainly my partner and I make love.........until the fuckin begins.....Seriously tho, Im usually the "top" but when things get really intense, I will tell her to "fuck me back", its a mental thing, it sort of seems to make it that much more intense for both of us if I remind her she needs to do a little work for her orgasm. I love my partner, and I swear to all the gods you care to mention, she is the best sexual partner I have ever had. She fucks me like a dream, absolutly RULES my clit, and pushes me to levels of sexual experience I had not previously contemplated. The coolest thing about this is, she is experiencing realms of pleasure with me she never felt before. A beautiful, fufilling relationship. I am truly blessed. __________________ "Without meditation, where is peace? Without peace, where is happiness?" -- the Bhagavad Gita

10-11-2003, 08:01 PM	#36 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	Raises hand! Doing both. Fucking and being fucked a whole lot lately. I prefer the being fucked one but there are times when I do all the work.