How to last longer??
 

Well my new girlfriend has been giving me head quite frequently lately, first time I have got it in a few months. She is the 3rd girl that has given it to me. I could go a pretty long time with the first two girls who gave it to me, but for some reason when she does it, i dont last long at all. And it is really bothering me. It is basically because she is amazing at giving it, and it is hard to hold it in. I am sure there have been plenty of threads about this. But oh well. Will it start taking longer after a while?? She is wanting to have sex soon, so am i, but I don't want to ruin it and have the same thing happen. It is really weird... first time it has happened, well it seems to happen every time she gives it. Anyone have any tips? This has really been bothering me. I am 18 btw.

think of grandma.

like dont concentrate on your penis...channel your focus elsewhere. try saying the alphabet backwards or something.

keep trying focusing on different things till you find one that works

don't think of nasty old ladies, might make you abit soft in the lower regions instead :(

just try and focus it elsewhere like the above poster said

What's the point of focusing elsewhere? Doesn't that totally screw up what your women is trying to do? She's trying to please you and it's just like you're ignoring her? I don't get the whole "focus elsewhere" idea.

I agree with this homeboy... focus on the fantastic job she apperently is doing. Possibly TALK to her about it, tell her she is amazing at it but you can only handle it for so long.. im sure she wouldnt mind hearing about the great job she is doing.

I fail to see where the problem lies... if it was during sex I could understand that as a problem, but I don't see anything wrong with coming quickly from a great blowjob...

I tell her over and over again how amazing she is at it, and she is starting to believe me, so I get it more and more. Girls love to hear how they are better then your ex's.

I guess there really isnt that much of a problem coming early while getting head, but it is still kind of embarrassing, and I am sure it has gone through her head that it would be the same while having sex. Hopefully it will be different when we finally do it, since I will be able to pull it out when I am about to finish and change positions or something. She doesn't really seem to be bothered by it at all.

And I don't like the idea of thinking about something else, I mean what is the point of getting it if you don't enjoy it? I think it is just mental and me being nervous and excited at the same time, so I can't control it. I bet if I just relax and enjoy what I am getting and not worry about it, it will be longer.

i meant more like focus on how beautiful she is, or on her pleasure instead of focusing on how damn good she makes you and your penis feel, works for me atleast, and for her too :)

you will still enjoy it, and it's not like you can totaly get rid of the feeling on what's going on between you, just a tip anyways !

I think of my old math teacher (female) who used to beat the crap out of us at every available opportunity.

Of course that has the side-effect of shrinking it completely, so only think of her for a couple of seconds when necessary

Durex 'performa' has some sort of anaesthetic coating. Supposed to deaden it a bit, dont know if it actually works though..

Don't stress about it. Look at it this way - the quicker she can get you off orally, the less sore her jaw will be, and the quicker she'll be ready to do it again!

The speed to orgasm will probably be entirely different when you actually have sex.

I find that a 4 shots of rum, one after the other, keep me going all night long.

Explore other regions than just the cock. Get some ball play going on. Dont establish a rhythem.

Meh Jack Daniels > Rum you should try this though.