The mutual orgasm
 

I was wondering how many of you out there actually are able to acheive a mutual orgasm regularly.

I find the second I feel my partners erection begin to fire off in my pussy it makes me orgasm so hard... It is virtually uncontrollable.
On the other side I find it difficult to acheive such a heightened state without the feeling of it emptying in me...! Weird?

Regularly? I dunno. It's definitely happened before, but Jin and I are still new to each other and haven't quite synched up yet.

Of course, I never mind helping her finish off with her "battery-operated boyfriend" (Bob). ;)

pretty regularly, but it is her coming off that gets me going timing-wise. Kind of the opposite of you. But, when two partners get synched up - who starts going first is sort of not important.

does anyone else think that mutual orgasms might be a little too convienient? i'm sure some are natural but being the cynical person that i am i would make the assumption that the majority of them are just fakes. but like i said i'm very cynical

well i have been with my girl for 2 and a half years and i find that the whole mutual orgasm this is pretty regular. And i know she isn't fakeing it becase we are close enough to tell eachother when it just isn't going to happen

We don't get them often, maybe once every other month or so, but they are very nice when it happens that way.

Yes, based on 16 years of practice. Probably about 75% of the time.

We go in phases. Sometimes we're dead on all the time, sometimes we're way off. As long as we both get them we don't care!

We get 'em pretty often. vveronica, my wife's like you kinda. When I start cumming, she will as well, if she hasn't already. She's pretty responsive...you should hear her when things really get going!

OMG.

I just realized that it's been 11 years since I've had a mutual orgasm. I'm wondering how pathetic that is.

I get them decently regularily, maybe 20% at best, but then again, practice makes perfect!

Well happens sometimes but not all the time but when it happens its great, i dont know why but when i feel/see my girl about to cum it makes me cum its great.

Yeah when she starts moaning it kind of gives me the "Go" signal and most of the time its both at the same time or pretty damn close.

Vveronica, the thought of this is so hot I was immediately hard. Your man is one lucky monkey.

God that sounds gooood! I could fuck right now just thinking about him pushing it in me. It's been awhile, but yes-oh Yes, the minute my man starts to cum - I get that second wind and cum too, but usually after that first deep thrust/penetration orgasm. I'm lucky. I can cum easily...good porn and or dirty talk and I squirt. I think the more you "couple the easier it is" to come at the same time with a mutual orgasm. And men - please make noise! It's way better when you're talking and saying, "Baby, I'm ready to shoot all my hot cum deep inside you!" and all the other wilder variations there of. Most of us ladies love the wild lusty descriptions and moaning. Louder can be better!

I think me and my hubby go at the same time almost everytime. As soon as I start feeling it he can tell and starts to do me harder:D It's just the way I start acting that lets him know I'm there. There have been times when he goes before me, and theres been times when I've went before him, but it's just so much better when we're experiencing it at the same time.

I think i get her off way too many times to be able to synch all that often, but when i'm finally going to finish, we do soemtimes synch up. I love that feeling.

Me and wife almost always go at the same time. If she is on top, she will usually go first, but if we are in standard missionary, we go at the same time. There are times though that I will go before her. If I can't stay hard I will lick and suck her pussy & clit to finish her off.

My first girlfriend was like that, a totally instinctual response. With experience I have learned that *most* women aren't like this, unfortunately, and I actually have to work for their orgasms ;-)

With my first wife, we'd just wait until she thought she was on her "last" one and I'd just go with her then. My current wife can't come that way in the first place, so she usually gets to go first. In any case, I'd say that yes, there are other people out there that can do it.

Seeing my girl get off is the most erotic thing in the world. When I see her cumming it takes a lot of concentration to hold mine back. She usually has more than one orgasm and I usually try to time mine with her second one. I'm only successful about half the time.

My boyfriend and I take turns, him and I have the occasional mutual thing going, but for the most part we designate nights or days for each other. It's all good. :icare:

I agree. I don't know what it is - frankly, I don't care! - but seeing and hearing my girl orgasm just sends me through the roof. Takes all I've got to hold back.

My fiance and i can get it to work sometimes its been a while though :(. but when we do get it to work it is absolutly amazing

During sex I can be feeling like I could continue going for hours. Then, if she begins to show heightened pleasure by sounds and movements, I will quickly begin to cum... just the sound of her enjoying herself kicks up the intensity by 300%.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Apache
[B] I think me and my hubby go at the same time almost everytime. As soon as I start feeling it he can tell and starts to do me harder:

My wife is the same way Apache. She loves it harder while she is coming, plus she loves the feel of that hot load while she's getting off. Been that way for 24 years.

:( Rarely happens to me....I end up going first and then I finish her off orally (which is great coz I love her taste).

Im wondering, you think its got to do with the fact that I got a small weewee?

Mutual is great! I've only experienced a few of them, but when they do happen.. omg! :D

But either way.. if they're not.. I just go down on her ;)

I have never had a mutual orgasm. I'm wondering how pathetic THAT is.

I've never had an orgasm with anyone besides myself, i wonder how pathetic THAT is.

Never happens. Of course, whenever there is time (and that's better than 75% of the time) I get her off first. She likes it when we go at it while she's glowing after an orgasm.

Wow, this thread got erotic... mmmm

Anyway, I felt that I should add that my g/f has trouble getting off proper unless I'm there and doing my job, and orgasms best if we do it together, which we manage about a quarter of the time, and can sometimes time by holding the other off...

Well if she comes, I'm going to come - the sensation is irresistable. Just have to keep going long enough.

One thing that I am curious about......question for the ladies.

My ex-GF said she couldn't really feel cum spraying inside her. She could tell I reached orgasm by the muscle contractions that she felt.

So can you really feel the hot liquid, or is it the contractions that tell you it has happpened?

When my g/f is on period, we have unprotected sex with spermicide, just to be safe. She says she can feel it shooting out, and she can feel it after sex too, just sitting in there.

Kinda cool! :D

in a now-extinct year-long relationship (although we'd only been having sex for 7 months), we've only done it once, mainly because her views changed (don't know why, don't care now) and she didn't want me coming inside of her, despite the fact that she's on the pill.

in any case, it was wonderful, absolutely wonderful.

I've only had a mutual one time (feeling a little below the norm after reading some of the responses), and that time was definitely odd; she started and I went from no where close to there almost instantly. Honestly it made for a pretty weak orgasm, even if the emotional glow made up for it. It is something I would like to experience more however.

Hardly ever does it happen but how important is it really! As long as we are both happy!!

I've experienced this once with my gf.

We figure that, statistically, it'll happen again if we try enough times. I certainly don't mind trying over and over :D

I do wish we could control this more though.

:eek: You win. ;)