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AlCap0wn · 09-14-2003, 07:22 PM

Well, that was a new one.

My SO just mentioned, for seemingly no particular reason, the concept of filming myself and her during various activites. My perspective, hers, a tripod off to the side ...

She discovered my digital camera over the summer, and took a few surprise pics when I was walking out of the shower once, but nothing really with that as the focus. It's just that she's never mentioned filming before, and I never thought to because she didn't seem like she'd be interested.

But ... well ... damn.

To the question below: We've been engaged for two years, dated for a year before that.

Anyone else have a girl who's into this? Suggestions? Advice? Tips? Anything?

And no, you can't have any copies.

Johnny Rotten · 09-14-2003, 07:28 PM

Don't return any of those to the video store by accident. And don't leave them in the VCR or DVD player (or digital camera) when you're done. Have one place where you always keep the, uh, personal recordings.

AlCap0wn · 09-14-2003, 07:37 PM

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Originally posted by Johnny Rotten
Don't return any of those to the video store by accident. And don't leave them in the VCR or DVD player (or digital camera) when you're done. Have one place where you always keep the, uh, personal recordings.

Right now I've just got an 8mm, so that's pretty easy to control. Been considering a DV for other purposes, but not sure about having them stored in that fashion. One unpatched security hole could really ruin my day there. :P

sigma1042 · 09-15-2003, 07:38 AM

even though i love amateur porn and would like taping myself and the gf, i won't do it

if there is anyone out there that you wouldn't want to see it, don't do it

it will come back at you later
used against you by the SO or somebody (friends, parents, kids)finds it

but if you do it, i'll take a copy :-D

AlCap0wn · 09-15-2003, 12:21 PM

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Originally posted by sigma1042
even though i love amateur porn and would like taping myself and the gf, i won't do it

if there is anyone out there that you wouldn't want to see it, don't do it

Besides you anonymous perverts?

I obviously wouldn't want either family seeing it. That's just wrong - I mean, walking in on your brother or sister getting it on would be disturbing enough - but actively seeking it out is an eight-piece combo of Chicken McNasty.

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it will come back at you later
used against you by the SO or somebody (friends, parents, kids)finds it

Used against me? If it was her idea and she was more than willing, I find it hard to think that she'd use it against me. I can't see the parents "using it against me" - maybe just disowning the both of us. :P As far as "friends" seeing it?

I'd just kill them.

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but if you do it, i'll take a copy :-D

Not likely.

baaa · 09-15-2003, 12:27 PM

Try not to talk much, from my experience
turns out my "sexy voice" sounds kinda goofy.

AlCap0wn · 09-15-2003, 12:29 PM

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Originally posted by baaa
Try not to talk much, from my experience
turns out my "sexy voice" sounds kinda goofy.

That's why god invented video editing software.

Redlemon · 09-15-2003, 01:06 PM

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Originally posted by AlCap0wn
Used against me? If it was her idea and she was more than willing, I find it hard to think that she'd use it against me.

How "significant" is your SO? Is this an "all signs pointing toward marriage or equivalent", or "we've kinda been dating for a couple of weeks now"? Is there a reasonable chance that you two won't be together in the future, and who will have control of these images then? Just things to think about...

AlCap0wn · 09-15-2003, 01:10 PM

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Originally posted by redlemon
How "significant" is your SO? Is this an "all signs pointing toward marriage or equivalent", or "we've kinda been dating for a couple of weeks now"? Is there a reasonable chance that you two won't be together in the future, and who will have control of these images then? Just things to think about...

Ah, yes, that would certainly affect answers. I'll edit the OP.

Engaged for two years, dated for a year before that.

meff · 09-15-2003, 08:07 PM

If you guys ever break up make sure you're the one with the tape, or you're .. 'screwed'.. eh..

AlCap0wn · 09-16-2003, 02:00 PM

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Originally posted by meff
If you guys ever break up make sure you're the one with the tape, or you're .. 'screwed'.. eh..

That second copy is for backup in case the first one gets wrecked.

...

Yes, that's it.

Kyo · 09-16-2003, 02:54 PM

Why would you ever want to create a weakness for yourself? If you're doing something you don't want others to see, creating hard recordings of it is not an exceptionally good idea.

Robblee · 09-17-2003, 02:17 PM

just make sure if you ever (god for bid) break up you get the tapes!!

vveronica · 09-17-2003, 02:45 PM

It is great to do it for the camera... specially when it is so very intense. a tripod will work but it is best to have a friend do the camera work that way it can get the intensity.. It is the pits to have it all set up and have the camera off just enough to miss the good parts. Plus you dont have to worry about posing or making sure your in the right spot.... And after you do it a couple time it is wild to role play or include a bit of bound sex

raeanna74 · 09-17-2003, 03:47 PM

Hubby and I have tried it a number of times. First time he refused to even let me see it (8mm) once he caught a glimpse of himself. Yes the camera can be cruel. Once we just looked past the insecurities about our bodies personally we had fun. Trying to find more things to do on cam that were sexy or entertaining. We have cammed for other couples before even. It's been fun. watched them cam for us and shared comments and such. We haven't done to much of it lately - partly because the little one doesn't go to bed early enough and we've been so busy and tired we're not interested in setting the equipment up before we can play. If you can just forget it's there (while staying within the area that the camera is focused on) then you can really have some fun. We have saved only one tape I believe so far. Mostly gone to taking still pics since we have more control of how we look and what image we show. Since we're married I don't think there's any concern about them getting out. Personally I don't care if family or friends see the videos. Not that I'm going to show them. Also there's no one way they could use them against me since we have been married - I mean it's obvious what we do. lol

09-14-2003, 07:22 PM	#1 (permalink)
AlCap0wn Crazy	"Girls On Film" ... Well, that was a new one. My SO just mentioned, for seemingly no particular reason, the concept of filming myself and her during various activites. My perspective, hers, a tripod off to the side ... She discovered my digital camera over the summer, and took a few surprise pics when I was walking out of the shower once, but nothing really with that as the focus. It's just that she's never mentioned filming before, and I never thought to because she didn't seem like she'd be interested. But ... well ... damn. To the question below: We've been engaged for two years, dated for a year before that. Anyone else have a girl who's into this? Suggestions? Advice? Tips? Anything? And no, you can't have any copies. Last edited by AlCap0wn; 09-15-2003 at 01:10 PM..

09-14-2003, 07:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
Johnny Rotten lost and found Location: Berkeley	Don't return any of those to the video store by accident. And don't leave them in the VCR or DVD player (or digital camera) when you're done. Have one place where you always keep the, uh, personal recordings. __________________ "The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them." -- Michael Caine

09-15-2003, 07:38 AM	#4 (permalink)
sigma1042 Crazy	even though i love amateur porn and would like taping myself and the gf, i won't do it if there is anyone out there that you wouldn't want to see it, don't do it it will come back at you later used against you by the SO or somebody (friends, parents, kids)finds it but if you do it, i'll take a copy :-D __________________ [Arthur] HA HA HA HA, It's a little joke![/Arthur]

09-15-2003, 08:07 PM	#10 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	If you guys ever break up make sure you're the one with the tape, or you're .. 'screwed'.. eh.. __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

09-17-2003, 02:45 PM	#14 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	It is great to do it for the camera... specially when it is so very intense. a tripod will work but it is best to have a friend do the camera work that way it can get the intensity.. It is the pits to have it all set up and have the camera off just enough to miss the good parts. Plus you dont have to worry about posing or making sure your in the right spot.... And after you do it a couple time it is wild to role play or include a bit of bound sex __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

09-15-2003, 12:27 PM	#6 (permalink)
baaa Banned Location: ville	Try not to talk much, from my experience turns out my "sexy voice" sounds kinda goofy.

09-16-2003, 02:54 PM	#12 (permalink)
Kyo Crazy	Why would you ever want to create a weakness for yourself? If you're doing something you don't want others to see, creating hard recordings of it is not an exceptionally good idea.

09-17-2003, 02:17 PM	#13 (permalink)
Robblee Tilted Location: Nova Scotia	just make sure if you ever (god for bid) break up you get the tapes!!

09-17-2003, 03:47 PM	#15 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Hubby and I have tried it a number of times. First time he refused to even let me see it (8mm) once he caught a glimpse of himself. Yes the camera can be cruel. Once we just looked past the insecurities about our bodies personally we had fun. Trying to find more things to do on cam that were sexy or entertaining. We have cammed for other couples before even. It's been fun. watched them cam for us and shared comments and such. We haven't done to much of it lately - partly because the little one doesn't go to bed early enough and we've been so busy and tired we're not interested in setting the equipment up before we can play. If you can just forget it's there (while staying within the area that the camera is focused on) then you can really have some fun. We have saved only one tape I believe so far. Mostly gone to taking still pics since we have more control of how we look and what image we show. Since we're married I don't think there's any concern about them getting out. Personally I don't care if family or friends see the videos. Not that I'm going to show them. Also there's no one way they could use them against me since we have been married - I mean it's obvious what we do. lol __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.