How to train yourself to go on for hours?
 

No matter how hard I try to not think about blowing my load during sex. What are some tips to maintain it so I can go on for hours?

I have the same problem..Only, If I am on top..I don't know why..But if I am on top it will only take me like 5 minutes...But having the girl on top..I can go for awhile...It's like it's some kind of gravitational thing or something.

That's my way of going for awhile...Then once the girl has orgasmed, We just change positions and in a few minutes were done.

I don't really know of any tips...Maybe try different positions and see if you can last longer or something.

Going on for hours isn't always a good thing. Just so you know.

practice makes perfect...maybe...??

imo, i´m not sure that ´lasting for hours´ is the most important thing... so long as you´re able to control yourself, and be able to pleasure the other party before yourself... thats what counts.

"going for hours"? What girl would want that?

If you want to last longer, then;

1. jerk off a couple hours before sex;
2. wear a condom for desensitizing (if you aren't already);
3. thrust back and forth slower than what you normally like
4. put it all the way in and just sort of pound her hard without actually moving the p3nis in and out more than just a little. this will give her a lot of stimulation and you not much - hard to describe though
5. If you feel like you are getting close too soon then just pull out and eat her out for a while or have fun with fingers or toys, etc. then start up again after the heights have passed...

One thing that sometimes works is to have your partner dig her nails into your back really hard or bite on your finger... the pain distracts you. Of course if you get off on pain, this won't work for you :)

I can't won't and see no benefits in it. I need food, massages, showers, stretching, a walk, drinks, change of mode music too. Intermissions are important, after awhile the sensitivety levels get numb, and loose the oomph.
Give me breaks, and I can go for days, not that I have the time to do so, but could. Plus I'm an old fart!!, I need my rest as well.

Beer always works for me!

Look up kegels and tantric sex, I've just started the kegels but have used the breathing method from tantric sex before, the longest I've gone is just over an hour.. hehe.. dems was the days! :D

the first five - 10 minutes i always find the hardest...so i try to get familiar with the surroundings...the look and feel of the woman, then I proceed with a more fast - paced pumping technique.

If everyone is trying for that, nobody will get off :lol:

Whatever, speak for yourself :p

Grinding is a fairly good way to get her off without actually giving yourself too much stimulation, if you have trouble doing this, get her to rub herself or something.

i thoght this is waht foreplay is for?

Kegels and foreplay.

Kegels strengthen the muscles that are involved with orgasm. "Exercising this muscle regularly will prolong the duration of lovemaking and make your climax much more intense." Blow your load early in foreplay, then work back up to an erection. You'll last longer the second round.

Kegel info: http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html

"4. put it all the way in and just sort of pound her hard without actually moving the p3nis in and out more than just a little. this will give her a lot of stimulation and you not much - hard to describe though"

i think this is definitely a good strategy, i was doing it, and i asked her if she felt anything and she said it felt really good, meanwhile i barely felt anything

personally i find that if you arnt having alot of constant sex then you are not as long as you can be..i dunno exactly if this works with all but if i havent had sex in a while its over fast, but after having sex alot ..consistantly i find that usually she is done before me, so maybe you just need to wait a bit get used to her and feel comfortable around her?

lol aint that the truth!! *likes pain* ;)

anyone know how to really control then?

hahaha yes alcohol is the way to go. Just don't drink so much that it's almost impossible to get it up.

its cause you're moving your hips, it will add a mental aspect
experiment on yourself, whack it while sitting one day, the next do it standing while moving hips, see what takes longer, i bet the standing one