anal or no anal?
 

there's this girl who wants me to do her up the pooper. i'm nervous, should i try it?

Unless you just have a complete problem with it, I would. Just be sure to use a condom and lots of lubricant. If she has never done it before, it is going to be a slow process to get her stretched out and relaxed enough. Don't rush it. On the other hand, if she is experienced at it, she should be able to tell you how to proceed. Anal has never really been my thing, but I know quite a few people that really enjoy it.

It helps if you don't call it "the pooper".

I have no interest in doing up that hole. It just doesn't intice me. Oh well, its good to watch though!

try it out before you decide, you might like it.

(default answer to the biweekly anal thread :)

anal never appealed to me, so i have never tried. if you are curious about it, go for it.

Anal feels good. It's nice and tight. It's definetly a differnet feel, don't knock it till you try it.

Go WAAAAYYYYYY slow. That is about the only advice I can give... It feels good. A completely diff orgasm than what I'm used to.

give it a try, what do you have to lose?

Anal takes LOTS of preparation. She should make sure that she is VACATED beforehand, and you should ALWAYS go in with a condom. There is a lot of bacteria back there.

Get her in the mood. LOTS of foreplay. She needs to be relaxed. Prepare her with a finger or two, and always GO SLOW. It doesn't really matter how BIG you are, just that you are SLOW and PREPARED. Of course, you need to use lube - astroglide, k-y, whatever.

Don't pull out quicky or she will kick your ass after the pain wears off. EXTRA SLOW!

And... uhh... do not go from back door to front door EVER. That's a great way to give her a yeast infection.

It might feel good but I tend to care about my partner, you know. It can cause a shit load of problems if you screw up. You can rip, tear, etc her...I'm fine with sticking a finger up there every once and a blue moon to change it around, but I would never stick my penis in there.

Slow and low, that is the tempo. Sorry, the Beastie Boys were on as I read this.

Is she asking to do it to you? You had better find out!

It's all gravy baby.
Use lube.
Go slow.
Have a towell handy (in case of poopy dick)
My girlfriend really likes it, I like it just for the mental aspect of doing somethig dirty.

i dont know if i'd wanna try it.....seems like too much trouble.

although it's fun watchin Rocco doing it :D

Hail to KING ROCCO.
I don't think I will ever get to give any ass play :(
And I just want to use my fingers....and yes my tongue.

Rectum?


Damn near killed 'im.

I am a big fan of anal.

Has only happened a few times.

The last girl I had anal sex with, when we first started dating her, said she would never had anal sex. I didn't press the issue, but one night she was like let's do it! I kinda hesitated a little at first, and then we eased our way into it.

I won't say that it was the best sex that I ever had. It was a different experience then I was used to. It was unbelievable. Afterwards, she said that she would never do it again. I didn't hurt her, because we were very careful, she just didn't enjoy it. I guess certain girls just aren't into it.

Either way, if you have a girl asking you to do it, I would try it, and see if you like it. You may find something that you really enjoy, or you may find that you don't like it at all, but there is only one way to find out.

:lol:

But I agree... it does feel good... but go slow. If you're not into it... then thats fine too. Listen to all the advise here and be 100% sure you wanna do it.

I love anal too. Its such a different feeling. Like everyone says, take it slow and easy, use plenty of lube and listen to what she says.
My girlfriend had her first orgasm with her on top from anal :)

yup just go for it..its the only whey your gonna know if ya like it or not

Go for it!

Go for it! My wife loves it.

And like everyone else has said, you can not use too much lube...

do it. be smart about it, there's shitloads of advise in this thread and this forum...make sure *she* has educated herself...

and most importantly - respect her 'pooper'. :p

(that kinda encompasses all other advise ie lube, patience, etc)

good luck and keep us updated :)

Just ram it in good and hard... blood is usually an indication that something's not right.

..nah but seriously, go for it. See what it's like. Lots of good hints and tips in this thread.

A condom, lots of lube, and a bit of patience is all you need. Go for it!

Ten Rules of Anal Sex

Anal Sex Books and Anal Toys

Just a note. More probably this would result in Bacterial Vaginosis which she may have to take a presription antibiotic for. There is bacteria but not so often fungus in the intenstinal trac. BV can creep deeper and is known for being a main contributor of certain cancers. You could as well get this kind of infection and even be a carrier for BV for other women.

Good suggestions Halx

a must
 

It's a must to try it at least once, then if you don't like, so be it.

three words: barium enema kit
there is nothing less sexy than pulling out to cum on her ass and pulling out a brown stick. But that is just me

It does feel different than a vagina. Whereas a pussy is snug from top to bottom, the ass is only tight at the entrance. Inside it balloons out. Definately a different sensation.

Better to try something a few times and decide you don't like it, than not to and spend the rest of your life regretting not taking the chance.

I agree with this, just don't gamble with protection. Use a condom and go for it.

I agree. Just remember not to chance it with protection! Use a condom.

"What is the most risky kind of sex?
Unprotected anal and vaginal sex with an infected person carry a high risk for disease transmission. Anal sex is especially risky because it can result in tiny tears or cuts in the rectum. Viruses can enter the body more easily through these breaks in the skin than through intact healthy skin. Unprotected oral sex carries a lower risk, but is not risk-free. The use of drugs or alcohol can increase the risk for getting an STI or HIV/AIDS because people under their influence may be less careful about practicing safer sex."

Yeah, that's number one.

2: PLENTY of lube. If anything feels dry, use some more. Make sure you use K-Y or something that SPECIFICALLY STATES ON THE PACKAGING that it's safe for use with condoms. This is important because the wrong kind will cause the latex to actually erode and cancel it's effectiveness.

3: One finger is your friend. Use it for a while. A WHILE. After a while or one finger, try adding a second along with it. Do this FOR A WHILE. You're basically giving the anus sufficiently slow stretching so that when you add a penis, it's A.) more supple (stretchy) and B.) already stretched out a bit.

If she winces, you're probably OK. If she makes noises, you MIGHT be OK. If she says wait, she's still too tight.

<b>Take your time with it, or you'll never do it again for a loooooooong time.</b>

Personal experience.

Oh, and make sure if you plan on cumming inside her ass (if you're not wearing a condom) you ASK first. Nothing says turn-off like an ass-full of unwanted cum. Perhaps you can save that for the second time around, after the initial shock of the act itself has gone away?

(black guy) beat it up boi

Yes, it's such a big turn off that you'd better be prepared to be dumped soon after. Shitting out the stuff is NOT okay.

I experienced anal sex for the first time earlier this year, and I have to say I was REALLY hesitant about trying it, and we used lots and lots and lots and lots and lots (I'm sure you get the idea) of lube and I just wanted to say, for any girls who aren't sure about it, it IS something worth trying, the sensation is incredible!!!!! Anyways that's all I'm saying for now, and I'll echo everyone else who said TAKE IT SLOW and use LOTS (and lots and lots) OF LUBE.