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vatoloco · 08-07-2003, 02:46 PM

Im a 23y/o male and have always been bi-curious so earlier today I went over this guys house whom i met online and had my first ever experience. We did it all after we finished I can honestly say it wasn't my thing I didn't like it im just gonna stick to women. Im glad I had this experience cause I proved myself wrong I always thought that being with a guy would be better but I was wrong. Wanna hear all of your comments.

Zargix · 08-07-2003, 02:55 PM

hmmm. i don't know if just basing it all on one experience with a guy you "met on the internet" is a good idea...

cheerios · 08-07-2003, 03:09 PM

experience is a good thing. props for sharing with us.

lurkette · 08-07-2003, 03:24 PM

Good for you. Now you know. That took some courage.

erion · 08-07-2003, 04:42 PM

Acting on something you want to know about takes some gumption. There are lots of things that I could have done but didn't that I think about now.

He, now you know. . .Lots of people can't say that because they never took the chance.

rodgerd · 08-08-2003, 01:46 AM

Kudos for your courage. It's a lot harder to try as a man; women have more social acceptance (these days) of wanting to try sex with another women.

Too bad you didn't enjoy!

Champvinyl · 08-08-2003, 02:45 AM

takes alot of balls to bring this up on a public board, thanks for sharing

Menoman · 08-08-2003, 03:03 AM

Thats what I thought about my first gay experience with a male, the second one sucked also. Third times a charm and I was very happy with the third guy I was with, we knew what we were doing and had hella fun

I'm also a Bi

cheerios · 08-08-2003, 03:17 AM

Menoman: what changed? was it just an experience thing? i mean, I know losign my virginity sucked, I mean, it fucking HURT and i was mighty sore afterwards, but time and experience, not a new partner, were the solutions to THAT problem. if I'm being nosey, feel free to ignore me

isandro · 08-08-2003, 08:03 AM

I've had lousy sex with women, but that never turned me off being straight..
Were you really attracted to this guy or was it more like someone who happened to be at the right place at the right time?
Curious what your feelings are/were for this guy. Please, elaborate

The way it sounds, I'd be inclined to suggest going about it in the same way as you deal with women- act on attraction.

I'm bicurious myself, but i've never met a man that really attracts me. Body hair, eww...

iceman2032 · 08-08-2003, 09:47 AM

Wow....I'm amazed to see all these people admiting to their experiences. Cool though

Charlatan · 08-08-2003, 09:57 AM

I was/am bicurious and had a fling with a guy I worked with (this was years ago) and I found I just didn't like it. I just didn't like the beard stubble when kissing... It wasn't something I had even considered previously.

Since then I've never really experimented again. I am very happy with women.

Props for sharing your experience though...

vatoloco · 08-08-2003, 06:45 PM

I thought I would get alot of negative replies guess not well about this guy i met him online and we had been talking for a while and finally decide to go over. It was nothing romantic so there was no kissing thats not what I was looking for I just wanted the sex thats all. Im 23 and the guy was 44 and what was so funny that he didn't last that long so felt really embarrased. But still that was enough for me to convince myself that there is nothing like being with a beautiful "Woman" If you people have any question feel free to ask.

skysooner · 08-08-2003, 07:06 PM

I'm all for sexual experimentation. Whatever floats your boat and makes you happy as long as it does not hurt others (unless they want to be

) is good. I'm glad you tried it out and found out what you liked.

-Ever- · 08-08-2003, 07:47 PM

Very interesting. I have curious feelings all the time, but I think that they are from:
1- I'm extremely horny in general
2- I'm generally open to most everything so I've considered what else I could be doing with my....time....

interesting story though

08-07-2003, 02:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
vatoloco Upright Location: OC, CA	Bi-Curious Im a 23y/o male and have always been bi-curious so earlier today I went over this guys house whom i met online and had my first ever experience. We did it all after we finished I can honestly say it wasn't my thing I didn't like it im just gonna stick to women. Im glad I had this experience cause I proved myself wrong I always thought that being with a guy would be better but I was wrong. Wanna hear all of your comments.

08-07-2003, 03:24 PM	#4 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	Good for you. Now you know. That took some courage. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

08-08-2003, 08:03 AM	#10 (permalink)
isandro Crazy Location: Groningen, Netherlands	I've had lousy sex with women, but that never turned me off being straight.. Were you really attracted to this guy or was it more like someone who happened to be at the right place at the right time? Curious what your feelings are/were for this guy. Please, elaborate The way it sounds, I'd be inclined to suggest going about it in the same way as you deal with women- act on attraction. I'm bicurious myself, but i've never met a man that really attracts me. Body hair, eww... __________________ -Life, liberty and the pursuit of hamburgers.

08-08-2003, 09:57 AM	#12 (permalink)
Charlatan Getting it. Super Moderator Location: Lion City	I was/am bicurious and had a fling with a guy I worked with (this was years ago) and I found I just didn't like it. I just didn't like the beard stubble when kissing... It wasn't something I had even considered previously. Since then I've never really experimented again. I am very happy with women. Props for sharing your experience though... __________________ "My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars." - Old Man Luedecke

08-08-2003, 07:47 PM	#15 (permalink)
-Ever- Junkie Location: San Francisco	Very interesting. I have curious feelings all the time, but I think that they are from: 1- I'm extremely horny in general 2- I'm generally open to most everything so I've considered what else I could be doing with my....time.... interesting story though __________________ Embracing the goddess energy within yourselves will bring all of you to a new understanding and valuing of life. A vision that inspires you to live and love on planet Earth. Like a priceless jewel buried in dark layers of soil and stone, Earth radiates her brilliant beauty into the caverns of space and time. Perhaps you are aware of those who watch over your home And experience of this place to visit and play with reality. You are becoming aware of yourself as a gamemaster... --Acknowledge your weaknesses--

08-07-2003, 02:55 PM	#2 (permalink)
Zargix Crazy Location: Everywhere, Simultaniously	hmmm. i don't know if just basing it all on one experience with a guy you "met on the internet" is a good idea...

08-07-2003, 03:09 PM	#3 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	experience is a good thing. props for sharing with us.

08-07-2003, 04:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
erion Psycho	Acting on something you want to know about takes some gumption. There are lots of things that I could have done but didn't that I think about now. He, now you know. . .Lots of people can't say that because they never took the chance.

08-08-2003, 01:46 AM	#6 (permalink)
rodgerd Psycho Location: Wellington, New Zealand	Kudos for your courage. It's a lot harder to try as a man; women have more social acceptance (these days) of wanting to try sex with another women. Too bad you didn't enjoy!

08-08-2003, 02:45 AM	#7 (permalink)
Champvinyl Upright	takes alot of balls to bring this up on a public board, thanks for sharing

08-08-2003, 03:17 AM	#9 (permalink)
cheerios Banned Location: 'bout 2 feet from my iMac	Menoman: what changed? was it just an experience thing? i mean, I know losign my virginity sucked, I mean, it fucking HURT and i was mighty sore afterwards, but time and experience, not a new partner, were the solutions to THAT problem. if I'm being nosey, feel free to ignore me

08-08-2003, 09:47 AM	#11 (permalink)
iceman2032 Crazy	Wow....I'm amazed to see all these people admiting to their experiences. Cool though

08-08-2003, 06:45 PM	#13 (permalink)
vatoloco Upright Location: OC, CA	I thought I would get alot of negative replies guess not well about this guy i met him online and we had been talking for a while and finally decide to go over. It was nothing romantic so there was no kissing thats not what I was looking for I just wanted the sex thats all. Im 23 and the guy was 44 and what was so funny that he didn't last that long so felt really embarrased. But still that was enough for me to convince myself that there is nothing like being with a beautiful "Woman" If you people have any question feel free to ask.

08-08-2003, 07:06 PM	#14 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	I'm all for sexual experimentation. Whatever floats your boat and makes you happy as long as it does not hurt others (unless they want to be ) is good. I'm glad you tried it out and found out what you liked.