jheins2

Hi,

My new girlfriend is a pretty small girl - around 5'1" or so. We haven't had sex yet, but I was wondering if the size of my penis would pose a problem since she is such a small girl(i really have no idea if it would or not). I'm not saying I'm extremely large, but she is very small(in stature), so I don't know. I was just wondering other peoples opinions.


Thanks a bunch.

Leviathan[NCV]

Chances are you'll be just fine, given patience that is. As with everything start out slow...

drawerfixer

Go VERY slow. Use lube. When you think you've gone too slow, go slower. Talk to her, pay attention to her reactions, and ask for advice. Listen to everything she has to say.

Her body was designed to push a baby out. Your penis will be fine, as long as you don't force it.

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annie1

go slow... but remember thats where babies come out of so theres plenty of room...

angela146

If she's ever done it before, she probably knows her own limits. If she's a virgin, then you *really* need to take it slow.

Ask her...

clockworkgreen

I've heard short girls have gigantic vaginas....So you should be a-ok.

nickt

I have come across this situation in the past, but I wouldn't say it applies across the board. I have also come across some VERY small women with VERY small vaginas.

Suss it out first. Go down on her or survey the area with the your fingers...you can never just go rampaging in to these situations.. you dont know what lies beneath!

kilty

Vaginas are like rubber bands they expand and shrink to whatever is in there. My experience is the height means nothing, I had a girlfirend that is 6'2 and I thought I was going to rip her everytime. I had as small as 4'11 and she stuck a dildo in with me inside her already.

Just start slow and she will adjust

onetime2

I don't think it's the width that's the concern. Length can be a problem. Be careful not to go too deep. Follow others' advice about going slow.

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johnnymysto

3 things to remember:

1. Lube

2. Lube

3. LUBE!!

My wife and I had problems at first, cuz we were both virgins, but proper amounts of lube fixed everything.

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vveronica

I'm 4'11" and it depend completely on each person, I have had sex with rather large guys and i can take and average size and if going slowly a big one.
everyone is different. And remeber all us girls cant measure right I never thought 7 inches was so small.... heheheheheheheheh

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If you feel ribs cracking... STOP PUSHING.

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WINGMAN

IM MARRIED AND HAVE BABES ON THE SIDE. MARRIGE IS AFTER ALL A GLORYFIED GOING STUDY. THE GIRLS ALL TELL ME ITS NOT THE SIZE...........ITS THE MOTION OF THE OCEAN..........

Jonsgirl

Dude, wtf is GOING STUDY? This is like the second or third post that you've said the EXACT SAME THING. It's going steady. As in a steady, stable relationship. As in the completely still motion of your ocean.

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baboora

slowly but surely...never force it

rogue49

Height tends to be irrelevant.
Each woman is different.
And you won't know until you are in the middle of it.

I dated a 5.0 lady for years, and she could take me fine.
And I'm of a decent size.

You just take slow at first, and see how she responds,
communicate with her too.

Then again, she might just ravage you too.

Subform

Give her a round of gaffa tape around her stomach so she wont burst, and go for it

Nay, you should be fine. But in cases like this foreplay is i m p o r t a n t. Talk to her about it. Whats the problem ? I don't believe a guy has ANYTHING against appearing as real big from time to time. It gives a boost of confidence

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mute76

Size doesn't matter.

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Mephisto2

Her body is designed to give birth.

I doubt your dick is bigger than a baby's head, or longer than a baby's body.

Don't kid yourself.

Almost any size can hurt if used badly.

Just don't be "pushy". Then again, if you need to be told that, you probably won't have a GF for long.

Mr Mephisto

dabossy2k

Man I feel you I had a asian girlfriend once she was like 5'1" or something and I am 6'2" and pretty well endowed but. She has been the only girl that really took it with no problems at first. So really can't say that the small ones are the ones your gonna have issues with.

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Electroncivic

No.

ace81385

LOL lube lube lube thats so funny idk why but it is....

ghostF98

Freaking classic post. First sentence says it all. Don't worry about it man. If it hurts her, ease it in and if that still doesn't work, stick it in the pooper.

jadedgrin

funny i have thought about this myself, im just going to go slow and pay attension to her reaction, if she shouts for more, then...

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hobo

A lot of the girls that I find very attractive are shorter than me and the topic of this thread was something I had thought about. Thanks for your answers people, it sure helped to answer a lot of questions. The only other thing I am wondering is how you keep your faces close if one person is too much taller than the other.

Drider_it

well dont do the "brace yourself" option.. just go slow.. if you've been around each other for a while and do heavy petting and such you should know her size.. if not.. .. hell man just bring up the topic to her.. be honest.. they like that..

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Achernar

Foreplay, man.

Get her slicked up and ready, then tease her - do some surveying with hands/mouth, etc.

Just prepare her and talk to her and then, well - give it to her!

aedenji

Thats funny

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baudot

My most recent harem addition is 5'11". Before her was a 5'4" one. I almost never bottomed out in the 5'4" girl, and I do now in the 5'11" one. It's not a lot of data, but I'm not seeing a correlation between height and vaginal depth.

In neither case did either make any indication that it hurt, either. Quite the opposite, as one would hope. I am more gentle with the shallower girl, just in case.

EvilMuffin

Women can fit up to her elbow inside her.

I'm 5'4", and I was born with a very small uterus, so I can't take more than 6.5"... I've never gone higher, as I have only been with one man, but even 6.5" was painful at the beginning each time.

Not all women are like this.

Size does not matter... as long as your 5"+.

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