Stiltzkin

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hobo

Well people usually like different things but charisma is something that makes you stand out. That results in women thinking about you for that much longer, and increasing your odds of being chosen.

Good links but too much for me to read at the moment.

nulltype

So you're saying that it requires the power to perform miracles?

rogue49

If I'm in a good mood, I've got it.
If I'm in a bad mood, forget about it.

When I'm on, I can sell ice to Eskimoes

People feed off the energy of you.
This is the key.

Leviathan[NCV]

Such is true.

Stiltzkin

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rainheart

*whips out penis*
ITS A MIRACLE!!

Heh.
Hehe.

Had to.

hobo

After spending some time with my friends, I realised that it is a good feeling to be around happy and energetic people. I guess that is why women are drawn to men with those qualities.

macmanmike6100

But, hobo, not too happy nor too energetic. Women will avoid those men who are overly enthusiastic, since it will seem as if that man is hiding something.

Charisma and confidence. Those are necessities. Be careful, though, as confidence-gone-arrogance is distasteful and not attractive.

The.Lunatic

I live in alaska, and i've sold ice to eskimos they needed it to cool the fish heads they scavenge from fishermen.

So beat that.

But seriously you can get women with charisma this is very true, but if you don't have charisma there are other ways, however not as good at getting a woman are much better at keeping one.

Try honesty, or at least what sounds honest. Try being friendly, but not to friendly. And do the flurting too. If you have fun together she'll be willing to give it a shot,

tfin

HA, from my life expreiences. To get a chick, BE A COMPLETE FUCKING ASS! If you are nice you just get screwed some how later.

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air45

lucky for me, i have buckets of charisma in my genes pool. my father was and is a lady man and he passed on his charming way to his son who is me.

i have a magnet for ladies from my personality.

BenChuy

well, to get one of the most wonderful people i have ever met, i was just myself, listening, good conversationalist who was genuinely interested in what she had to say. I was also not willing to force myself into IDIOTIC MALE STEREOTYPES which is what apparently spawned this thread. Be a freaking nice guy who treats her like she is treasured and who expects to be treasured back. That is how a GREAT relationship works.

ratbastid

I dunno. "Charisma" strikes me as one of those non-answers that people sit around and nod their heads about....

What does it take to attract people? What's the secret? Well, you've got to have that quality defined as: the power to attract people! Woah! Aren't we enlightened now?

Stiltzkin

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macmanmike6100

No, it's a battle between <a href="http://www.jalt.org/global/32Seuss.htm">Star Belly Sneetches and Plain Belly Sneetches</a>...

lyxo

it's not necesarilly charm or confidence.

Usually it comes when least expected, when you're in a really good mood and not thinking about it at all, that is when you are yourself the most. Then, the person that is genuinely attracted to you will speak up.

angela146

IMHO: Charisma is partly a matter of having power and being able to control it.

jadedgrin

among my close friends i have seen men get women for lots of different reasons, for some being a jerk, or an asshole works, but thats just beacuse of the type of women they are inclined to anway. i have another friend which is super- nice guy 90% of the time, and he never complains about women problems. personally im not into being one thing or another in that sense, just eh... to much effort for what, just a lie anyway, better off just being yourself and having fun or else whats the point in the chase

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Achernar

Only way I've ever been able to get women is to not try very hard and just let me be myself.

Works like a charm.

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