Camming with other girls then your GF - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Subform · 07-28-2003, 01:35 AM

How many of you dudes feel like you are cheating on your GF when camming abit dirrty with other girls then your GF.
Is it ok? .. Or is it breaking the band you make when making a commitment?

Would like to see some answers here

Taliesin · 07-28-2003, 01:41 AM

What the fuck is camming?

-Anders · 07-28-2003, 01:58 AM

That would be chatting/Doing 'other stuff' with a webcam.

Taliesin · 07-28-2003, 02:01 AM

Oh.

Yes, cheating.

macmanmike6100 · 07-28-2003, 02:07 AM

It's cheating, unless your SO is cool with it. Sorry.

phredgreen · 07-28-2003, 02:13 AM

i think we're seeing this again... anything you'd do behind your s.o.'s back and wouldn't tell them about constitutes as cheating. c'mon... did you really need to ask this?

-Anders · 07-28-2003, 02:50 AM

I wholeheartedly agree with each of the above statements. Drop it dude.

Wombat · 07-28-2003, 04:42 AM

I don't think it is per se. Of course that doesn't mean you wouldn't get your ass kicked/dumped if she finds out.

Kadath · 07-28-2003, 04:52 AM

Glad to be number 8 in the unanimous agreement.

SiN · 07-28-2003, 05:04 AM

number 9ine.

and ditto what phred said.

07-28-2003, 06:54 AM

Thanks phred.. my thoughts exactly. This cheating issue is turning into the penis-size threads.

Mael · 07-28-2003, 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by phredgreen
i think we're seeing this again... anything you'd do behind your s.o.'s back and wouldn't tell them about constitutes as cheating. c'mon... did you really need to ask this?

isn't that a bit vague? i mean, i could rob a store without telling my GF and that doesn't make me a cheater. it just makes me a theivin' bastard.

Nisses · 07-28-2003, 10:09 AM

Mael, that's not exactly the issue here. The question is not about breaking the law, that's pretty obvious.

And I'm gonna go with the general consensus here. Actually, if you're seriously doubting whether it's cheating or not, chances are you already know it is, you're just looking for arguments to validate your behaviour and looking for ways to continue without feeling guilty

Slims · 07-28-2003, 10:15 AM

I don't think you can do anything with another girl (or guy) online that you wouldn't be allowed to do if you were with them in the same room (I.e. no stripping, watching each other masturbate, etc.).

tracer-bullet · 07-28-2003, 10:21 AM

It would be like the two of you standing in a room with a glass window between you, and then doing whatever it is you're doing right in front of each other. The distance between you is irrelevant. The glass would be just as much as a barrier as a 1000 miles and the act would be just as wrong.

How would your SO feel if you were watching some other woman getting herself off to the sight of you, in the same room? Don't do it. its disrespectful, plain and simple.

air45 · 07-28-2003, 12:34 PM

do not masturbate your stiff member on the camera! this happened to me with a sexy girl and she saved the jpeg pictures for her friends to see!

now my stiff member is famous with her friends, but not for sexy. for laughing! it is not funny to me!

jackassidy · 07-28-2003, 12:42 PM

when I read the header for this post, I imagined it being asked by a british guy (try it yourself ). dont know why, but I had no idea what you were talking about. chalk it up to me being a retard.

Mael · 07-28-2003, 01:41 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Nisses
Mael, that's not exactly the issue here. The question is not about breaking the law, that's pretty obvious.

i realize that, it was just the first example i came up with. i agree that "camming" with someone other than your SO would be a violation of trust (although i don't know if i would go as far as calling it cheating), but to say that "anything you do that you wouldn't want to tell your girl about is cheating" is overly vague and doesn't take into account other factors.

cheating = wrong
lying to girlfriend = wrong
lying != cheating. (it can, but that's if your cheating and lying about cheating).

how about this... you like to have a monthly poker game with friends from work. your SO is completely against any type of gambling, SO thinks its immoral or something. when you play, does telling her you're having a guys night out constitute cheating? even if you directly say "i'm not gambling?" no, it doesn't. it may be lying, or omitting facts, but you're not cheating.

sub zero · 07-28-2003, 03:01 PM

Voted: Yes, its cheating, Dude, you are an asshole.

Reikes · 07-28-2003, 03:13 PM

I am going to go with cheating UNLESS your girlfriend knows.

wiseguy1100 · 07-28-2003, 03:18 PM

i am going to go with cheating as well since you are partaking in a sexually related activity with someone other than your SO

Subform · 07-28-2003, 10:40 PM

air45:
That really doesn't bother me

..
I always to the same thing for backup ..
I have loads of screenshots. Of all the girls ..

rodgerd · 07-28-2003, 11:55 PM

Unless your girl is OK with it, it's cheating.

If you haven't asked 'cause you think she'd say no, it's cheating.

Subform · 07-29-2003, 01:39 AM

I know its wrong

.. No question ..
But when sitting there its like the smaller head takes over, and i feel desire for watching something i can control ..

But thanks all, this is actually just what i needed to stop it ..
I've been thinking about it for some time ..

Thanks all, this cam fun has come to an end

slimshaydee · 07-29-2003, 02:15 AM

Ive got my supply of cam chicks if ever i wanna have some fun, luckily for me I dont have a gf right now, but if I had one I wouldnt do any of the stuff I do on cam right now

motdakasha · 07-29-2003, 02:36 AM

This is another one of those threads that's done over and over again.

Question: "Is _(Fill in the blank)_ considered cheating?"
Answer: Ask your significant other. We can't correctly answer for him/her.

HaloLauren · 07-29-2003, 06:06 AM

It's definately cheating if you're communicating with her. It's not as bad if she's on a website and you're just watching.

jbrooks544 · 07-29-2003, 06:49 AM

I think if you are just watching the cam, just like you would passively look at a photo on the internet or a movie, then it is just wacking off to porn on the internet. Whether that is cheating is really up to you S.O. Some women would consider that cheating, any that I have been with wouldn't - or I wouldn't have been with them.

If you are beaming her a cam of yourself and you are communicating back to her and interacting then that seems much more akin to "cheating". It would be safe to assume that that would be cheating unless your S.O. says it isn't. Anything that your S.O. knows about and approves isn't cheating - unless she says it is. With some couples, having sex with another person isn't cheating but it is known beforehand.

View Poll Results: Is camming dirrty with other girls then your GF cheating ??
Yes, its cheating, Dude, you are an asshole.	40	72.73%
Not sure about it, but wouldn't do it myself	3	5.45%
The thought crossed my mind. So you are not all bad.	5	9.09%
Not really, No. What you are doing is Okay.	7	12.73%
Voters: 55. You may not vote on this poll

07-28-2003, 01:35 AM	#1 (permalink)
Subform Crazy Location: Vordingborg, Denmark	Camming with other girls then your GF How many of you dudes feel like you are cheating on your GF when camming abit dirrty with other girls then your GF. Is it ok? .. Or is it breaking the band you make when making a commitment? Would like to see some answers here __________________ -+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+ Subform - Allover the place

07-28-2003, 01:58 AM	#3 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	That would be chatting/Doing 'other stuff' with a webcam. __________________ Signature 101

07-28-2003, 02:13 AM	#6 (permalink)
phredgreen who? Location: the phoenix metro	i think we're seeing this again... anything you'd do behind your s.o.'s back and wouldn't tell them about constitutes as cheating. c'mon... did you really need to ask this? __________________ My country is the world, and my religion is to do good. - Thomas Paine

07-28-2003, 02:50 AM	#7 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	I wholeheartedly agree with each of the above statements. Drop it dude. __________________ Signature 101

07-28-2003, 01:41 AM	#2 (permalink)
Taliesin Crazy Location: Oxford, UK	What the fuck is camming?

07-28-2003, 02:01 AM	#4 (permalink)
Taliesin Crazy Location: Oxford, UK	Oh. Yes, cheating.

07-28-2003, 02:07 AM	#5 (permalink)
macmanmike6100 High Honorary Junkie Location: Tri-state.	It's cheating, unless your SO is cool with it. Sorry.

07-28-2003, 04:42 AM	#8 (permalink)
Wombat Crazy	I don't think it is per se. Of course that doesn't mean you wouldn't get your ass kicked/dumped if she finds out.

07-28-2003, 04:52 AM	#9 (permalink)
Kadath Muffled Location: Camazotz	Glad to be number 8 in the unanimous agreement. __________________ it's quiet in here

07-28-2003, 05:04 AM	#10 (permalink)
SiN strangelove Location: ...more here than there...	number 9ine. and ditto what phred said. __________________ - + - ° GiRLie GeeK ° - + - ° 01110010011011110110111101110100001000000110110101100101 Therell be days/When Ill stray/I may appear to be/Constantly out of reach/I give in to sin/Because I like to practise what I preach

07-28-2003, 06:54 AM	#11 (permalink)
smithja0423 Guest	Thanks phred.. my thoughts exactly. This cheating issue is turning into the penis-size threads.

07-28-2003, 10:09 AM	#13 (permalink)
Nisses Shade Location: Belgium	Mael, that's not exactly the issue here. The question is not about breaking the law, that's pretty obvious. And I'm gonna go with the general consensus here. Actually, if you're seriously doubting whether it's cheating or not, chances are you already know it is, you're just looking for arguments to validate your behaviour and looking for ways to continue without feeling guilty __________________ Moderation should be moderately moderated.

07-28-2003, 10:15 AM	#14 (permalink)
Slims Eccentric insomniac Location: North Carolina	I don't think you can do anything with another girl (or guy) online that you wouldn't be allowed to do if you were with them in the same room (I.e. no stripping, watching each other masturbate, etc.). __________________ "Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery." - Winston Churchill "All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake in the day to find that it was vanity: but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act out their dream with open eyes, to make it possible." Seven Pillars of Wisdom, T.E. Lawrence

07-28-2003, 10:21 AM	#15 (permalink)
tracer-bullet Upright	It would be like the two of you standing in a room with a glass window between you, and then doing whatever it is you're doing right in front of each other. The distance between you is irrelevant. The glass would be just as much as a barrier as a 1000 miles and the act would be just as wrong. How would your SO feel if you were watching some other woman getting herself off to the sight of you, in the same room? Don't do it. its disrespectful, plain and simple.

07-28-2003, 12:34 PM	#16 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	do not masturbate your stiff member on the camera! this happened to me with a sexy girl and she saved the jpeg pictures for her friends to see! now my stiff member is famous with her friends, but not for sexy. for laughing! it is not funny to me!

07-28-2003, 12:42 PM	#17 (permalink)
jackassidy Tilted	when I read the header for this post, I imagined it being asked by a british guy (try it yourself ). dont know why, but I had no idea what you were talking about. chalk it up to me being a retard.

07-28-2003, 03:01 PM	#19 (permalink)
sub zero Addict Location: The one state that doesn't have black outs: TEXAS BABY!!!	Voted: Yes, its cheating, Dude, you are an asshole. __________________ Did you Google it yet? Join the TFP Typing team!!

07-28-2003, 03:13 PM	#20 (permalink)
Reikes Upright	I am going to go with cheating UNLESS your girlfriend knows.

07-28-2003, 03:18 PM	#21 (permalink)
wiseguy1100 Crazy Location: IA	i am going to go with cheating as well since you are partaking in a sexually related activity with someone other than your SO

07-28-2003, 10:40 PM	#22 (permalink)
Subform Crazy Location: Vordingborg, Denmark	air45: That really doesn't bother me .. I always to the same thing for backup .. I have loads of screenshots. Of all the girls .. __________________ -+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+ Subform - Allover the place

07-28-2003, 11:55 PM	#23 (permalink)
rodgerd Psycho Location: Wellington, New Zealand	Unless your girl is OK with it, it's cheating. If you haven't asked 'cause you think she'd say no, it's cheating.

07-29-2003, 01:39 AM	#24 (permalink)
Subform Crazy Location: Vordingborg, Denmark	I know its wrong .. No question .. But when sitting there its like the smaller head takes over, and i feel desire for watching something i can control .. But thanks all, this is actually just what i needed to stop it .. I've been thinking about it for some time .. Thanks all, this cam fun has come to an end __________________ -+-+-+-+-+-+-+-+ Subform - Allover the place

07-29-2003, 02:15 AM	#25 (permalink)
slimshaydee If you've read this, PM me and say so Location: Sitting on my ass, and you?	Ive got my supply of cam chicks if ever i wanna have some fun, luckily for me I dont have a gf right now, but if I had one I wouldnt do any of the stuff I do on cam right now

07-29-2003, 02:36 AM	#26 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	This is another one of those threads that's done over and over again. Question: "Is _(Fill in the blank)_ considered cheating?" Answer: Ask your significant other. We can't correctly answer for him/her. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

07-29-2003, 06:06 AM	#27 (permalink)
HaloLauren Banned	It's definately cheating if you're communicating with her. It's not as bad if she's on a website and you're just watching.

07-29-2003, 06:49 AM	#28 (permalink)
jbrooks544 Addict	I think if you are just watching the cam, just like you would passively look at a photo on the internet or a movie, then it is just wacking off to porn on the internet. Whether that is cheating is really up to you S.O. Some women would consider that cheating, any that I have been with wouldn't - or I wouldn't have been with them. If you are beaming her a cam of yourself and you are communicating back to her and interacting then that seems much more akin to "cheating". It would be safe to assume that that would be cheating unless your S.O. says it isn't. Anything that your S.O. knows about and approves isn't cheating - unless she says it is. With some couples, having sex with another person isn't cheating but it is known beforehand.