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05-09-2011, 08:08 PM
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Both my girlfriend and I masturbate...We both know about it, are not concerned by it. It does not detract from our sex life. Sometimes when one of us does not feel up for sex then the other will matsurbate next to them just to get that relief. No big deal.
I know that from past relationships not all people are open to masturbation, which I find dissapointing, frustrating and stifling to an open and honest sexual relationship. |
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05-16-2011, 12:31 AM
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I find talking about self servicing unsexy, moodkilling and I suppose a little un-lady like... would much prefer action to self satisfying haha I find it pretty boring, and only do it to serve the purpose of myself not going completely crazy every so often or if I have a lover that doesn't meet my needs sexually. Maybe over time it's one of those things that will develop and I'll be more comfortable but masturbation and foreplay, just feel incredibly awkward...less natural!
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05-16-2011, 09:18 AM
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i masterbate on accasion. my wife knows about it. she has caught me once or twice. She on the other hand dosent. she never has. i can get her to put her hand on top of mine while i rub her (stuff) and shes ok with that but shw wont do it on her own. she never has. she has come along way sexually in the 11 years we have been married (12 in june). I wish she would but i dont push the issue
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06-02-2011, 09:33 AM
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My previous boyfriend and I found ourselves quickly in a long distance relationship where we only get to see each other on weekends. One day, I was feeling pretty kinky and I knew we'd be on SKype soon, so I did what I do best. I started without him.
He was very eager to join in and then talk about it afterwards. That is how I introduced masturbation to my previous boyfriend. All of my past boyfriends love the fact that I am adventurous and that I enjoy masturbation. It is not something I can keep a secret for very long. |
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06-02-2011, 10:57 AM
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I think its perfectly normal for a woman to masturbate. Ive had women that like mutual masturbation and I have to admit, I like it as well. I encourage it. And take part in it if she'll let me. A tongue and a dildo can do wonders for a woman. Jus sayin. Im very very open about my sexuality and I like partners who are the same.
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