ChickenMuffin

Was fingering my gf and noticed how her vagina was able to fit 3 of my fingers in which normally she couldn't. Do fingering the vagina over time will help stretch the hole wider/bigger? I've been consistently using 2 fingers and I have tried using 3 fingers once like awhile back ago and it was just too tight but just today I was able to fit in 3 easily and comfortably.

So I'm having hunches now that she could have been using toys like dildos without consulting with me. Or is this normal?

Cynthetiq

Should she be consulting you if she wants to masturbate? Do you own her or something?

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Punk.of.Ages

If you keep playing with it, it will stretch some. Hell, if she's just feeling particularly horny that day you'll be able get more stretch out of it without causing discomfort...

No need to worry about her cheating on you with the Vibrofuck 3000 (as intimidating as he is).

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KirStang

1.) Good to see you're alive and kicking with your sexual curiosity. I was wondering where you went after your 'wanting to get bigger' thread.

2.) Her masturbation should not be of your concern. Women need to get off, just like us men do.

3.) Some women can loosen up over time. It might depend on kegels, loosening up after sexual activity with your, or other things. I've been with a girl for 3 consecutive days--on the first day, it felt much tighter, but by the 3rd day, it was noticeably not-as-tight (noticeably looser, but not really loose per se).

dlish

Dear Muffin,

im hoping that you have disclosed to her all the times you've masturbated to henga porn since you have been with her.

even then, she still doesnt have to tell you if shes masturbated.

That said, she's probably got pics of your friends she's jilling off to

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Plan9

You're like the Middle Eastern Jazz. Asshole with a tan. I can't wait to buy you some warm milk.

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ChickenMuffin (aka Plan9's Alternate Account),

The vagina is amazingly elastic. It'll take whatever you can throw at it, including unwanted offspring. Does it still feel good when you screw?

If so, no worries. Being able to fit three fingers might be a good sign. She might be more comfortable with you / aroused by you. Cool, huh?

I mean, normal prep for most girls that wanna play alternate love canal is 2-3 fingers. And that's not the expandovagmatic... that's the ass.

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The_Jazz

Yeah, be less possessive of girlfriends. That's a good general guideline. It's a small step from being overly possessive to throwing a punch. Don't go down that road. It's her body, she can masturbate if she wants to, however she wants to.

But to answer your question, it could easily be that she was more turned on by whatever you were doing. It could also be that you were inserting your fingers too early in the foreplay before and now you're demonstrating some patience.

Actually, it's most likely that she's getting stretched out from my massive cock, but that's another thread altogether.

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Plan9

Is it 10 inches and hard as steel?

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MSD

I've got some news for you, this is what the vagina is designed to do (obviously NSFW) Medical Videos - Natural Vaginal Child Birth Delivery Video- Obstetrics and Gynecolog
That's a hell of a lot wider than three fingers.

snowy

I knew I could rely on the gents of TFP to set ChickenMuffin straight.

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mixedmedia

increasing arousal = increasing vaginal elasticity.

most likely you just weren't making her horny at first.

now she is fantasizing while you finger her. or she really likes you.

either or.

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MSD

Yeah, but she doesn't really like you until you can get your whole fist in.

mixedmedia

I don't think I have one of those vaginas that can fit a whole fist.

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MSD

Wait a minute, I thought you had kids

Lendari

You know entire kids can come out of those things right?

MSD

I posted the same thing and even included a video to prove it.

mixedmedia

I had cesarean sections with all my kids.

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MSD

Then it might take some practice before you can get three full fingers in there

Fire

I am a little late to the party here, but......
seriously, her pussy loosening up for you is a good thing- also, her masturbating like a spidermonkey is also a great thing, as it has been shown that positive sexual gratification, ie orgasm tends to equate to the desire for more orgasms (this should be obvious, but there have been studies, funded by taxpayer money no less) anywho, you being interested in her cumming is good, you being a controlling asshole is bad, and if you are afraid of the vibrator, it means that you are insecure..... If she replaces you with it, it is cause you are a dick, not cause your dick is too little... hell, encourage her to masturbate, it keeps it warm for you while you are not there and discourages her from finding another guy to do it....

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troy512

my former wife had three kids... naturally!

she said not to give more than two fingers and when we did it from behind it hurt.

now she is fucking a black 19 year old.

Daniel_

Check the recent "Asian Dick" thread for plenty of anecdotal evidence that some black guys have small dicks.

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