Not quite public sex
 

Do you engage it sexual activity with your partner that is almost but not quite public? In places where you are pretty much hidden but you could get caught if someone was paying attention or happened to stroll by? Like in the car on a parking lot? Or while hiking along a trail? Or on a hotel balcony over a boardwalk, etc.?

What kinds of things do you do?

Do you usually initiate the activity or does your partner?

Yes, fucked in a city park at night. A couple of times.

It was quick. And hot. And many years ago.

Yep I love it! Used to do it more often, but we still will, on occasion, partake.

Examples:

-5 feet from a walking trail in the middle of the night, while people actually were walking by but it was dark enough where I don't think they could see us
-10 feet from a group of campers, just beyond where the thick woods began, in broad daylight
-backstage during a play
-on the balcony of a different playhouse, while dress rehearsal was happening
-on someone else's sailboat that was anchored on a lake we were swimming in
-on the back porch at a party that was still very much in full swing
-On the roof of a building downtown with numerous taller buildings around
-road head
-HJ in a crowded movie theater
-etc

It was pretty easy to initiate, just start with maybe a romantic stroll through the woods with hand-holding, etc. and little kisses turn into making out, and so on. The building one was a little different, that was "hey let's go have sex up there" and she was like, "sounds good." Back in the day it was much easier when we didn't have our own place. Now that we do, it's sort of harder but still, on occasion, happens. Mostly while vacationing somewhere new

On chatroulette.com,
baseball dugout during the day,
school bathrooms,
elevator of Borders,
staircase to upper parking lot in back of Borders,
Rite Aid back parking lot,
and some more.

Me and my ex liked the thrill of having sex in public because the chance of being caught made it quite interesting.

It was basically mutually agreed that if we were horny we would just find somewhere to have sex even if that meant in a very open and public place. It was either me or her that initiated it, not always me, not always her.

Just last night I had sex with onodrim outside the car on a rural farm road. So yes, I do engage in such things :p

Now come on, Smeth. Wacking off in a corn field by yourself hardly counts for public sex. I mean, who here hasn't done THAT?

There, fixed my post for you ;)

Well that took away my other obvious joke of "did you tell onodrim yet?"

Be here all week. Don't forget your cat-headed waitress.

Jazz, I would have went with the running backwards through a cornfield joke. I'd figure you would love one more chance to talk about someone getting a hard phallic object shoved up their ass. Man... I figure you insurance guys would be all over that like white on rice.

Smeth, I am both surprised and impressed! :)

I like the semi-risky kinda public sex. Unfortunately, my wife so far is not amenable to the idea. I am working on sex outside, but probably not going to be anywhere risky....

In the interest of the topic, though, I have done so with exes, some more than others. One of my first girlfriends, when I was in high school, was big on the risky sex, and she got me hooked. We did it in the bleachers of various high school athletic fields, behind clubs and bars, on the roof of Griffith Park Observatory (windy), on lookout pulloffs on Mulholland Drive, in Grauman's Chinese Theater (buttsex, during The Hunt For Red October, for the record), in City Hall, at the LA County Museum of Art (bathroom, next to a David Hockney exhibit), in the stacks at USC Library (good thing nobody was looking up issues of archaeological journals from the first three decades of the twentieth century), and once in a public park, where we got caught in flagrante delicto by a passing cop, who lectured us harshly but let us off with a warning (my GF, who was Scottish, laughed at me all the way home, repeating, "He could see yer willy!")....

We both initiated at various times, because we both were extremely easy.

It's kind of a tradition on our way back from our yearly visit to Iowa :p This year we ended up doing it in the nighttime, but in years past we've found a spot while there was still daylight. :) It's surprisingly difficult, even in farmland, to find a spot where you can be reasonably confident no one will drive by!Nice!

not so far
but sounds like it will be berry nice to do such naughty things

Yeah, but it costs a fortune in drinks...

...of course when she's pressed up against a dumpster behind some sleazy rock club at 3 in the morning, well then its worth every penny.

I've always been willing to throw caution to the wind, if I'm mid-passion. Have not really actually gone through with it most time, usually the participant decides it's a "no." Most memorable time it DIDN'T get quashed was one night after driving late into the night, reaching Key Largo with the g/f at the time, and having sex in the motel room, then carrying her right outside, right in the middle, and finishing it on the trunk of the car. Chaching, very memorable.

well played, sir

Why thank you RM...although its odd I find this thread bumped tonight as I just got lucky in Bicentennial park here in Nashville last night...awesome!

I stumbled out of Printers Alley around 11ish, drunk, holding the hand of a strange yet intoxicatingly attractive blond I met smoking outside of a club. The sweet sexual tension carried us like a feather on the wind up 6th ave, we stopped to make out in front of the capital building before our drunken amber haze somehow carried us down to the park, past the fountains, the supreme court and the farmers market. There against the granite timeline we made sweet passionate drunken rednecky Saturday night Nashville love...and MY GOD the orgasms...like a honeymoon in Niagara falls minus the tacky orange ponchos. She screamed out my name and I didn't care that she got it wrong because it was hot! There is just something so special about ugly doggy style sex hidden in the shadows of a state monument that just makes it feel so goddamn dirty.

Saturday nights in Music City are spectacular.

The above statement may or may not be heavily embellished due to large quantities of Jack Daniels and Yazoo pale ale that I have yet to sleep off...the outdoor sex however was graphically real.

Did you get her number? ;)

You know CaliLivChick I didn't and I'm kind of kicking myself today. Despite being VERY intoxicated I seem to remember she was quite attractive and I'd like another go around when I'm not in danger of pissing myself and passing out on the capital steps.

Then again what do I know? Beer goggles can be a spiteful, angry, deceitful master.

Okay, the other question, because it's obvious you had a good time... did you use protection?

Yes, yes I did. I always...ALWAYS use protection. I could put a condom on in my sleep.

Middle of the afternoon. In the car. Interstate 29 rest area in Missouri.

Lindy

Was driving my gf to the RenFest, and she climbed on top of me on I-75 while driving. We got a very enthusiastic two thumbs up from a passing trucker :)

I'm all for adventurous sex. You can fuck in the middle of the village square with bells on for all I care.

But please don't do that again. It's really stupid and you put not only your life on the line, but other people who expect you to be in control of your vehicle.

I agree there Cap'n Kirk, getting some behind the wheel is awesome but find a place pull over and enjoy yourself. :thumbsup:

Anyway best place for "not quite public sex"? A canoe drifting in the middle of a secluded like on a summer afternoon. If you haven't tried it, then I recommend paying if you have to but get on it and soon!

While the concept interests me, I'm extremely paranoid about ever getting caught having sex (and yes I know it WILL happen at some point in my life) so I doubt I'd ever actually pull something that can get me a sex offender label.

Either that or you have the world's most powerful erection and some part of a monument in Nashville that looks like a drunken woodpecker with a titanium beak had at it all night.

That seriously made me nearly loose a mouthful of beer all over my keyboard...evil!!! Yet very funny. :D

Sadly, I haven't knocked boots in a public place yet yet.
I have experienced a little bit of car activity, but that was before a more private room was available (I was still in high school).
Now, I can't even bring myself to try. I think my anxiety about getting caught would really suck all the fun out of it for me.
Maybe one day...

I admit taking a little inspiration from this EXTREMELY NSFW Oglaf NSFW comic. Seriously NSFW, or anywhere really.

i was with a lady friend, we parked in the lot of the local grocery store, in was in the afternoon and very busy. we parked at the far back of the lot but still had many cars going by us to go park. She leaned over and gave me a bj.it was exciting and a thrill for both of us i think she got off on it just as much as i did. When we were done we noticed a truck parked about 4 or 5 parking spot from us with a fellow sitting in it. we are not sure if he was there when we parked there or he came along after (no pun) I zipped up she straighened out we went in got what we needed and away we went. It was such a turn we had to do it again. it adds spice to life. I have another to add another day.

I have to admit this is a big turn on to me and hubby (and two of my FB's)

In the car, anywhere except where kids might be.
Park at night.
Believe it or not, graveyards are hot! Find the marble slabs that are full length. in the summer these are always cool and inviting!

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Dressing room

Men's restroom in a bar or restaurant (better of the place is really busy!)

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My wife and I were pretty adventurous but we have since quieted down some since the two kiddos spawned. We could hardly drive a mile before pulling over somewhere to get frisky.

This weekend I participated in an outdoor show with rows of rental tents that held various art and artisan creations. My Lady suggested we should give the tent positive energy to counterbalance the terrible weather and lack of crowds. So we got to the venue a little early and slipped into the tent and carried on using a combination of a lawn chair and a stool - going round and round from this to that and back again.

It was difficult to keep quiet during the buildup, and definitely difficult during the finale, but the sounds of the brisk wind snapping the canvas of the tents around us, and the people beside us clattering and fussing while setting up/tidying up after the nights wind and rain damage covered any inadvertent noises us two lovebirds were making.

I must say that I smiled many times the rest of the weekend of the show when I thought of our heated start that day. A morning to remember :thumbsup:

I had to quote you just in case you decided to edit this post.

I have to say, dude, you are involved in more sexcapades than a slut with daddy issues ... it's just terrible. You know what they say about people like you, you probably lack self esteem and are trying to fill that dark devoid black hole in your chest with meaningless sexual encounters. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Translation: Can I get your number ... I'd like to hang out sometime.

No, I never have really. I once got a blow job under a canal bridge... but I was 18 and drunk at the time.

The fear of getting caight far outweighs any beneficial feelings I might have from it.

I have sometimes had this fantasy about screwing a really hot chick in the centre circle of a football ground at half time while the crowd of 25,000 all chant my name... but I dont think I could really do it.

Too many places to list. (now I'm blushing...)

Yeah, risky public sex can be pretty damn hot with the right person.

It's been a long time since I've been that lucky and in the right place for another outdoor adventure. I do miss it though!

Haha! Nice :D Heck any time my friend. But hey I may be a 30 year old bachelor with an empty void who cries himself to sleep at night cradling a pillow with a blond wig stapled to it that I've named Madison...

...but gal dang it the the dirty, empty, unfulfilling, emotionless, slutty sex is just so fucking spectacular.

Yes, my gf and I did it a few times in a park, in the car in front of my house with the doors open; in front of her house, in my kitchen, hallway and living room late at night fully naked, on her porch, on the beach (in the car), road head, on a hotel balcony. The hotel balcony was the most exciting. We were on the 11th floor, it was raining outside, we can see the streets and other buildings near by, anyone along that floor and that height could of seen us, or if someone from the street looked up. We started on the bed and worked our way around the room, then to the balcony, She blew me off for awhile, then i did her from behind, back down to more blowing, from the front standing up, on the floor in front of the balcony door. We were soaking wet and it was so intense. I look forward to doing more of those balcony adventures and more places outside. Such as a bike trail late nite or behind the bushes, on a empty street, etc.

We went to a show at the local bar and when we came out there was this dark stetch of road with some very big old trees. we went behnd one and had a real great time as people were walking by.