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Discord · 07-08-2003, 06:39 AM

Hi everyone...

I'm a bit of a newbie/lurker here, making one of those rare posts from time to time. For as much activity as there is here, and as many members as there are, I figured it would be a good place to ask for a bit of advice. If this is in the wrong place, I apologise, and mods...please move it were it needs to go!

Ok...basic scenario...two girls, one guy (me!). I'm 26, never married, no kids, moving up in my career. I live in one location, girls in two different ones, both about 2.5 hours away.

Girl 1 - 42, no kids, was with her for 4 years. We mesh great together personality wise, but sex is sorta uneventful. We sorta split, to focus on jobs and whatnot, kinda agreed to not see others. I still talk to her, still visit with her, still have a relationship of sorts (still having sex too when I see her). My parents don't approve due to the age difference, and probably never will. Bottom line, we get along great. She's one of those "nice girls" for the most part.

Girl 2 - 28, married (well, seperated, but living together, no relationship to speak of), one child. Met her before I moved about 4 months ago to my present location. Sex...out of this world...no doubt about it. Anything goes. Personality, we get along quite well. She's a little needy though, constant contact, but I still dig her. She's got a record (her parents put her in jail when she was 18), was hooked on crack, and has probably blown 60+ guys. I can get over that. She's sexy as hell and usually has a good attitude.
Bottom line, we fight quite a bit, but I just can't seem to let go of her, and her of me...we get along great when we are together, being apart is hell (more for her than me, but she makes it hell for me).

My question...what the hell would you do if in this situation?

-Anders · 07-08-2003, 06:58 AM

Yeah, you see - i'm not going to give you any guidance on this subject, sorry.
You're the one who knows theese girls, and you alone must make the decision of wich of the girls to be with, not anyone else.
Youre the one that's going to be spending your life(or some of it) with the one you choose, not us.

It would be unfair for us to make the decision for you.

Discord · 07-08-2003, 07:03 AM

Not asking for a decision, that's totally up to me.

Asking for opinions from people on what they would do based on the given info, if put in a similar situation. ie- go for #1, go for #2, get the fuck outta dodge...etc...

GSRIDER · 07-08-2003, 08:02 AM

Don't worry about the girl with the record... hell I have a record... lots of people have records.

Whats in the past in in the past.

Older lady, sex not so good, keep her as a good friend cause thats what you seem to be head towards anyways.

absorbentishe · 07-08-2003, 08:28 AM

Older lady, bad sex = friend with benefits

Younger chic, great sex = hand on to.

If you have to fall back on older chic, do so, just keep that relationship in tact if you can.

SIIa109 · 07-08-2003, 09:17 AM

Personally I had a girlfreind in college and we had great sex. I dumped her after 5 years because sex was 75% of the reason I liked her and I wanted more.

I'm an idiot.

Now I have a wife and a kid who makes me laugh can talk about anything under the sun, and all I focus on is the ho-hum sex we have (if we have it).

Find a chick with money and had no father figure in her life and swallows you will be happy.

Flame undies strapped on tight .....LOL

baudot · 07-08-2003, 09:45 AM

If you love them both, love them both.
You love one of them? Love that one.

To thine own self be true, and all that.

Nova_Dust · 07-08-2003, 10:22 AM

Blown 60+ guys? What is she, a self-proclaimed porn star? Ya ya ya we all know that's all in the past... but man 60+ guys? Way to go girl!

*Ahem*

Well my friend, your career goes first, then relationship, then sex.

Enough said.

tec-9-7 · 07-08-2003, 12:01 PM

How much drama does the 28 yr old chick come with?

Discord · 07-08-2003, 06:11 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by tec-9-7
How much drama does the 28 yr old chick come with?

Hmmm....now that you mention it....quite a bit more than I'm used to...didn't think about that....

tec-9-7 · 07-09-2003, 04:54 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Discord
Hmmm....now that you mention it....quite a bit more than I'm used to...didn't think about that....

Well you'd better consider it because odds are it will never get better and will likely get worse.

If the sex is worth it, great, if not, well, it's something to consider.

Paul

07-08-2003, 06:39 AM	#1 (permalink)
Discord Upright Location: Hampton Roads, VA	What would you do? (long..sorry!) Hi everyone... I'm a bit of a newbie/lurker here, making one of those rare posts from time to time. For as much activity as there is here, and as many members as there are, I figured it would be a good place to ask for a bit of advice. If this is in the wrong place, I apologise, and mods...please move it were it needs to go! Ok...basic scenario...two girls, one guy (me!). I'm 26, never married, no kids, moving up in my career. I live in one location, girls in two different ones, both about 2.5 hours away. Girl 1 - 42, no kids, was with her for 4 years. We mesh great together personality wise, but sex is sorta uneventful. We sorta split, to focus on jobs and whatnot, kinda agreed to not see others. I still talk to her, still visit with her, still have a relationship of sorts (still having sex too when I see her). My parents don't approve due to the age difference, and probably never will. Bottom line, we get along great. She's one of those "nice girls" for the most part. Girl 2 - 28, married (well, seperated, but living together, no relationship to speak of), one child. Met her before I moved about 4 months ago to my present location. Sex...out of this world...no doubt about it. Anything goes. Personality, we get along quite well. She's a little needy though, constant contact, but I still dig her. She's got a record (her parents put her in jail when she was 18), was hooked on crack, and has probably blown 60+ guys. I can get over that. She's sexy as hell and usually has a good attitude. Bottom line, we fight quite a bit, but I just can't seem to let go of her, and her of me...we get along great when we are together, being apart is hell (more for her than me, but she makes it hell for me). My question...what the hell would you do if in this situation?

07-08-2003, 06:58 AM	#2 (permalink)
-Anders Custom title. Location: Denmark.	Yeah, you see - i'm not going to give you any guidance on this subject, sorry. You're the one who knows theese girls, and you alone must make the decision of wich of the girls to be with, not anyone else. Youre the one that's going to be spending your life(or some of it) with the one you choose, not us. It would be unfair for us to make the decision for you. __________________ Signature 101

07-08-2003, 08:02 AM	#4 (permalink)
GSRIDER spurt king Location: Out of my mind	Don't worry about the girl with the record... hell I have a record... lots of people have records. Whats in the past in in the past. Older lady, sex not so good, keep her as a good friend cause thats what you seem to be head towards anyways. __________________ No signature at this time.

07-08-2003, 07:03 AM	#3 (permalink)
Discord Upright Location: Hampton Roads, VA	Not asking for a decision, that's totally up to me. Asking for opinions from people on what they would do based on the given info, if put in a similar situation. ie- go for #1, go for #2, get the fuck outta dodge...etc...

07-08-2003, 08:28 AM	#5 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	Older lady, bad sex = friend with benefits Younger chic, great sex = hand on to. If you have to fall back on older chic, do so, just keep that relationship in tact if you can.

07-08-2003, 09:17 AM	#6 (permalink)
SIIa109 Upright	Personally I had a girlfreind in college and we had great sex. I dumped her after 5 years because sex was 75% of the reason I liked her and I wanted more. I'm an idiot. Now I have a wife and a kid who makes me laugh can talk about anything under the sun, and all I focus on is the ho-hum sex we have (if we have it). Find a chick with money and had no father figure in her life and swallows you will be happy. Flame undies strapped on tight .....LOL

07-08-2003, 09:45 AM	#7 (permalink)
baudot Tilted Location: Today: St. Louis.	If you love them both, love them both. You love one of them? Love that one. To thine own self be true, and all that.

07-08-2003, 10:22 AM	#8 (permalink)
Nova_Dust Upright Location: Toronto	Blown 60+ guys? What is she, a self-proclaimed porn star? Ya ya ya we all know that's all in the past... but man 60+ guys? Way to go girl! Ahem Well my friend, your career goes first, then relationship, then sex. Enough said.

07-08-2003, 12:01 PM	#9 (permalink)
tec-9-7 Insane Location: Rainy Washington	How much drama does the 28 yr old chick come with?