sex with self is better than sex with partner! - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

morepleasure · 01-24-2010, 03:37 AM

usually have better sex when masturbate than with partner - self sex is sensual, involves lot of interesting fantasy - regular partner sex has become routine - any ideas!?

Dudkin · 01-24-2010, 04:15 AM

Get another partner

morepleasure · 01-24-2010, 04:29 AM

well - yes sex with new lovers is more fun - but in a serious relationship

Dudkin · 01-24-2010, 05:27 AM

Ok....
i don't know what kind of fantasies you have but you can always try to "fulfill' your fantasies with your partner.

genuinegirly · 01-24-2010, 06:04 AM

3 pieces of advice:

1 - Try avoiding masturbating for an extended period of time before having sex with a partner. The relief of finally having sex will make up for some of it.

2 - You know how you tick, if you don't enjoy the adventure of your partner figuring out how you tick, don't be afraid to show them.

3 - Sex can be a very mental thing. Getting yourself in the right frame of mind is important. Setting up the situation with your lover can be key to having more enjoyable sex.

Bubkin · 01-24-2010, 06:14 AM

Same here, buddy. I too prefer masturbating than having sex with my (a bit obese) girlfriend. A trick I learned over time: masturbate as part of the sex act. It's like sex for her, and fun for you.

Dudkin · 01-24-2010, 06:27 AM

Same for me Bubkin!
That is why i suggested him to invite his friend to our bedroom, nonsuccess :\

Xerxys · 01-24-2010, 06:48 AM

This thread is going to the third circle of hell.

That is a very special hell.

It's reserved for child molesters.

And people who talk in movie theaters!

curiousbear · 01-24-2010, 09:01 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by genuinegirly

3 pieces of advice:

1 - Try avoiding masturbating for an extended period of time before having sex with a partner. The relief of finally having sex will make up for some of it.

2 - You know how you tick, if you don't enjoy the adventure of your partner figuring out how you tick, don't be afraid to show them.

3 - Sex can be a very mental thing. Getting yourself in the right frame of mind is important. Setting up the situation with your lover can be key to having more enjoyable sex.

All the above depends what kind of partner you have !

OP, I had same ATTITUDE some time back. But now things have changed due to lot of OPEN COMMUNICATION. Now sex with self and her is equally good

Anormalguy · 01-25-2010, 08:14 PM

I'll take making love with my wife over masturbation anytime.

And we've been married for over 22 years.

LordEden · 01-26-2010, 05:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xerxys

This thread is going to the third circle of hell.

That is a very special hell.

It's reserved for child molesters.

And people who talk in movie theaters!

1. Thou shall not quote Firefly in Tilted Sexuality.

Bear Cub · 01-27-2010, 07:24 PM

Do her sister.

Or her mother.

Cernunnos · 01-27-2010, 10:30 PM

What excites you most during masturbation? Any particular ideas, images, or fantasies? Could those be implemented through sex with your partner? If not, why?

Also, are you experiencing relationship problems outside of the bedroom?

morepleasure · 01-29-2010, 04:00 AM

i would love to have a 3some with her - with another guy - love to have her suck me - while he slides his cock inside her pussy - but have problems talking her into it.

Often fantasise she is sucking me - while he is sliding his cock into her pussy - just above my head while I masturbate! - yum, that makes me cum!!

01-24-2010, 03:37 AM	#1 (permalink)
morepleasure Banned	sex with self is better than sex with partner! usually have better sex when masturbate than with partner - self sex is sensual, involves lot of interesting fantasy - regular partner sex has become routine - any ideas!?

01-24-2010, 06:04 AM	#5 (permalink)
genuinegirly Eat your vegetables Super Moderator Location: Arabidopsis-ville	3 pieces of advice: 1 - Try avoiding masturbating for an extended period of time before having sex with a partner. The relief of finally having sex will make up for some of it. 2 - You know how you tick, if you don't enjoy the adventure of your partner figuring out how you tick, don't be afraid to show them. 3 - Sex can be a very mental thing. Getting yourself in the right frame of mind is important. Setting up the situation with your lover can be key to having more enjoyable sex. __________________ "Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq "violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy

01-25-2010, 08:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
Anormalguy After School Special Moralist Location: Large City, Texas.	I'll take making love with my wife over masturbation anytime. And we've been married for over 22 years. __________________ In a society where the individual is not free to pursue the truth...there is neither progress, stability nor security.--Edward R. Murrow

01-27-2010, 07:24 PM	#12 (permalink)
Bear Cub The Reverend Side Boob Location: Nofe Curolina	Do her sister. Or her mother. __________________ Living in the United Socialist States of America.

01-24-2010, 04:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
Dudkin Upright Location: Tel Aviv, Israel	Get another partner

01-24-2010, 04:29 AM	#3 (permalink)
morepleasure Banned	well - yes sex with new lovers is more fun - but in a serious relationship

01-24-2010, 05:27 AM	#4 (permalink)
Dudkin Upright Location: Tel Aviv, Israel	Ok.... i don't know what kind of fantasies you have but you can always try to "fulfill' your fantasies with your partner.

01-24-2010, 06:14 AM	#6 (permalink)
Bubkin Upright Location: Tel-Aviv, Israel	Same here, buddy. I too prefer masturbating than having sex with my (a bit obese) girlfriend. A trick I learned over time: masturbate as part of the sex act. It's like sex for her, and fun for you.

01-24-2010, 06:27 AM	#7 (permalink)
Dudkin Upright Location: Tel Aviv, Israel	Same for me Bubkin! That is why i suggested him to invite his friend to our bedroom, nonsuccess :\

01-24-2010, 06:48 AM	#8 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	This thread is going to the third circle of hell. That is a very special hell. It's reserved for child molesters. And people who talk in movie theaters!

01-27-2010, 10:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
Cernunnos Insane Location: Orlando, Florida	What excites you most during masturbation? Any particular ideas, images, or fantasies? Could those be implemented through sex with your partner? If not, why? Also, are you experiencing relationship problems outside of the bedroom?

01-29-2010, 04:00 AM	#14 (permalink)
morepleasure Banned	i would love to have a 3some with her - with another guy - love to have her suck me - while he slides his cock inside her pussy - but have problems talking her into it. Often fantasise she is sucking me - while he is sliding his cock into her pussy - just above my head while I masturbate! - yum, that makes me cum!!