NotSoInnocent

I'm trying to up the ante in the bedroom and I'm looking for some fresh dirty talk suggestions.

What have you said that's made your partner go crazy, or what do you like to hear?

Strange Famous

I think if youre just copying something someone tells you it wont work so well

Its probably more the attitude and the expression that counts, not the words.

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But in terms of what I like to hear, like in an ideal world - anything about how strong and manly I am; what a big ugly brutish rugged bastard I am, etc...

In terms of things Ive said, I wouldnt say them in a public forum just to talk about it, and I guess thats maybe the point.

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Toaster126

Ask them what they like to hear/want you to say to them at some non-sex time, then you can extrapolate from that so you are meeting their needs without just copy and pasting their words back to them.

Some people like graphic talk, some like narration of what you are doing/going to do, some want to be demeaned, some want to be romanced. Sometimes the same person likes several ways and likes them mixed up. Ask.

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Lady Bear Cub

I just say whatever seems appropriate at the moment.

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raging moderate

if you're looking for a good place to start, just start kinda describing what you're doing and what you're about to do, etc. Try not to be super crass about it if she's sensitive about it, and just go for it.

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